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Im always here to help You! Thanks to all you guys who have helped me already!


My boyfriend and I have been togeter since Feburary 2nd,2004! We are still great, and going strong!! :)



That car to the side is a 1999 Honda Prelude in pearl white! My favorite car!! :)


I have had a bunch of friends that have had wierd problems, and I Have always experienced a lot.



I babysit a lot, so if you have questions about that, Ask away!




I love fashion questions and Questions about clothing and what looks good with what and where to find cheep stuff.



I love make-up questions and most hair questions!




Although I do answer them, I hate sex questions.




I am good at the whole "being a girl" thing, like shaving and periods. Ask me those, I'd love to help!



My Absoulte Favorite Columnists are:


Mackenzie She is amazing! :) She is REALLY amazing!!!


YG Yeah, She is definately awesome!


The Old One He is good! :)


Karen Can we say genius?


Selectopaque Excellent!


Emily *Clap Clap Clap*


NaImEE amazing advice!!


Bryndon Pretty good advice right there!!


CLICK THIS Helpful Links!


and I'll be adding more soon! Could it be you? :)


I would love to and gladly accept any questions on anything, it does not have to be anything above.




Favorite Books:


*Go Ask Alice
*Annie's Baby
*It Happened To Nancy
*Teen Idol
*All-American Girl
*The 1-800-Where-R-You Series
*The Mediator Series
*The Body Of Christopher Creed
*Freaky Green Eyes
*Of Mice and Men
*The Wattsons Go To Bermingham
*To Kill A Mockingbird
*The Earth, My But, and Other Big Round Things
* The Secret Life Of Beez
*Where the heart is


Favorite Movies:


*Now and then
*where the hear is
*Honey
*Save The Last Dance
*Love Don't Cost A Thing
*Kate and Leapold
*Miss Congeanility 1 and 2
*Beauty Shop
*A Cinderella Story
*Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen
*Raise Your Voice
*Drumline
*The Notebook
*Coyote Ugly
*Sisterhood Of The Traveling Pants
*Hitch
*Where The Heart Is
*Now And Then
*10 Things I Hate About You
*Drop Dead Goregous
*The Wedding Planner
*Uptown Girls
*Finding Forrester
*Greese
*Leagly Blonde 1 And 2
*Sweet Home Alabama
*What Women Want
*Napolean Dynomite
*Shrek 1 And 2
*Finding Nemo
*Pirates Of The Carriebean
*Pay It Foward
*Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
*Maid In Manhatten
*Charlie and The Chocolate Factory
*The Unfinished Life


Music:


*ALL COUNTRY!!!!
*Usher
*The All American Rejects
*New Found Glory
*My Chemical Romance
*Sugar Cult
*Black Eyed Peas
*Switchfood
*John Mayer
*Gavin DeGraw
*Trapt
*Ashlee Simpsion
*COHEED AND CAMBRIA
*Lonestar
*Fall Out Boy
*Hilary Duff
*311
*Systen Of a Down
*Chronic Future
* The Gorillaz
* My Chemical Romance
*Fall Out Boy
*Embodyment
*Boxcar racer
* Alien Ant Farm


Songs:


*Kyrie- By Mr. Mister
*We Danced Anyway- Deana Carter
*Breathless- The Corrs*



And Much More!!




If you want to know about any of the books, movies, bands, artists, or songs, please feel free to leave one in my inbox!! Always There For Ya!!



I Love To Help!!



Feel free to ask me anything! :)I try to help as best I can! :)




*You get what you give, & everything you do comes back to you*


One night, the moon said to me " If he makes you cry, why don't you leave him?" I looked upto the moon and said, "Moon, would you ever leave the sky?"


I know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes. You've built a love, but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven, turns to dark.Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile, the precous moments are all lost in the tide. They're swept alway, and nothing is what it seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.AND THERE ARE VOICES THAT WANT TO BE HEARD,so much to mention, but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, that's the beauty that's been, when love was wilder than the wind.


♥ -Kelsey- ♥

advice

Im only 15 years old but i need a job this summer. Do you know any jobs that will hire at 15 other than publix

mc donalds, a 6 flags theme park, and a job at a grocery store as a bagger! :)

thats the ones available where I live.

other ones like babysitting, but that isnt a real job!

-KeLsA-

please leave feedback! :)

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This guy keeps coming up to me and saying can i feel your boob and i really don't like it and it gets annoying. I only let people i like do it and he is just not getting that straight. He thinks i like him and i don't like him like that!! what do i do

tell a school adminestrater or a cop, because that is sexual harrasment, and he can get in some hefty trouble for that, and then he wont bother you any more!

