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i like this girl but dont kno if she likes me back.we went out once and i felt a connection but i dont kno how to tell her or ask.plz help.
Well she must like you if she dated you in the past. Just write her a note, or tell her face to face that you think you have feelings for her again. :)
I like this guy he's 19, I'm 16 but we both like each other a lot. you see when my parents got married his father had married them. And i didnt no that the pastor had a son. so since the wedding our family and theirs has been spending time together, i just got out of a bad relationship and was moving on. so when i met him after so many times we spend every night together and have grown close. Although dispite the age difference we both are falling for each other, and hes a Christian "good boy" so he'll keep me out of trouble, so i wanna be with him, but im scared about what people will say if they find out. I mean what do you think should we make "it" official or will it create problems? Thanks in advance!
Hey.
Yeah it can definitely work. It doesn't matter what other people say, because their probably just going to be jealous anyways. I don't think it would cause problems at all. If you and him like each other, then that's all that matters! =)
this girl who i used to be tight with is sleeping over tomorro night because her mom asked her to as a favor for her. thing is, we arent close anymore..shes into drugs drinking and doing things with guys..and im not so much into that.
problem is..i have plans to hang with friends tomorro night and i think it would be weird to bring her along..what do i do to avoid ditching her in her face?
**she will be at tennis practice tomorro and i have a feeling she will be tagging along with me after practice..but i made plans to hang with my friends..i cant just say "im hangin with friends..go back to my house and i will talk to you later..**
help? thanks im desperate lol
You're soo mean.
I'm sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. No wonder she turned into a druggie, because, her so called "friends" [[you,]] are bitches.
Hang out with her, maybe you shouldn't have agreed to hanging out with her if you weren't going to do it in the long run. It's a once in a lifetime thing, [unless you agree to it again]
Don't ditch her, because you were the one who said you'd hang out with her.
My god.
ok heres the deal, My mom and 2 others helped a woman she works with, with the after funneral thing for her son who died in a car crash. As a gift this woman gave each of the 3(my mom and 2 others) a gift card to a restraunt. Well we go to use the gift card and there is no history on it and it hasnt been activeated.( we had another gift card, too that we used). My family wants to know if you would confront the woman who spent Maybe a good deal of money on it.(i assume anywhere between $25 and $100). Should she be told that it wasnt activated like the person who did it was wrong and hopefully she has a reciept, or do we not mention it. How would you tell her that her gift was worth $0?
Did you try & explain what happened to the people who were working there. Maybe THEY could call her for you. But since you have the card, then maybe they'll require you to do that sort of work.
But I definitely agree with the person below me, you should wait until she asks you guys about it. Unless you really just want to confront her, and ask her if there was a problem. I think that'd be rude, but everyone has different perspectives, you know?
Ask the other two women before you do any of this if the gift card for them worked. Ask them how much was on it, & see what they say, first. Then maybe one of them will ask the woman about it!
i moved away 2 years ago but i go back and visit every summer and talk to my friends at least once a week so we're still really tight. one of my best friends' dad just died. He's been sick for a while but i dont know what to do. I dont want her to think im abandoning her. I want to call her and tell her that im here and stuff but im scared its too soon. what should i do to tell her im here but not upset her more. its only been about a week since he passed.
I think you should call her ASAP. The faster you call, the more she'll know you care. She'll probably be super happy to know that you really care & you'll be there for her, especially now since her dad just died. But, I seriously think you should call her as soon as you can.
Well my best friend is being a bitch l8y n then she chose her bf over me n now but that didnt mind me so we have been fightn l8y but we are friends n i went out with this guy she liked but we all liked him but then i found out that she made him break up with me but he told me that he would go out with me again n he told my other friend that he was gonna sk me out but should i say yes or no i really like him but i dont want to loose a friend over him but idk if i allready lost her ................. please anwser me
Goshh, she chose a guy over you? I HATE girls like that. My best friend did that to me in like 7th grade, so I don't think you need to worry about her at all.
I don't know what you mean when you say, "she made him break up with me." Do you mean, she said like that you were cheating on him, or was it his decision he just had to make the choice to go out with you or not, and she just said mean things about you? If that makes sense.
If you like him, then go out with him again. But just remember your putting yourself back into the position to get broken up again by your ex-best friend.
Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate!
Hey ♥
Why doesn't your mom want you wearing make up everyday? That's super weird. Tell her that it makes you feel hot & you gain so much self esteem by wearing it.
