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sorry...kinda long..but help me please
I walked in on my very hot teacher and his wife going at it in the janitors closet one day because i was helping my principal for community service points clean her office. when i came back she asked me what was wrong cause i was mortified. seriously. this is no joke. so i dont know if i should tell her or not. but when i went to class the next day i felt very awkward and i could tell my teacher did too. so later him and his wife saw me walking down the hall and asked me if i wanted to join them at their house, as long as i didn't tell. should i tell the principal or should i join them? seriously. anyboyd that just wants to laugh at me can screw off because this is a very serious problem and i'm really stuck andi dont know what to do. please help
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i think that the teacher an dhis wife just wnt ot have dinner with with you and talk. teachers aren't really supose to do that when they are your teacher, but i guess you can go. you should probably tell your parents and see what they say. if yiu go over and things feel weird, jsut leave and get out of there.
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well, they probably just wanted to sit down and have a talk with you about what happened. maybe you should talk to your teacher some day, and then if things dont work out like you had planned, go to your parents or a principal. :)
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Actually, its kinda funny. I acutally did laugh. But, i was laughing with you...not at you. The teacher asked you to join him at his house? As in, you 2 go down on him? Thats kinda weird too. Unless of course, you're into that kinda thing.
You shoulda joined in the janitors closet if you were planning on doing that.
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They're husband and wife so there's technically nothing wrong other than the fact that you're scarred for life... I wouldn't tell the principal.. I would just tell them they need to wait till they get home to risk his students their mental health. They should be able to do at least that much... If you want to let your principal know so he/she can talk to them about it then there's nothing wrong with that either.. you should be able to walk throughout the school without being mentally abused.
Hope it works out
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tell the principal what happened because teachers really shouldnt be "going at it" at school, especially in a place that would likely attract someone. the least they could have done is locked the door. DONT JOIN THEM! let the principal know what happened and maybe he/she can help
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There is nothing wrong with a man and his wife having sex. Yes, they chose a pretty undesirable spot, but that is the chance they took. Now, I wouldn't bother telling anyone, but I DEFINATELY wouldn't go to their house. Why should you go? It seems inappropriate for the teach to ask. He could get in trouble for screwing his wife at work, but that's his business. Just tell him you have no intention of telling anyone. Tell him the truth that you are terribly embarrassed and just want to forget the whole thing. Then, do forget the whole thing. Never mention it again. But that bit about inviting you to their house bugs me. What the hell do they want? It could be nothing, but I don't like how they are trying to handle you. Don't be caught alone with those people. It could be they like people to watch. That could be one reason they were doing it in the closet in the first place. Some people are like that. They might just want to explain. They might want you to join in the sex act. There is no way of telling and no reason you should give them the chance. If it's just an explaination though I can give you that. There is a special excitement to having sex where you may be discovered. It adds to the pleasure somehow. I doubt they expected to be caught. Try not to worry to much over all this. Just keep you mouth shut and everything should be fine.
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This is a tuffy, but I can see where you're coming from and why you're confused.
First of all I do not think that you should join them. Have you considered why they want you to join them? I don't think that this is the best way to go because they know that they were doing something that they shouldn't have been doing at that time or place so they want to keep you happy and content so that you won't tell.
I think that you should tell the principal because she has a right to know what kinds of things are being done under her nose for minors to see, for any one to see.
Your teacher should have talked to you about it right away so its obvious that he's trying to hide it, even though that's not the best thing to do.
I think that you should call together a meeting with your principal and your teacher. At the meeting say to your teacher, "Okay, I think that (your principal's name) has a right to know what was going on and I think that it would be better coming from you." If he refuses to talk or does anything that you take as threatening or "don't say it" tell the principal what you witnessed yourself. It won't be easy but the sooner the better.
Also, make sure that you tell your parents what happened just so that they're aware of it.
Good luck on your problema nd I truly hope that this helps.
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