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SHould i CHose a guy over my friend
Well my best friend is being a bitch l8y n then she chose her bf over me n now but that didnt mind me so we have been fightn l8y but we are friends n i went out with this guy she liked but we all liked him but then i found out that she made him break up with me but he told me that he would go out with me again n he told my other friend that he was gonna sk me out but should i say yes or no i really like him but i dont want to loose a friend over him but idk if i allready lost her ................. please anwser me
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number one rule...never let a guy go between u and a friend
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if you really like this guy i think you friend should accept that fact and if she has a problem with you going out with him then maybe shes not a real friend. there are a lot of other people you can be friends with. you dont need just one friend!
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i think the best thing to do is say YES! because u said ur friend told him to break up with you. and that doesn't really sound like a good friend if she does that. say yes and see what happens! hope it helps!
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Goshh, she chose a guy over you? I HATE girls like that. My best friend did that to me in like 7th grade, so I don't think you need to worry about her at all.
I don't know what you mean when you say, "she made him break up with me." Do you mean, she said like that you were cheating on him, or was it his decision he just had to make the choice to go out with you or not, and she just said mean things about you? If that makes sense.
If you like him, then go out with him again. But just remember your putting yourself back into the position to get broken up again by your ex-best friend.
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first you really have to think about how great this friend is ...like if already lost her or not ...try being her friend and forget about the guy..but if your friend is still being like that then dont even bother with her...get new friends that arent like that...but if she starts being okay again then be a friend to her because guys are for the moment but friends are forever
good luck!!*
-xo kara
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Hi. Well if you really like him... and she doesn't seem like a good friend. I don't think she's worth you sacrifising your happiness. It's true, boys aren't everything and I really doubt you'll marry this guy. BUT even if it's only for a week or a month or 3 months or 5 or a year (it really doesn't matter how long your relationship lasts) it will make you happy. It'll be an experience. You'll learn from it, you'll grow from it. You shouldn't let her deprive you from that or take away that opportunity. Maybe if she was a better friend and you didn't like him a lot than the story would be different. Besides, even if you do "choose her over him" it's not like she'll appreciate you more for it. You'll just be sad and maybe even heart broken. So I really think you should go out with him. again. Well my bestest wishes!!!
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