this girl who i used to be tight with is sleeping over tomorro night because her mom asked her to as a favor for her. thing is, we arent close anymore..shes into drugs drinking and doing things with guys..and im not so much into that.
problem is..i have plans to hang with friends tomorro night and i think it would be weird to bring her along..what do i do to avoid ditching her in her face?
**she will be at tennis practice tomorro and i have a feeling she will be tagging along with me after practice..but i made plans to hang with my friends..i cant just say "im hangin with friends..go back to my house and i will talk to you later..**
iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Monday August 22 2005, 12:06 pm: You guys might not be as close anymore, and you might have plans with your friends. But the considerate thing to do, would be to cancel with your friends and stay at home/hang out with her. If you don't feel comfortable enough to bring her along with your friends, stay home and hang out or just you two go out. Rescedule hanging out with your friends after she leaves. You may have had plans with your friends, but you should put your guest first. If I was her, I would find it very rude to just go off and leave me hanging at your house... good luck, and have fun!
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GroovyChick answered Monday August 22 2005, 8:08 am: just say to her nicely that you would rather be alone with my friends. Make her remember when you where close ask her why she has being doing these stuff drugs and whatever else. You can spend a whole day with her a different day from tennis. Make a deal with her like leave me alone this night and you would spend the whole day with her tomorrow. hope i helped. [ GroovyChick's advice column | Ask GroovyChick A Question ]
xO0TR0PiCALTEAR answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:08 am: if i were in your spot..i would cancel my other plans. i mean c'mmon. Sryy if i come off bitchy or w.e but thats just what i would do.
naimee answered Monday August 22 2005, 12:44 am: You're soo mean.
I'm sorry if that's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. No wonder she turned into a druggie, because, her so called "friends" [[you,]] are bitches.
Hang out with her, maybe you shouldn't have agreed to hanging out with her if you weren't going to do it in the long run. It's a once in a lifetime thing, [unless you agree to it again]
Don't ditch her, because you were the one who said you'd hang out with her.
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