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kinda long story. but please read and help
Okay, so im 15. f.
i guess ill start from the beginning
i knew this guy named "joe" who had a friend named "kyle". me and joe dated for a while. kyle hated me because i was always with joe, and he never spent any time with him anymore. After i stopped dating joe. I started talking to kyle for some reason. We would honeslty talk like 4 hours every day on the phone, about like nothing. We were inseperable, we would always be together, he was my best friend, and he was my first guy that i actually fell in love with. But I dont really know what happened, but as soon as summer started everything just seemed to go down hill with him. I went to one of my friend mikeys house to help him with one of his problems, kyle found out by my brother because when he called i left my phone at home, and my brother told him where i was at and he got jealous, over nothing because me and mikey didnt do anything. so i called him back that night, and he just wouldnt talk to me, so i was said "well i have better things to do then if your not going to talk" and he hung up on me. and i didnt bother to call him back. like 3 days later without talking to him i finally did apologize over txt, he said he had to go somewhere so he couldnt talk for the next 4 days and he would call me when he got back. so i thought everything was okay again..wrong. he never called me back, i called him back like 6 days after the day he told me he had to go somewhere, and we talked for about a minute, cause he was tired and watned to go to bed. i thought it was just one of those mood swings he was goin through..but i dont know we havent talked for about a month now, and i still think about him alot, and im still completely in love with him still..and i dont know what to do, my friends tell me to move on, but ive tried and i cant, i dated one person after him, but i had to break up with him because i knew that wasnt fair to him that i was still in love with someone else. but now..i really have come to a drop dead end. and i dont know what to do..should i call him? or should i just give him his space, and wait for him to call me, which i know might take forever..and i dont know if im willing to wait that long? i cant move on..so thats defintaly not one of the options. any advice would help. i rate high for any advice. thanks for reading
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you know what? I wouldn't waste my time waiting for some guy to call me. What I would do is...give him some space...for a while. Maybe ask his friends how he is doing. Don't ask directly "Is he mad? Does he hate me?" or anything like that... just ask, "So, how is kyle (that's his name, yes?)? I haven't seen or heard from him in a while." or something of the sort. See how it works out or try what Cat said. Both suggesstions are good. Good Luck!
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I think what you should do iz to just let things happen on its own. Of course he should know that you have feelings for him still. However... he needs some time to you know regroup himself from what he heard weather it waz you were tryin to get wit him or not. I am not tryin to say that you are but i waz just giving an explanation.
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Hey.
Guys are so weird sometimes. Trust me, I know!! But if I were you, I would go to his house. If you can walk there, that would be better so you arn't pressured for time. I wouldn't call him because you can make some excuse. I would go over there because it is harder to send someone away if they walked there.
When there, if he opens the door, say, I really need to talk to you about the other night when i went out with mikey. And tell him you really have feelings for him
I hope this helps!!
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okay first off, i feel your pain. guys can be just confusing sometimes. but what i would do is call him back one more time and tell him that your concerned about him because of the way he has been acting. if he is still acting weird then i would just wait for him to realize that he is losing you and then he will call you.
GOOD LUCK!
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