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i tryed boosting my confidence but now look what happend..


Question Posted Friday June 30 2006, 12:43 am

hey! well i have always thought this one kid was really adorable, sweet and everything but i have never talked to him in my life well i was over at my friends house and he i/m her and said somethin and i was like heyy this is lexie my friend is upstairs and then we kinda started talkin but then....he had to go :[ and he saw what i looked like and said i was only alright...well then the next day i added him on myspace and left him a message saying hey werent you the one i was talkin to the other night tryin to act stupid and i was like well yeah i was just checkin! but he never responded back..and now i feel like a total idiot!! what do you think i should do?...because i really wanted to talk to him again and was hoping he would send me a message back or something but does this mean that he does not want to talk to me or what?
thanks..


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orphans answered Monday July 3 2006, 8:22 pm:
Before you start stressing about it, you should look and see when the last time he signed on was, because he might not have seen the e-mail yet. Also, alot of guys don't take the time to e-mail back. So, don't stress. Have your friend send him a message and see if he answers her back, and if you like him and they're friends then just have her ask why he never messaged HER back if he doesn't. If he does e-mail her back, then try having her talk to him and see what he thinks of you.

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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Friday June 30 2006, 6:43 pm:
first dont send him any more messages you dont want to be like a (stalker) any way calm down and relax sooner or later he'll say something you have to have patience. you cant rush it. but if you feel like your waiting to long have your friend say something to him for you that always work


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xomichelle891xo answered Friday June 30 2006, 12:41 pm:
Guys are really lazy..trust me. Ive commented guys on myspace and got really mad when they didnt comment back. I know it sucks, but I doubt its because he doesnt like you. Do you even know this kid? Have you met him? Consider everything and then just forget about it. He probably hasnt checked his myspace or he doesnt know what to write back. Or maybe he just is too lazy to write back. Whatever, the reason, dont let myspace ruin your life and make you feel bad. Its not a good thing - I deleted mine a few weeks ago. Stick to talking to him on the phone or AIM where he can talk to you directly. Thats probably best.

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TEENAGExHEARTS answered Friday June 30 2006, 10:41 am:
i know this from experience...most guys don't comment back on myspace. all my friends agree too. i don't know if that is just the guys in my area but maybe that is the case with him. do some research! look on his myspace and see all of the girls that commented him. then go on each of there sites and see if he commented them back. most likely he didn't. but if he did don't be discouraged. if he ignores you then he isn't worth it.

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aShKnOWs answered Friday June 30 2006, 4:01 am:
sweetie, hes not that cute. people who are mean are not adorable...you are too good for him ne ways..soo it sounds kinda harsh but movve on...who noes mayb he is grounded, dont do anything, either he will message you back or its juts not ment to bee

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TheTeenGirl answered Friday June 30 2006, 2:16 am:
Who knows what he's doing about your comment that you left. He could be not checking with his MySpace lately or maybe he is trying to ignore the comment but it honestly shouldn't matter.

Besides, if he's going to be a jerk and not even add you as a friend then I think you should be happy that he's not talking to you anyway. If he does happen to respond later then that's great I guess, but he sounds like a jerk. I really don't see how you can view yourself as an idiot. All you did was 'act stupid' about the situation to strike up a conversation over MySpace which is normal. It's ok to approach a guy the way you did, sometimes the technique works and if it doesn't, move on!

There will be tons more of guys who you will talk to and like. I know you really wanted to talk to this guy, but why talk to someone whose not even willing to talk to you as friends?

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