I think make up does make girls look prettier, & makes them look a lot older. But, I seriously don't think you should be worrying about what guys think, because if they're only going to like you because you wear makeup then that's screwed. =)
If your mom doesn't let you, then it doesn't matter AT ALL. Just put it on, on the bus or wait until you get to school. But, your best bet is to talk to her about it.
iwent rollerskating one night and i met this guy. he asked me my name and then i asked him his. the next time i saw aat skating he gave me a hug and said hi. then my friend said she had his number and that she would give it to me. i called him and he said he couldnt talk. then i called him the next day and he didnt answer. then from then on everytime i called him he wouldnt answer. on the first day of school i saw him i went up to him and he said he didnt know me and then just walked away. i saw him at a party recently and i said hi and he just shrugged his shoulders and walked away. what is his deal and why is he being such a jerk. i know that he knows who i am, but hes being such ajerk to me. please guys and girls help me out!!!
hmmm i wouldnt consider it stalkerish haha my reason for this is being that he probably thinks he can get any girl he wants but trust me he wont if hes gonna be like that no girl will like him anyway jus finda new guy youd be much better off
i really want to get a new cell phone & cell phone service..
i still want to be able to have unlimited texting, and good minutes.. long distance as well to keep in touch with my family..& voicemail..
does any know of really good services that are a good price for all that stuff i want to be able to have?
Verizon, definitely [especially, for all of that.]
i just moved, im 13 and i dont know anyone. chool starts wed and i wanted to know some icebreakers/tips/what supplies are common for 8th grade. much appreciated
Hey, I just moved too!
I'm fifteen though, but. I really think that what you need to do is make yourself known. That's like the major part, I don't know you so I can't really tell you what's special & unique about you. Maybe you're hilariously funny, or your super smart and you raise your hand in every class. Stupid things like that make you known, and people talk about it. Like if you fart in class or something, then people will be like, woah do you know that girl who just openly farted in gym & then laughed about it. You know? I know it's a stupid example, but there's a lot more you could do. Make sure you get involved, like with some teachers, because they can make your name look good, too. Join sports & activities. Make sure you act yourself, and if someone doesn't like you, don't try & change yourself for them, because, it isn't worth it. Good luck! =)
Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser.
To me personally, no. But, if the guy is foreal, he'd look at you for your personality, not your physical features, because, physical features will age, but personality will always be there. =)
wats up do u have a screen name?
What do you guys look for in a girl? (like, personality and looks wise)
Well for most guys who are assholes & jerks, the physical features that they look for are: big breasts, & a nice butt. [Which most guys are like, which is GAY.]
And for the other guys, who are romantic & sweet [Like me.] look for: Nice smile, pretty eyes, & a great personality, such as; humor, flirtation, & sensitivity.
what are some things to do by yourself on summer
hi i am 13 years old and it seems like i never go anywhere with my friends i guess its because they are to young there like 12 but i have a 15 year old sister and she goes like every where with her friends i was wondering if i am just going to stay like this with my friends never going anywhere without there parents
You're going to be stuck like this for a while. It's definitely going to be hard especially because you're still young. When you get older your parents will trust you more & when your friends get older then ditto with their parents. Gayy.
You need to get new friends.
My best friend N and me went out. we were mad about each other. we would chill all the time, and just talk about things. Well I loved him and he loved me but than i started hanging out with B my neighbor and I fell for him. than i didnt like him but me and n had broke up already. He doesnt want to date me cuz it will mess up our friendship were still super close. I want him back sooo bad. How should I go after him or should I give up on him?
Sorry this was long. Please answer seriously
First of all, if he just wants to be friends then you should respect that. & later on in life, which is proven scientifically that 55% of long-time friends eventually date. And you should never lose hope in a guy because that's what life's all about, guys and friends.
im 13/f and i am a very strong believing catholic. i masterbate once in a while. im wondering if that is a sin. i read in books and stuff that its completley natural but i wanna make sure that its not a catholic sin. please help. i rate high!!
Hey ♥
No, it is not a sin. Because, first your not committing the original sin, because your not having sex with another partner, youre doing it yourself.
Second of all, is because it pleasures you and God says whatever you feel like you like you do it. That's how I see it.
So we just started school back up this Tuesday and I like it just fine. But the only problem is that I don't have any friends. And I sit alone at lunch, and all the kids look at me like "OMG what a loser.." I actually heard some kid behind me say to one of his friends about "oh look at the girl sitting by herself" and he laughed like it was the funniest thing in the world.
