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I want to suprise my ex.
Hey i'm 13/f and i really like my ex boyfriend. were thinking we midght get back together but the thing is we live like 2 hours away. i knwo this is gonan sounds stupid but i think i love him. i couldent live without him when we broke up and he knows that. we talk on the phone for like 2-3 hours each day. i'm going down to were he lives in like 4 weeks and when i go there i want to suprise him with something sexual. I think i want to have sex with him. and i want to know if i should or not? like if he will just go out with me because we had sex? and if i should do something sexual with him.. should i go all the way?
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i think that 13 is too young to have sex, but really it is up to you. you should think about all of the good reasons to have sex and all of the bad reasons. plus you should consider what it would be like if you have sex and he still doesn't want to get back together with you. just think it through all the way.
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i think this is your decision. if you think by having sex with him, it'll fix your relationship, don't. what if you guys have sex & he doesn't get back together with you?? you probably wouldn't feel too great & would be really mad at him. when you go to visit him, take things slow. i would suggest not jumping into sex er anything sexual. you guys are ex's for a reason. i'm not saying that you can't like him er something, because you can & it's actually really common, but sex?? that might be taking it a step too far. before you go to visit, make a pros & cons list about it. it might help. if you guys did do anything sexual, what would that change?? you guys would be dating again?? would you honestly want to go out with a guy that's dating you because you guys had sex?? those are juss a few things you can think about. you can surprise your ex in many different ways. maybe bring him something he likes. you can ask him out. i'm juss saying, sex er anything sexual is probably the wrong way to go in this situation. there are also a lot of consequences. pregnancy, stds?? what if he tells his friends you had sex together juss to date?? like there's a lot of things that can result from it. juss make sure you're 100% sure with what you do before you do it.
-hope that helped!♥
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