-KeLsA-

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GRREAT coice in music

awe, thanks! :)

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I'm a 19/f and about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend 22/f of 1 year. He himself is not a virgin and has had I think it was 3 partners in the past. There have been recent reported cases of HVI infections in our area. Well, I was always taught to treat everyone as if they had the virus because you never know who might actually have it. They probably don't even know. So, as a precaution I want to ask him to get tested. It's not that I don't trust him because I do. If I didn't, I wouldn't lose my virginity to him. I'm just afraid that he'll take it as if I don't trust him. I know it's a smart decision but I just don't know how to approach the subject. And, if he agrees to it then I will go with him and get tested also. Any opinions/advice is appreciated.

tell him what you just told us!!! he should understand! you sound like you've got it all figured out!!

and i totally agree with you about getting tested! even if the other person hasnt had another partner! :)

-KeLsA-

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this all happen like 4 months ago and i know im REALLY stupid for still talkin bout it and still likin him he like probly hates me right now becuase i still like him but for some reason i CANT get over him EVERYTHING reminds me of him everysong it doesnt matter what i can juss think of him through everything and i mean like i dont know but its really hard to get through life it seems as if aftre that EVERYTHING else has gone rong i dont know but theres something that wont let me stop liking him i tried like in other guys but i kno it wont work out and i know curt right when he tells me that stuff but i mean i dont know

well that is how i feel but this is actually what happened i was going out with this kid and i mean we were in like LOVE as much as we knew it but then i went and showed my boobs to some other guy and now everythings has gone wrong and i dont know what to do

well, tell him that you are sorry!! and that you wont do it again. tell him what you told me about you not being able to get over him, and that you dont want to, and that everything reminds you of him, and tell him that you want to do whatever it takes to get things back to the way they were.

I do that whenever i say something wrong, and that works with me and my boyfriend, and we have been together over 15months!!! :)

Well, best of luck!!

thanks for letting me help you!

-KeLsA-

I'd be happy to help if you need anything else,
please leave feedback!:)

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do you have AIM or yahoo? maybe we could talk sometime.

no sorrY! :/

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I have had two periods in one month. Is this normal for a thirteen year old girl? I don't know what to do because the first one I had ended on the tenth of this month. Then, two days ago, I had one that ended TODAY! It only lasted two days but I skipped a lot of periods last year after I had first started my period. I don't know if this is normal. Is it? HELP! PLEASE DON'T BE RUDE ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I WILL KILL!
(JUST KIDDING...:-)) Seriously, though, if you're mature enough to answer a question like this, please do. I'm sick of this! HELP!

yeah! http://www.beinggirl.com

it will help you alow! :)

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you said you had a long question for me, just put it in my column and i'll reply!!

xoxo Julie

eh, i already asked it to the whole site. sorry! :(

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hey finals are coming up soon and i'm not a very big study person for tests quizzes etc.... i was wondering what i could do to study like study techniques or tips or even ideas ~*~ much appericated thanks ~*~

well, i have my mom quiz me, and i also use flash cards, i am a horrible person with studying too! but those two have helped alot for me, you'd be supprised at how much you learn with flash cards, just keep on going through them, and gradually take out the ones that you know really well!

thanks for letting me help you!

-KeLsA-

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yay! thanks so much for putting me and one of your favorites! I'll help you out more than other people. hehe :)

xoxo Julie

awe, you're so welcome! I'd be happy to help you out with any questions, too. are you on this site right now? if so, drop one in my inbox coz i have a really long question for you.

thanks! :)

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It's that time of year again. We're going to sign eachothers yearbooks. I'm sick of writing Cya in ___ (whater grade yor going in nxt year) and have a good summer. I was wondering what are some cool "quotes" to write in?

You are such a sweetie!

call me this summer

we totally have to hang out this summer!

I wish we had more classes with you this year!

i hope we have some classes together next year!

I loved having _______ ( what ever class.{history or science} you had) with you! it was so much fun!!


thanks for letting me help you! :)

-KeLsA-


please leave feedbackk! ;)

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I really like this guy, he's a senior and im a freshman. It used to just be like an admiration type of thing, but i really think I like him now, and i dont want to be upset when he leaves. I don't know what to do, spend time with him, although some days we don't even talk, or should I just back off, we're not super close, but there is an attraction, bigger on my side than his. What should I do?

I was the same way, its just because your new to the school, and guys get "hotter" with age. I overheard these girls talking the other day, their juniors, and they were saying how they remember how when they were freshman and they saw the seniors and how they thought that they were sooo hot!! you could go up to him, and maybe ask for his e-mail address. or one of his friends for his e-mail address. and ask him about college, and things like that, and what he plans to do this summer. then when school rolls about again, ask him about the teachers that you got! and maybe ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, maybe in a group, then alone.


thanks for letting me help you!!

always-
*KeLsA*

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When is it acceptible to say "I love you"? How soon is too soon, and when is the point that if you havent heard it should you wonder? 20/male

You'll know! I felt it inside of me. its hard to explain, but I am pretty sure that you or the other person will know, like get the feeling. and when your ready, when you say it watch the other persons responce to see if that is okay with them or not.

sorry thats so confusting, but so is love.

