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E-mail: Ldiva223@tmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: queens new york
Occupation: I want to become a phycologist
Age: 16
AIM: Ldiva223
Member Since: September 27, 2009
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Hello ,
So okay , show story is me and this guy hung out we met up after 1-2 years and so , we did things got phsyical. And I went down on him and his thing was hanging out while I went up to kiss him and it was on me , but the thing is I haven't gotten' my period yet , am I pregnant?
Please help:(
Thank you ,
Betty (link)
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Don't worry as long as the penis wasn't in the virgina there is nothing to worry about , the reason your period hasn't came is because your stressing over the fact that you think your pregnant. Just relax hun
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Ok so I just got into a relationship with this guy. He is really sweet and cute. Last night we were chatting over facebook and he told me he wants to go to the movies and finger me when we are there. I am 13 and i wanna know if i should? and if i do what should i know.. when he does is my cherry gonna pop? And is it gonna hurt? I think he only likes me to have sex with me but I am only 13 im not ready to have sex.. Ok well Please Help Me! (link)
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Okay let me start off by saying any boy that wants to do something like that in a public place has no respect for you . Stuff like that should be done in private so no one can see or hear . I think you shouldn't do that . You may bleed if he pushes his finger into deep but you are still gonna be a virgin . Sweet take your time don't rush . There are plenty of guys out there and you are to young , if you feel he want you for sex don't even waste your time because you will regret it
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Movingg on is something I need to do!
One night I was with this other guy, I was smiling, laughing, and I was happy(: But then the radio was on and mine and my exes song came on and I started crying. This guy had no idea why I was crying so he just kept hugging me asking me what's wrong, and I told him I wasn't ready to move on and I'm sorry. So he left. He started dating one of my old friends, and Me? I was stuck on the ex. Me and that girl became friends again because we talked about our problems. Now theyy aren't together anymore but she's in love with him, and I'm finally ready to move on! and I feel like he's the only guy I could move on withh! What should I do? (link)
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Okay there are many guys out there for you , and if that's your friend I don't think you should mess with him because never put a guy over your friend and family , because guys come and go but your friends and family will be there no matter what , and u can look for someone out there because there is always someone out there better then the last remember that
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My white bra always shows through when I wear a white tee is this ok? I've tried multiple white tees and they all showthrough. Is this ok? A cami underneath is not
possible with most of my outfits. So is this ok? (link)
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Honestly its not cute when you wear a white shirt put on a black bra because it doesn't show under your clothes. You have to present your self properly remember that sweety
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15/f
I could never trust anyone but my closest relatives.Everyone I knew would betray me.People would always make fun of me for reasons I wasn't familiar with.First there were the ones I went to elementary school with.I'm not exaggerating when I say I had almost no friends at all.Only a few out of hundreds of them could actually understand me.For 8 years it seemed like nothing would ever change.I thought they hated me because I was and still am a straight A's student who doesn't like going out at night and getting into trouble.But that's not all.I had a boyfriend who I was truly in love with.He was with me for 7 months,but then cheated on me with my best friend who ended up not caring about me and went for him.I was destroyed for months.He was my everything and I grew up with her.Luckily,my grades remained the same.The thing is I can't bring myself to trust anyone now.Especially boys.For some weird reason I always think they're kidding me.I'm in first year of high school now,and today a guy from my class who's apparently hitting on me came up to me and said I was the hottest girl in class,and instead of feeling good about it,I wanted to slap him! I did say thanks though,but I have major trust issues!I always think people hate me and make fun of me behind my back... I want to fix it but I'm lost and I don't know how.I hate when some people who are good to me,mostly girls tell me they wish they were me,because they have no idea how I feel and what emotional mess I am.What should I do about this? It's just too much for someone my age to handle.Thanks for taking your time to read this. (link)
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Welll you are to young for this. But I mean it does happen . I mean you can't trust everyone . But you have to really get to know people to call them your friend . I lost a lot of people in my life . And I thought they where my friend but they just use me . So now I am very careful with who I say is my friend . I look at how they treat other people how they treat themselves and etc . And to be honest I only have 3 real female friends. And now for the boys part . Not all boys are the same . You just have to keep looking . Look for the qualties thatb your ex boyfriend had but then try to find better. And try not to make sure your friends and boyfriend get to close . And explain to the new boy you meet. Tel him what your not interested in and tell him you have no time to play games and you have no time for your heart get broken . Try it . And be honest with people let them know from the beginning of what you do and don't like . So then they will make the decision if they wanna be with you or not . And it will cause less pain to you because you told them from the beginning . And there is notthinfg wrong with being smart sweety .
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I am 19 and have a 4 1/2 yr old daughter and my boyfriend has a 18 month old son that lives with us. I am now very pregnant with twins.
