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how old is too old?
okay, im a freshman at highschool, and ive been talking to a senior since july. ill be 15 in november, and he's 18. my mom knows about it but she won't let us hang out! its annoying because we really like eachother, and its not like im asking to fuck him, we just want to hang out. how can i change her mind?!
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Mum knows best. You might not want sex but an 18 yr old boy does believe me. Your a minor if he goes all the way Well... there are Laws that cover this very area. You think long & hard about this situation you may not like it but there are boundries for for all ages. Love should not cause a negitive reaction from anyone close to you.
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There really is no way to convince her. She's not doing this to make your life a living hell, she's doing this because she cares about you.
The fact of the matter is that he is an adult & you are a minor. Hanging out can get both of you in trouble. Hang out with boys your own age.
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You probably won't be able to change her mind for at least a couple of more years. There is a legal factor involved. He is 18, which in most states is considered legal adult age. It's actually illegal for him to be alone with you without your parent's consent. If you guys push this too far, your parents could file charges against him. Maybe your mom would feel better if he hung out at your house, where she can see what's going on. But I wouldn't sneak around. If you get caught, he gets arrested and you get grounded. Not the happy ending you want is it?
Best of luck to you.
All my love,
Aunt Kerry
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hahaha.
i had this same problem with someone about alomst a year ago.
okay well basically what you want to do as a first step is have your mom meet him, and whatever your mom likes about a guy tell him to act that way for the time that they meet eachother.
works everytime for me. (:
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