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Hey, im heading to Buffalo in the morning tomorrow and i was wondering if anyone had any good songs that they like. I like any types of music, just not rap very much. Please help, it would be very appreciated because there are going to be kids in the car. haha. Thanks.

-Racquel

you could try buying one of those NOW CD's that have all the lastest hits on it. idk what songs are on them, but they are suppose to be ok for kids too.

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Hey i'm 13/f and i really like my ex boyfriend. were thinking we midght get back together but the thing is we live like 2 hours away. i knwo this is gonan sounds stupid but i think i love him. i couldent live without him when we broke up and he knows that. we talk on the phone for like 2-3 hours each day. i'm going down to were he lives in like 4 weeks and when i go there i want to suprise him with something sexual. I think i want to have sex with him. and i want to know if i should or not? like if he will just go out with me because we had sex? and if i should do something sexual with him.. should i go all the way?

i think that 13 is too young to have sex, but really it is up to you. you should think about all of the good reasons to have sex and all of the bad reasons. plus you should consider what it would be like if you have sex and he still doesn't want to get back together with you. just think it through all the way.

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Is it Pet Smart or Pets Mart?

Seriously that has been making me think all day and I can't find anywhere they tells.

wow the two answers below this said it was Pet Smart, but to me it is Pets Mart.

http://www.petsmart.com/media/ps/images/general/logo_4b04d.gif

i understand that since Pet is in red and Smart is in blue that it would make you think it is Pet Smart. But what i think is that the bouncing ball represents an apostrophe (sp?) which makes it Pet's Mart. idk but that is my opinion.

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When is it like the 'ok' age to have sex? My friend, I believe shes rushing into it way too quick. Since shes only 14. She hasn't done much yet. But, I'm worried about her. Health wise, & 'reputation wise' What age is the ok age? & what should I say to her, & her boyfriend/best friend [there on & off. as a couple. -__-] about it?

well in my opinion, 14 is a little too young to have sex, and i'm 14 myself. right now having sex isn't even an option. i think it is fine for them to makeout and everything, but i wouldn't go as far as having sex. because if they do, it will get around and some people will tease/embarrass her about it. i would at least wait until 16, but that is just my opinion.

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I am starting to buy shorts and tank tops (soffe shorts) and putting all sorts of designs on them. Like gluing on rhinsetones and sewing on patches, and selling them to people. I already got a few customers. The only thing is I want to find a website or store where I can buy soffe shorts and plain tank tops (preferably american apparel, but any will do except ones from specific stores like gap or american eagle) for as little as possible. Please someone help me find any place or website to buy these for less!

idk if you have a kohls near you, but they sell soffe shorts for $7.99 and right now their tank tops are on sale =D

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I am a guy who likes to be spanked I also seem to like girls to tell me what to do and i seem tro like it even if its humiliating things they make me do i sem to like it even more . Im not sure why i like these things can u think of why this would turm me on

hmmm...well maybe its because you like to be controlled. i think it might be because your afraid to be in power. Being controlled might turn you on because then you don't have to make decisions.

i hope i helped!

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hey! well i have always thought this one kid was really adorable, sweet and everything but i have never talked to him in my life well i was over at my friends house and he i/m her and said somethin and i was like heyy this is lexie my friend is upstairs and then we kinda started talkin but then....he had to go :[ and he saw what i looked like and said i was only alright...well then the next day i added him on myspace and left him a message saying hey werent you the one i was talkin to the other night tryin to act stupid and i was like well yeah i was just checkin! but he never responded back..and now i feel like a total idiot!! what do you think i should do?...because i really wanted to talk to him again and was hoping he would send me a message back or something but does this mean that he does not want to talk to me or what?
thanks..

i know this from experience...most guys don't comment back on myspace. all my friends agree too. i don't know if that is just the guys in my area but maybe that is the case with him. do some research! look on his myspace and see all of the girls that commented him. then go on each of there sites and see if he commented them back. most likely he didn't. but if he did don't be discouraged. if he ignores you then he isn't worth it.

