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guys thinkin attractive
eh wat do guys think are attractive? not just how they look, but what about how they act? please help. i really want some guys to like me!! my friends r gettin all the guys!! its hard to explain but just pls help me.
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well, I'm not a guy, but I'm curious and ask guys what they like about me. The most common ones were being smart and knowing what I want. They also like that I'm (a little, not completely) conservative. You don't want a guy to have to worry about who you're with because of the way you act/dress. The big one is being yourself. They like a girl that can keep it real.
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A meaningful question, because yes it is true: not all guys go for looks. What have I heard that most guys thinks is attactive? Confidence; funny; smart.
Maybe I can also help by letting you know what some common turn-offs are: dressing slutty; being stuck up; being snotty; smoking; way too concerned over self-image; way too concerned about weight; not being clear on things; most of all = trying to be something you're not.
So really, all it takes is to be able to take a joke, be funny, be smart [no not 100 average smart], and just some confidence. Treat us like you would a friend, not some potential boyfriend. Hope that helped.
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you cant make a guy like you. guys usually like girls who be there self no matter who there around. JUST BE YOU
Jazzy**
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1) A girl who looks like she pays attention to her looks.
2) HAS TO BE SMART....I'm curesed with some intelligence so i cant stand stupidity. I cannot date someone who cann't keep up in conversation.
3) Funny and outgoing.
4) Bouncy attitude.
5) To not nessisarily have to be like everyone else. i.e., to be their own person.
6) confident
7) NOT ANNOYING (playful pestering is fine)
8) IMPORTANT: they must be comfortable with who they are and if they dont like it about themselves they must move to change it or act on it or w/e and not just complain.
9) Noticable likes to have fun
10) doesnt need to fit into the crowd.
11) etc...(to lazy to finish)
The most ironic part of this post is she wants guys like her friends are getting when in truth she should be looking for a relationship cause those guys will eventually end up dumping those girls like a ton of rocks and all their egos will also plumet. MY ADVICE, LOOK FOR A RELATIONSHIP or UNDERSTAND MOST boyfriend girlfriend ordeals WONT last.
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Okay im a guy and i feel there are THREE key things on how to get a guy to like you.
1. Determine what kind of guy he is. If he is a horny sex seeker, well then you are gonna wanna dress like a slut, act like a slut, and yeah. But if this is a great guy, like me =], that is going to want to treat you like the great person im sure you are, well then BE YOURSELF.
2. Dress respectively, groom yourself nice, wear cute clothes but not anything like a little kid. unless you ARE a little kid. Don't dress older than you really are
3.Flirt with him. Nothing makes a guy go crazy over a girl more than a confideny (Not TOO confident) girl that knows(or acts like they know how)how to get his attention. Just act funny around him and let himknow you like him.
Hope i could help
Parka
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defintely be funny and happy and outgoing. be you as you are. feel confident enough to put yourself out there that your single and wanna see someone. good luck (:
l0VE ALWAys-
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One thing I know guys don't is when girls act different around boys ( I think its kinda hard ) But a lot of my friends act childish or really quiet around boys ( I don't know if there trying to be flirty or what? ) Just be yourself and stay confident GO0D LUCK =] !
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try to be more confident with yourself. also be more outgoing and go and talk to guys (some guys don't like to have to do all the work and make the first move).
GOOD LUCK =D
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