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iwent rollerskating one night and i met this guy. he asked me my name and then i asked him his. the next time i saw aat skating he gave me a hug and said hi. then my friend said she had his number and that she would give it to me. i called him and he said he couldnt talk. then i called him the next day and he didnt answer. then from then on everytime i called him he wouldnt answer. on the first day of school i saw him i went up to him and he said he didnt know me and then just walked away. i saw him at a party recently and i said hi and he just shrugged his shoulders and walked away. what is his deal and why is he being such a jerk. i know that he knows who i am, but hes being such ajerk to me. please guys and girls help me out!!!
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He probably doesnt know how you got his number and it probably freaked him out. He probably thinks if you found out his name and did all this research on him. Next time you see him try to explain. Tell him your friend gave you his number and you wanted to call and see what you were up to. Thats what I would do. If he doesnt listen and he walks away, you are just wasting your time with him.
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personally if it were me i would forget about him. if a guy hugs you one day and is a total jackass. not worth the time, if he wont give you some. if he tries to explain listen but remember how he toyed around with you. if e is truley sory than well.. its your desision.
xO. jessica
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It seems like he's almost afraid of you. I am guessing that he did not realise that you got his phone number from a friend, and when he received the call, he got a bit scared. Probably since he only just talked to you a tiny bit. The hug was probably an exchange of friendship.
But I think when you called him, he thought "This girl must love me to go to such lengths as to find my telephone number. She must've gotten the wrong impression. I'll escape now and try to avoid her. Maybe the love will pass..." So, he's been avoiding you, thinking that you love him, and he does not back.
What I would do is to try and talk with him one on one. If you see him at a party, ask if you can talk with him privately for a minute or something like that. Tell him it's important.
Then, tell him how you met him, and that you just wanted to talk to him, get to know him a bit better. Say that you wanted a lasting friendship with him, hoping to meet someone new. nd tell him that you do not love him, even if he thinks otherwise.
Hope this helps!
-Steven
PS: Wow, this did not seem like one of my better answers. Sorry. :(
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hmmm i wouldnt consider it stalkerish haha my reason for this is being that he probably thinks he can get any girl he wants but trust me he wont if hes gonna be like that no girl will like him anyway jus finda new guy youd be much better off
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you probably should have waited for him to give you his phone number. he probably felt like you were a bit stalker-ish because you called him so many times. If I were in your shoes I'd move on and find another guy, this time wait for him to make the first move. There are pleanty of fish in the sea!
hope I helped!
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He probably is like that because maybe he's scared to be near a girl he likes or thinks bad about you.A guy I liked was nice at first than acted different with me for some reason and I suspect someone told a lie to him that I had a bad personality which isn't true because of a friend of his who liked me who he thought I didn't like him but I did but I didn't know how to react when he showed me he liked me and now I kind of regret it,because of that he would probably want to get revenge on me.Find out what's going on there must be a reason why he is acting like that to you I mean think about it.When you do try to fix it if it's a lie about you show him you're not like who they made him think you are I don't want you to go through the same thing I went through.
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hey maybe you should stop saying hi to him and showing that you care what he thinks.maybe he just doesnt want to talk to him and wants you to live him alone.
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