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Hey. I recently upgraded my OS to Windows XP professional, and everything was fine.. until I tried connecting to the internet. It seemed the modem drivers had mysteriously been deleted. Well, I no longer have the CD (I've had the modem and PC for 5 years) so I went to a internet cafe today, downloaded a few drivers from the website of my modem (Conexant Soft56k) and installed them. Only one of the drivers worked. All was good until I connected to the internet.. and there's this constant loud modem noise which I can't turn off. I've tried turning the modem speaker down.. to no avail. I've also tried the "Extra initialization" function by adding M0, L0, ATL0 etc.. and other combinations I've found on various places online. Drivers I've installed haven't worked. Can anyone suggest anything I can do to combat this? It's difficult for me to stay online with this constant sound, but I have no clue how to get rid of it! Thanks for your help.

i'm not very good at computers but i do know one thing. all electronics (computer, TV, radio) will always make a contstant buzzing noise if your cell phone is near it and you are recieving/sending a call/text. this doesn't really sound like your problem...but i thought i could try to help =D

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alright so my dad restored my computer thinking it would help my computer and when we went back on to it allll my pictures and music was gone! ive done everything except take it to best buy or w.e because we "dont have the money" what can i do to get my pictures back????

well i'm not very good with computers...but all i can think of is look in your recycle bin? then maybe you could search your computer for them by right clicking on START then clicking search.

good luck and i hope you get them back =D

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Okay, so im 15. f.
i guess ill start from the beginning
i knew this guy named "joe" who had a friend named "kyle". me and joe dated for a while. kyle hated me because i was always with joe, and he never spent any time with him anymore. After i stopped dating joe. I started talking to kyle for some reason. We would honeslty talk like 4 hours every day on the phone, about like nothing. We were inseperable, we would always be together, he was my best friend, and he was my first guy that i actually fell in love with. But I dont really know what happened, but as soon as summer started everything just seemed to go down hill with him. I went to one of my friend mikeys house to help him with one of his problems, kyle found out by my brother because when he called i left my phone at home, and my brother told him where i was at and he got jealous, over nothing because me and mikey didnt do anything. so i called him back that night, and he just wouldnt talk to me, so i was said "well i have better things to do then if your not going to talk" and he hung up on me. and i didnt bother to call him back. like 3 days later without talking to him i finally did apologize over txt, he said he had to go somewhere so he couldnt talk for the next 4 days and he would call me when he got back. so i thought everything was okay again..wrong. he never called me back, i called him back like 6 days after the day he told me he had to go somewhere, and we talked for about a minute, cause he was tired and watned to go to bed. i thought it was just one of those mood swings he was goin through..but i dont know we havent talked for about a month now, and i still think about him alot, and im still completely in love with him still..and i dont know what to do, my friends tell me to move on, but ive tried and i cant, i dated one person after him, but i had to break up with him because i knew that wasnt fair to him that i was still in love with someone else. but now..i really have come to a drop dead end. and i dont know what to do..should i call him? or should i just give him his space, and wait for him to call me, which i know might take forever..and i dont know if im willing to wait that long? i cant move on..so thats defintaly not one of the options. any advice would help. i rate high for any advice. thanks for reading

okay first off, i feel your pain. guys can be just confusing sometimes. but what i would do is call him back one more time and tell him that your concerned about him because of the way he has been acting. if he is still acting weird then i would just wait for him to realize that he is losing you and then he will call you.

GOOD LUCK!

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i have liked him forever he liked me as a freind and he didnt no liked him thatway untill my freind got mad at me and told him i told him it wasnt true i dont no if he beleived then one i moved and i talked to him on msn he got really cranky and rude i should i give up or what should i tell him?

well since you moved away and can only talk to him on msn i would try to move on from him. long distance relationships are really hard. I wouldn't just stop talking to him, i think you should keep him as a friend. unless you live close enough to be able to see him in person and hang out with him, then you could tell him and see if he likes you too.

i hope this helps =D

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ok so i only want to lose 5-6 lbs in a short period of time any one know how if so please tell!!!

well you should be able to lose 5-6 pounds in about 3 weeks if done properly. you should definitly watch what you eat and cut down on unneccisary calories. Then make sure you work out about 5 days a week for about an hour each day. you can run, bike ride, do DDR (dance dance revolution video game), dance, jump rope, swim, and sooo much more. and drink A LOT of water, aim for 5-6 bottles a day.

GOOD LUCK!