Today, after I had picked up the kids from pre-school and daycare, I went into the store to pick up some things for dinner. While I was picking up the baby and putting him in the cart, my little girl was playing by the quarter machines. A woman (probably about 30 years old) saw me and said, "Aren't you a little young to have a baby with another one on the way?" I didn't get a chance to say anything when my daughter came running over, screaming, "Mommy!!!" The woman just looked at me glared, shook her head, and left. I just wonder what people must think of me. Yes, I made some really poor choices in my life but I would like the chance to talk about it so maybe some other girls wouldn't go the same route I did. It's not uncommon for me to get crazy looks or stares when I'm out with the kids--or even just one of the kids! At least I'm taking full responsibility for my actions by raising my children the right way. It's just A LOT harder with me being so young. What would you think if you saw me in the supermarket? What would you say to me?
Thanks (link)
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Honestly . Don't worry about what people said about you. Because it seems to me that your taking car of your kids better then a 30 year old women would . People is going to talk about you regardless . Don't let it effect you . Okay you made a mistake and your taking care of it . Your a good mother don't worry about it . My mother always told me . When she looked at me she knew everything was going to be okay . And I know that's how you think. So just continue to do you and worry about you and your kids .and the next time someone says something like that to you say yes . I am there mother and im doing what I know best . And im living up to it .
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I am a girl and i really don't like my skin color. Last year, people used to make fun of me :( and i cant take it anymore...is there anyway i can lighten my skin tone? btw.im not REALLY dark..im like kind of dark i gues..but not like africans black americans! (link)
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Okay well im black ! Im african american and im dark skin. And there is nothing wrong with that . And second of all people are going to make fun of people regardless. You may take it the wrong way because you don't feel comfortable about your self . You need to love your self first in order for the things people say not to effect you . And please don't use the term (im not black like african americans) because black is beautiful . And im dark and I neva had people make fun of me . Do you know why . Because I love myself . You should do the same .
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So When I"m doing anything with guys my vagina gets soo wet (ew) is there anyways i can not get that wet and do guys find that grosss ?
HEEELP PLEASE (: ? (link)
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No guys do not find it gross. They actually like it . That means ur excited . And when you are wet it make it easier for the guy to slide in you and its less pain . So don't think the are grossed out about it . Because they actually like it .
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Everyone in my school doesnt like me...I'm thinking its because of the vicious rumors that have been started by an old ex boyfriend of mine who doesnt know how to mind his own business. I try to be friendly to everyone but it just doesnt help. I feel like im the only person at this school who doesnt have friends. No one cares about me, and honestly, i dont care about me anymore either. i hate this school. help me. dont tell me to go to counseling either :/ (link)
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Maybe you should be nice to people and prove that whatever your boyfriend said about you is not true . And if people what t act fake and pretend to like you . Play the game they are playing as well . And talk to your ex tell him to stop doing what he is doing . If you be nice to people maybe you will get friends
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I am a busy working mother of two and need someone to pick up my hamster and bring it to my home for me. Do you know any such errand services? I don't have any friends I can ask.
Thanks! (link)
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Ask someone that is close to you . Offer money . Tell them ur situation .
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I have no idea what I want to get him. I have some ideas like making him something, but I want to buy it and be as special as our relationship. He is going to turn 16 and I am confused. Please help if you can!
If you are a guy, explain to me ur reasoning. I need to know more about guys' minds in general.
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!!
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I would say calone . Most guys like that . Depending on his type . Or get he a pair of sneakers or a fitted (hat). You can even ask him what does he like .
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Ok so, I have a best friend, let's call him Nathan. We have been best friends for 4 years. I love being around him, he's funny and smart and just an all around good person. We text each other every night just talking about whatever, nonsense haha. My mom says that he likes me because every time I talk about the one boy I like he texts back "I'm sensing more than cozy between you two" I don't know if that means he's just making fun of me or he's jealous. I took a "does my best friend like me" quiz on the computer, I know they don't work and most of the answers are just made up right off the top of the creator's head but all of them said yes, he does like me. I don't get it though, a while back I liked him and he told me he looked at me as a sister and that's it. We spend every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday together due to school functions. He's also in my one class (a class I'm not to strong in) and he is always there to help me on something if I'm confused, he used to do that to so that's not a big deal. Just help me, does my best friend like me? (link)
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I think he likes you but he is afraid to show that he like you . He cares about who you like and your grades. He is a good friend . Maybe you should write him a letter explaining how you feel . I always write letters to people . Because I let everything out . So maybe you should do that . And if he doesn't well just say u hope this doesn't effect your friend ship . Try it and let me know what happens
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I have a nine month old daughter and i'm 19. I am married to the father of my baby. When we got married 11 months ago i told him that i wouldn't marry him unless he stopped smoking weed. since then, he has stopped and has done many good things, such as get his GED and be a great dad and show a desire to go to school. recently however he told me that he didn't see a problem with it, and that it wouldn't hurt anything if he smoked weed 4 times a month. I told him that it would hurt me, and he said well if you don't love me enough to let me do it then i guess we can't be together. I need to know if I am being too strict and i just need to deal with it, or if I do need to leave him. Please help me. (link)
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No I dnt think your being to strict . I mean he is going 2 end up doing what he wants to do . You can't change people . They have to change for themselves . And if he loved u and his child he would stop because that is a bad influence to the child . And you should say what about our child . Lets see what he says .
