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Best Friends? More?
Ok so, I have a best friend, let's call him Nathan. We have been best friends for 4 years. I love being around him, he's funny and smart and just an all around good person. We text each other every night just talking about whatever, nonsense haha. My mom says that he likes me because every time I talk about the one boy I like he texts back "I'm sensing more than cozy between you two" I don't know if that means he's just making fun of me or he's jealous. I took a "does my best friend like me" quiz on the computer, I know they don't work and most of the answers are just made up right off the top of the creator's head but all of them said yes, he does like me. I don't get it though, a while back I liked him and he told me he looked at me as a sister and that's it. We spend every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday together due to school functions. He's also in my one class (a class I'm not to strong in) and he is always there to help me on something if I'm confused, he used to do that to so that's not a big deal. Just help me, does my best friend like me?
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Only Nathan know the answer to his messages.
I sence a bond of friendship spanning 4 yrs like sister & Brother. That is a tough one top take to the next level so you'll just have to ask him yourself good luck.
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I'm not sure, but it does kind of sound like he just wants to be really good friends with you. I think that if he had been interested, he would have told you so. The only way that I can be more certain is depending on his body language when he said that he liked you as a sister and nothing more. If he seemed kind of nervous and couldn't make eye contact, he might have just been too nervous to tell you. Tough to say for sure, but I'd go with just friends for now. My best advice for now is just to hang out like you always do and if anything changes, he'll let you know. Until then, just have fun and try not to think about the romantic possibility so much.
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I think he likes you but he is afraid to show that he like you . He cares about who you like and your grades. He is a good friend . Maybe you should write him a letter explaining how you feel . I always write letters to people . Because I let everything out . So maybe you should do that . And if he doesn't well just say u hope this doesn't effect your friend ship . Try it and let me know what happens
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When he told you he saw you as a sister, did he know you liked him? If he didn't, he was probably just saying that for fear of being rejected.
Guys aren't sure half the time if they like a girl. Neither am I when it comes to guys in general. But if they say that they're not sure, they probably DO like you.
He might be jealous, or just kidding. I don't know him personally so I have no idea. But with most guys, it'd probably be a mixture of both.
Those quizzes usually ARE half right depending on the quiz and if you take it not trying to get a certain answer. So hey, maybe it's right.
Does he text you first or do you text him first? Or both? If it's both or if he's always the one who texts you first, that's a gooooood sign. Haha.
Even if he doesn't, I think there's a good chance he likes you. I doubt you'll wanna risk yall's friendship, which is understandable, but you'll never know how he honestly feels till you put yourself out there & see.
And worst case scenario;
You tell him you MIGHT like him. He doesn't feel the same. Things get awkward. You can just tell him you realized you liked someone else. Problem solved, even though his ego may be a tad hurt.
Just follow your heart & everything else'll work itself out.
Good luck.
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