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Lovers and friends?
My best friend N and me went out. we were mad about each other. we would chill all the time, and just talk about things. Well I loved him and he loved me but than i started hanging out with B my neighbor and I fell for him. than i didnt like him but me and n had broke up already. He doesnt want to date me cuz it will mess up our friendship were still super close. I want him back sooo bad. How should I go after him or should I give up on him?
Sorry this was long. Please answer seriously
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Ask him to hangout someday, and sit down with him. Look into his *eyes* and tell him that you love him deeply.
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ok well you really have to tell him every thing and just listen to what he has to say and go slow , you might end up going out with him or you might end up being just friends . good look xxx
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honestly? I think you should leave it I mean you left him for someone else before so you know you may just do it again...
but then again you could talk to him about it if you REALLY think you wanna give it another go...
another possibility is they are "made up" feelings cause you see you are single and you have said that you and this guy are really close so therefore your brain clicks into thinking ohh I dig this guy when really? you don't it's just you don't like the feeling of being alone... anyway my point is make sure you like him and it's NOT just cause you have no one else cause it really is NOT fair on the guy to be a spare tire? if you need more help leave me a message in my inbox okay?
xxx Krissy xxx
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First of all, if he just wants to be friends then you should respect that. & later on in life, which is proven scientifically that 55% of long-time friends eventually date. And you should never lose hope in a guy because that's what life's all about, guys and friends.
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Hi. Does he know how you feel? If he doesn't, you might want to tell him you still like him as "more than friends". If he already knows or if he keeps telling you he doesn't want to mess up the friendship it might be a pretty good idea to staright out ask him how he feels about you. There's no point if he doesn't like you as "more than friends" and he's jsut making you think the only reason you two can't be together is to save your friendship. However if he DOES like you but is still scared of the risks try reassuring him and telling him you'll be friends no mater what and that you will try your best to make your relationship work out. But it is really important that you know how he feels about you. There are really only two optionsm it's either he likes you or not. It seems to me he still does but the only issue is the friendship, but it's better to make sure and hear it from him. Well my best wishes!!
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I dont think you should chase after him, but I dont think you should give up on him. Dont worry about whether you're actually "boyfriend/girlfriend". I personally dont think that matters in a relationship. Keep talking to him and stay close friends. Work on the relationship, not the title. Just see where things end up. If you're ment to date, then you will.
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I think you should leave the door open about it..i mean he might change his mind. At the same time, i dont think you should chase after him..he knows how you feel and if he feels the same way he will come foward about it. i think you should move on and welcome all the "other fish in the sea" ..at the saame time dont close the door forever because you never know..
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