I am a very shy person, and I have actually tried to go up to a few people and ask if I can sit with them. They say yes but don't talk to me and make me feel really uncomfortable around them so it's pointless to sit with them. I have contemplated just going to sit in the bathroom or library at lunch.
But the only problem with that is I have to eat during lunch, because if I don't, when I come home I'll eat alot. My mom and I get food stamps and every month they lower the price so I can't eat all the food. What do I do? Do I just suck it up and sit by myself everyday? Or do I just not eat so much? Please help! I will rate!
I'm pretty much going through the same exact thing you are. I wasn't ever a loner before, I never sat by myself, I had my own group. But, I'm starting a brand new school, and I'm so negative about it, like I'm thinking of different things to do at lunch, instead of just sitting there looking clueless. I'm EXTREMELY shy, and I don't like talking to people that I don't really know, which is going to suck especially because I'm starting a new school, but. I'm just going to wait for people to actually come up to me and talk to me, that's how it basically is with me =)
Is there anyone else around you, that eats alone as well? There must be, they might be feeling exactly the same way you are feeling. I try & look at it positively though, maybe when I start school, there'll be someone exactly like me, who just started & maybe we could start being friends.
I give you big time props though, for actually asking people if you can sit with them at lunch. I don't have the guts to actually do that, I'd be WAY to scared, because, they might turn around behind my back, and say to their other friends, "Gay, what is she doing sitting with us?"
I think you should definitely keep up asking people if you can sit with them, the only way that you could become comfortable is if you join in on conversation by talking with them about stuff.
I would seriously love to talk to you, because, you are my idol. lol! It's really cool how you can still go up to people and ask them to sit with them, that's AWESOME. I seriously think your awesome, lol. So if you want you can im me =) So we can talk!! [REMOVED] Well I'll hopefully talk to you soon!
i go out with this kid names paul.. and he smokes weed and i dont like the fact that he dosee and hes 3 years older then me and its weird.. and i dont wanna breakup wiht him jus for that but i dont know what i wanna do right now..? what do you think i should do? pleasee help
i ratee welll! *♥hailey♥*
Well my best guy friend smokes weed, drinks alcohol (to an extreme), and tries to kill himself. I always just tell him how much I care for him, and how much he is dangering himself. He knows, but I just want to make sure he'll be okay! I think the only thing you can do is, talk to him about it, and say that it's bothering you that he's doing that to himself. Other then that, there's nothing more you can do. Unless you turn him into a counselor which wouldn't be fair because he's your boyfriend, and he might not like you after that. Just be careful, and make sure he doesn't EVER pressure you into doing that stuff.
For some reason my vagina burns when I urine, and sometimes it starts to itch and burn. Could it be allergic to my pads or tampons, please help asap
Hey!
Do you get the feeling like you ALWAYS need to pee, too? Like, if you just peed and then you just stand up & you have to pee AGAIN. Well, if so - then you have an infection. It's nothing big, you just have to drink a lot of water because water runs right through your system & it will wash out the infection. If it continues for over 4 days or so, then I suggest going to the doctor, or go to the pharmacy & pick something up for burning urination. There is stuff you can get, but when I had it it just went away when I drank loads of water! Make sure you drink NOTHING except water!!
ok i went out with this one guy for like 2 weeks then i broke up with him. Then i went out with him again, then broke up with him again. he got mad both times. well then he was always calling me ugly and stupid and now he acts as if he likes me agian. and my parents dont like him cause of his past. i hate when they do that. wat do i do?
I don't think you should be with him. If he calls you ugly & stupid, that's just a sign that he could be just using you. I've been in your situation before, and I've still gone out with him again & again & again. But, I seriously don't think you should waste your time, because he calls you names, and that's not what someone who likes you would do. I don't blame your parents for not liking him either, just because; that's what parents do, they care about their kids, and that's what their doing. Don't involve yourself with him anymore, I think that's what the best thing to do was. If he would've called you ugly once, maybe it wouldn't be such a big deal, he might've just been having a bad day, but when he does it over and over again, it's abnormal. Do what's best for you, don't talk to him anymore =)
Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?
Thanks-
I totally think it is. It's really stupid in my opinion. Especially because teen relationships don't usually last & when they don't. They deny ever doing it & regrets it. It IS stupid.
I think it's especially stupid when someone asks a sexual questions like, how to give a handjob & if they should have sex. It's like if you don't know how to do it, learn on your own. You shouldn't be asking random people whether or not YOU should be ruining your own life. Hah. =)