I hope that helped though, and thanks for letting me help you!

leave one in my inbox if you need anything else at all.

-KeLsA-

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it's not that i'm a shy person, but I often get stage fright. sometimes when I have to perform a play or skit, or when I have to go in front of my whole class and all attention is on me, my body starts to get really hot and like my face, chest, and arms will turn red. I just wanted to kno if other people are experiencing that too.. and how can I prevent this from happening??

thanxx

used to happen to me! just concentrate on something on the wall bbehind everyone, or on your teacher, or a friend in the class, and only look at that one thing, and tell yourself that you are going to do wonderful! :)

best of luck!

everything is going to be fine!!

:)

-KeLsA-

please leave feedback! :)

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Okay i know that all scary movies are fake and stuff. It's just that at night when I'm in my bed i always think about the grudge, freddy, jason, micheal myers, and all that stuff. And i don't know how to stop thinking about it. And one time I was at a party and I did Bloody Mary which scared the crap at of me. And after i did it I got so scared i had to sleep with my parents for like 5 months and at school someone would have to come to the bathroom with me(not in the same stall though) But anyways.. I don't know how to not be scared any more.. Does anyone have ideas?

I am the same as you! :)

I know that doesnt asnwer your questions, but i thought it would help to know there is someone out there like you!

please dont rate me low!

always
-KeLsA-

:)

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I don't have a lot of money and I have a cat that does not have a liscence or vet or anything. Everytime my cat sneezes it shoots diarhea all over the wall and it drips everwhere and she's even splurged on me before. help me. what do i do?

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=selectopaque

ask her, she is so good with things that have to do with pets!

sorry i coudlnt have been of more help, but she is real good!

-KeLsA-

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I walked in on my very hot teacher and his wife going at it in the janitors closet one day because i was helping my principal for community service points clean her office. when i came back she asked me what was wrong cause i was mortified. seriously. this is no joke. so i dont know if i should tell her or not. but when i went to class the next day i felt very awkward and i could tell my teacher did too. so later him and his wife saw me walking down the hall and asked me if i wanted to join them at their house, as long as i didn't tell. should i tell the principal or should i join them? seriously. anyboyd that just wants to laugh at me can screw off because this is a very serious problem and i'm really stuck andi dont know what to do. please help

well, they probably just wanted to sit down and have a talk with you about what happened. maybe you should talk to your teacher some day, and then if things dont work out like you had planned, go to your parents or a principal. :)

thanks for letting me help yoU!

always
-KeLsA-

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Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.

It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.

the movie Honey its amazing
here is a link with some info on it :

http://movies.yahoo.com/shop?id=1808457794&d=hv&cf=info

and the movie, save the last dance
here is a link with some info on it:

http://movies.yahoo.com/shop?id=1800444902&d=hv&cf=info

those are my two personal favorite movies.
I hoper you enjoy them too!

always-
-KeLsA-
thanks for letting me help yoU!

please leave feedback! :)

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I have an eleven month old colt. (Uncastrated male horse) He is almost completely shed out (lost all baby fur) and there is one thing that troubles me. He is a pure Quarter Horse, but he has a white spot on his stomach. (About eleven inches from his sheath on the side of his barrel) His lineage gives no evidence to why he would have this spot – he's pure AQH. This is his lineage through his great-grandparents:

Great Grand Sire: Bay, right-fore coronet white, stripe. No other markings.
Great Grand Dam: Gruello, left-hind sock, blaze. No other markings.
Grand Sire: Sorrel. No markings.
Grand Dam: Chestnut, right-fore stocking. No other markings.
Sire: Black, stripe. No other markings.
Dam: Sorrel, left hind sock, blaze. No other markings.
Colt: Sorrel, both hind stockings, blaze, [odd white spot]. No other markings.

Because he has this odd white spot on his barrel, he cannot be registered. The AQHA has strict rules and regulations about this, and he can't be registered because of the white spot. I thought he would shed the spot out when he lost his baby fur, but now that he's almost a year old and has lost his baby fur – he still has the spot. My question is, what is this spot from? It's not a saddle sore scar (duh! He's never worn a saddle), it's not a scar at all, so is it a recessive gene? Why was my colt afflicted with it?

Thanks!

sorry that i cant be of too much help, put ask

selectopaque

http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=selectopaque

thats her link to her page on here

she is amazing! and so good at questions on all animals! :)

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Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy?

yes rape, its called date rape. call the cops and tell your parents, and get tested for STD's. please dont get an abortion. Just because the guy who is a total jerk raped you doesnt mean that you should take a human life. :) this is your baby! you should have her/him and make sure that you love him/her dearly! and make sure that nothing like this happens to him/her. :)

always there-
thanks for letting me help you!

-KeLsA- :)

please leave feedback!
best of luck! :)

if you need any cute baby names, let me know! :)

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