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okay, so i'm 14/m, and she's 14/f, and i've known her for a really long time as a friend, and i've had a secret crush on her forever now.
so i said to her the other day, "hey, do you wanna go see a movie or something on friday" and she looks at me like i'm crazy. i've never really had a girlfriend before, and i think i totally f*cked up our relationship. she won't even talk to me anymore. anyone got some advice that could help?

well since i'm 14/f i'll answer this from my perspective. i think that she is just a little shocked by your offer to see a movie. she is probably having millions of thoughts running through her head right now like "does he mean a date" "maybe he likes me" "do i like him" "maybe he meant with a group of friends" "maybe he meant just a casual thing". you should give her some time to think it over. then if she doesn't get back to you by friday then ask her again but differently something like "about that movie, i didn't mean to freak you out or anything, i meant just with a bunch of friends" that would be your best bet, making it a group of friends thing. then once your there make sure you sit next to her that way you can talk while your there.

GOOD LUCK =D

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i have short hair i spike at the back should i grow it?

like the last person...i'm gonna guess that your a guy. It really depends on your preferences. do you think you would look good with longer hair? personally i think guys with like medium length hair (about ear length or a little longer) are hot. but really it depends on your style.

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eh wat do guys think are attractive? not just how they look, but what about how they act? please help. i really want some guys to like me!! my friends r gettin all the guys!! its hard to explain but just pls help me.

try to be more confident with yourself. also be more outgoing and go and talk to guys (some guys don't like to have to do all the work and make the first move).

GOOD LUCK =D

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ok so my hair is really straight naturally and i tried putting mousse in it and scrunching it then putting it in a bun, but it just ended up falling back to straight. does anyone know any good hair products that you can use to make your hair wavy? thanks sooooo much!!!

well first of all be happy with your naturally straight hair. do you know how many girls spend hundreds of dollars to get professionally straight hair? okay now on how to curl your hair. first i would use a gel and not mousse. for me gel works better and has better hold. you can try a product called Curls Up. it is in a bottle that looks like a baby's bottle and is a yellowy gold color. that works well for me. sorry i couldn't get a brand for you, but the bottle doesn't have one written on it! okay here are step to scrunching your hair:

1)once out of the shower, WITHOUT brushing your hair, wrap your hair in your towel.
2)once your hair is "damp", scrunch your hair with gel
3)continue scrunching your hair with your hand until hair drys a little more
4)then use a hairspray that has a flexible hold to keep your srunching in place
5)use your hand to scrunch your hair again at random times throughout the day until your hair is completely dry

GOOD LUCK =D

Good Luck

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My dog has been acting strange. She digs her nose in between her blanket inside of her cage, and has started licking herself 'down there' a lot. This behavior is the same as when she was pregnant when she was 8 months old. She is currently 3 years old. What's going on?

just like everybody else has said: maybe she is pregnant again, and take her to the vet to be certain. but the only advice i have for you is to take her to the vet because she could also be sick.

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How many tylenol would be considered an overdose? like, what about 5-10 a day?

i would definitly say that taking 5-10 tylenol a day is overdosing. i would try to stick to 2-3 a day =D

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there's this party tonight. i went shopping yesterday and got an outfit to wear but im concerned its too wintery. its inside and its not like HOT out, so idk... some of my friends said it was cute, and a couple said it might be too wintery. it's a cute tank top under a sweater w/ a skirt. the sweaters kind of wintery but its at a country club so i have to get dressed up and i can always take it off. what do you think? thank you!!

i think your outfit will be fine. since it is inside, maybe the air conditioning will be on and then you'll be thankful for that sweater your wearing! plus you said you can take off the sweater if you get too hot.

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Hey :D well my eyes have always bothered me.. i have kinda darker brown eyes..sometimes they change to hazel but i wear black eyeliner and everything seems so dark! my eyes seem so boring i get so jealous of blue and green eyes (lighter eyes) because they stand out so much and are so much prettier! is there anyting i could do to make my eyes like stand out more or look prettier? ive heard about doin something with eyeshadow but im soo bad with makeup and stuff! and everytime i try to do the smokey eye or whatever it seems to make my eyes darker! by the way im 16/f! and i do not want colored contacts..i know i have to live with my eye color but i just want to know if there is anything i could do to make them stand out more??!
thanks so much

i would use a brown eyeliner instead of black, because black can look too harsh on brown eyes. now for eyeshadow (this is simple i promise =D] just put a medium shade of green on your whole lid to make your beautiful brown eyes POP!

hope this helps

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