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mom approval to get in cars with guys! ):
okay so my mom wont let me get in cars with guys.
it sucks really bad.
she says that she needs to meet them first and let her get to know them and she means that by the guys coming over to my house.
i hate bringing guys home because its really boring at my house and nothing to do.
i sneak out alot and that is because she wont let me get in cars with guys. i wont do anything bad with them but she dont trust me. i really hate it. i cant ever hang out with a guy unless they come over to my house or i sneak out. i dont know what to do. everybody gets to get in cars with guys, even my best friends, there is this one really good girl and she even gets to and my best friend get to too and her mom didnt even know him. it just sucks, im tired of it. help me please. i will give out a 5. (:
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"i sneak out alot"
"because she wont let me get in cars with guys"
hmph! you strike me as a intellectual female I mean that is of course im talking about your mom.
meaning '"Thought and reason"'
tell you something, your mom obliviously loves you a whole shit ton more then those other girls
and she has enough reasoning to keep her daughter safe, its just to bad your mom doesn't have night detection watch.
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I take it your pushing 15 Neither did muy Mum & I love her for it you know why she cared about my life & wellbeing. I never snuck out there was no where to go anyway. I respected her rules. I have 3 sons now and I have that rule about no girls allowed in thier flat. same thing. My boys are just learning to drive and it is a real worry if they hoon it up & something goes wrong. I hope they are responsible and take care driving. I can only hope & pray the worst dosen't happen. You see my sisters husband took us on a hoon ride from hell doing donuts surrounded by gum trees. She was screaming to stop He just laughted & got faster it was so scary he's such a jerk. She diviorced him a few yrs later. It will all still be there when your time comes do the right thing make life with mum harmony she wants to meet the guy your out with nothing wrong with that. Imagine IF you snuck out o.k. & something went wrong say you were in an accident say someone was hurt or worst the police will probably interview your mum they will ask where did she go I dont know what was she wearing I don't know Who was she with I don't know she is looking very irresponsible too. Your Mum has a responsibility for you till your 18 fact of life. enjoy your fun at home till your old enough in Mum's eyes to date in a car with a sensible young man not a hoon. you'll do the same thing to your daughter trust me it's not because you want to spoil her fun it's because you love & care for her just like your mum does go give her a hug go on you love her too. your not missing out on anything special.
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It wasn't you that your mother didn't trust, it was the boy. But, now that you've been sneaking out & going behind her back, she doesn't trust you either. I know this rule is making it seem like your life is over or like it's so unfair and you'll just die if you can't go on a joyride with some guy from school, but I'm sure you'll get over it. Her house, her rules. If she wants to make that rule, then she can & you have to follow it. Breaking her rules & going behind her back are going to stop her from trusting you.
Either bring the guy home & find a way to entertain him, or stay home & gain your mother's trust back. None of what you're doing is going to make her trust you. You need to follow her rules because I'm sure that when you have kids, you don't want them pulling the same bullshit on you. I really hope you don't plan on bringing up that whole "But my friends got to go in a car with boys!" story because it won't work. Those girls aren't her kids so she could care less what they do. You're her daughter so she's going to worry about you.
Face it. You're not going anywhere with a boy until she meets him & you've gotta stop sneaking out or she'll never trust you. It's kinda your own fault.
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