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14-f
am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....
do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to (link)
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I would think that you are . Your 14 and not a virgin and no where near being one that's crazy . I think you should stop doin what your doin because people is gonna end up talkin about you . And think about your . Future . Noone may not wanna have sex with u wen u wanna settle down
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Well in school there is this guy. he is soo funny and all of the girls throw themselves at him. some say he's ugly but i don't. how do i get him to notice that im better than all of them?
I will give a 5 to the best answer.
thanks in advance!!
abbie x (link)
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Well maybe you should change da way you dress alittle bit . Put something nice on . Fix up ypu hair a little bit . And maybe you should make a complement on something he has on . And she if he will start a conversation with you . If he does maybe there is a chance .
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My 16 year old son began using drugs about a year ago. After several groundings, I told him to either follow the rules or he would have to go live with his father (what I assumed to be the ultimate punishment...and that he would be back and ready to follow my rules withing a few days.) He has now been living with his father for two months and will not speak to me because I "kicked him out." I miss him. His father and I do not speak so I don't know if he's getting the help he needs. What should I do? (link)
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Well first off you need to talk to your sons father. To find out what is goin on . They try to talk to yuor son get him help before it is too late. Have someone with the experience that ur son is going threw now . Get them to talk to him . And see what happens . Contact me at ldiva223@tmail.com
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this might be a little long, but please bear with me
i just started talking to this girl, were both in high school. ive been talking to her on mysapce for like a week and shes prety and all.
so what i do is that i say "oh u looked nice at school today" or "oh nice pic" and stuff like that.
everythigns going good....and then i decide to ask for her number. AND I DIDNT ASK IN A PIMP WAY> i just asked straight up "hey, whats ur number"
THATS IT. and then like ten minutes later she tells one of her guy friends to message me and he said that i was freaking her out....... WOW.
all i did was ask for her number and she told me that im hitting on her. WELL TO BE HONESt, I AM.
WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.
BUT WHAT DID I DO WRONG? now she wont respond.
and please dont say that i came on too strong, because MILLIONS of hotshot white jocks come on girls WAYYYY FASTER.
ANd the girls love it. WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO. do i have to be mr perfect hercules? GODDDD this is so confusing and stupid and pathetic.
please help. (link)
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I guessing she dnt want to be bothered or maybe she is not used to the attention or maybe it is just your looks . But what ever it is if your really lookin 4 a girlfriend dnt come on to strong take ur time . Get 2 kno her better. And let them get to know you better . If any more questions email me at ldiva223@aol.com
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15 female. USA
What does it mean when a guy says "I'll have to think about it for awhile." a couple days ago I'll told my best friend I had a crush on him. and that's what he told me. I'll see him monday, but should I ask or just wait it out? Bonus, he just turned 18 yesterday(he's a senior in high school). I know there would be issues: maturity, religion, legal, ect! But it's not like were gonna have sex! I've even knowen people my age have a relationship with a 18 year old. All I would like to know is: What does he mean by "I'll have to think about it for awhile." and we there be any chance for a relationship? I mean get along so well, it's ubsurd (same relationship past, interest, ect.).
-Gabriella (link)
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Well this could mean that he is not interested in you . He is tryin to beat around the bush . He is not trying to hurt your feelings . . If any more questions just email me at ldiva223@tmail.com
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ok...i am 15 and a freshmen in high school ive only had one real girlfriend...and i dont know how to really get another one lol i know a few girls that like me but i dont know how to find out fore sure so
my question is HOW DO I FIND OUT IF A GIRL LIKES ME? (link)
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You should ask them . How would you know the answer to something if you dnt ask a question . Tell girls a little about ur self .and what you like to do 4 fun . And get to know there likes and dislike. That is a start . If you have any more questions email me at ldiva223@tmail.com
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i like this guy tommy he is younger than me but i dont care about age and i was going to tell him earler this week but the day i was going to tell him he gets a girlfriend and it hurt so i didnt tell him. well last night i had two dreams and ive had them before and i never really paid attention to the guy in them before. the first dream it was me and my friend at this house then this guy shows up and its tommy and im guessing i was dating him cus he proposed to me and he said dont answer me yet and left so i was running after him when i woke up. the second dream i was on a canoe trip with family and there tommy was with me the whole thing and we were kissing and then i woke up...i just dont get it i have no idea what this means please help me (link)
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Well this can me that you are feeling him . I think you should be honest with him . Because guys like honest . And age don't matter . How would be know if you dnt tell him how you feel
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