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Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :( (link)
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u need to stop cheatin on each other! try to patch up the relationship, maybe jus keep tellin him u love him and he means everything to u. he may start to feel bad about liking other girls. sometimes guys dont rlly mean wht they say he may still cheat on u bc u let it happen b4, u need a bit more help so work on the situation. hope i helped ~steph~
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well theres this guy in my class and hes like perfect for me. he doesnt do drugs .. hes really sweet .. hes kinda shy but he still talks to me .. hes like the opposite of me with personality in all ... i mean like hes shy and im not and hes really good at the guitar but the only time i ever talk to him is when we are in class or when were going to another class and i see him. hes in my lunch but he sits with other ppl that i dont know so i never go and talk to him and i really want to hang out with him or like figure out if he likes me too but im not really sure how to do all that. sorry this is so long but please help me! (link)
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if u like him then go 4 it! if he rlly dont like u then o well at least u tryed. ppl r afraid of rejection but its not tht scary actually jus asc cool about it. he probably would go out w/ u anyway! hope i helped! ~steph~
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okay, my ex just got a new gf and i'm cool with it b/c i'm over him and she's pretty cool. well, me and my ex are like best-friends (he is my other brother) but the other night he told me that he was just going out w/ this girl for "kicks" and he asked for my help with fixing it. his gf doesn't know yet and i want to talk to him about it but everytime i talk to him now he tells people i was talking to him b/c i like him....how can i talk to him and help w/o him thinking that i'm trying to break up him and his gf? (link)
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tough one..... try to help w/ their relationship then maybe he wont think u r tryin to break them up. wht made him think u were tryin to break them up? it seems like ur tryin hard to fix it up. hope i helped ~steph~
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is there a certain time of the month lykk # of days after your period where u can have unprotected sex w/o getting pregnant? (link)
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sorry no but it would be a great world if there was a certain time of the month tht u wouldnt b able to get pregnant.
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Hey...okay well this may be a lil long but I'm really looking for a detailed answer. I really liked this totally hot guy Tyler. Everyone told me after a while that he had a "crush" on me and he was really interested in getting to know me better! So he ended up asking me to homecoming and everything went just as planned. We went to the dinner, to the dance, the whole 10 yards! We even kissed! BUT....after that things only got worse. We had really never talked THAT much b/c we're both shy but we still talked at least a lil. Well after homecoming I never saw him much anymore and he never really made an effort to talk to me when he did see me! Well eventually I found out he started going out w/ another girl who's homeschooled. I confronted him and told him I knew and it was no big deal. Well he wrote me a letter (which he NEVER does) and told me how sorry he was. I wrote back and told him not to feel bad. I pretend like I wasn't hurt and like I just didnt care. I also made it very clear I wanted to be friends! Even so he still didn't make the effort to talk to me....and I really do want to hang out b/c if something goes wrong w/ his g/f then maybe we can hook up and if not....I still wanna be his friend. How do I handel the situation so he doesn't think I want him. Do I ignore him and act like I did 5 mins before I knew he exsisted or do I just make an effort and talk to him. Someone help that has been in the situation before and "got the guy!" Even guys opinions would be nice. Thanks!
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tell him how u feel. im struggling to talk to a guy who i wanna go out w/ even tho he has a gf. (we went out for 3 weeks and then we broke up) find out if he still likes u. it seems like u guys had a good time together. hope i helped ~steph~
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we were together for two and a half years and have been through a marine corps deployment and came out even stronger. she broke up with me cause i was not helping out with the bills. i have made many changes with my money and have now paid all my bills off. i understand her reason for breaking up with me. but are relationship was extremly good exept for that one part. all though she has kicked me out she has not asked for my key back or to get my stuff out. i have sent her flowers and we went out to dinner. whe have plans for tomorrow and i dont know if i should ask her what is going on with us or not. also is she just playing me know cause if i get my stuff she will not have a kitchen table, couch's, entertainment stand and a bed for her sister to sleep on. i want to work this out but dont know how long to hang around. thanks b (link)
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u need to talk to her about it. the key to a good relation ship is comunication. i found tht out the hard way. if u wanna get bck together w/ her then u at least need to kno where u guys stand as of now. the longer u put it off the worse it will get. hope i helped ~steph~
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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship! (link)
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how old r u ? if hes sayin hes too young then it may jus b an excuse bc he doesnt like u?? ask him y he doesnt think hes ready... he must have a reason or something... find a few things out and then post another question with more info. hope i helped ~steph~
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I know this is long, but PLEASE READ! I need help! Thanks you very much!
Hello, I'm a 14 year old girl, Freshman. Last Saturday I went to the Homecoming dance and I danced with this guy... lets call him John, 14. (I knew nothing about him!) We had a great time and he asked me out... I said yes...
Well I went back to school and everyone found out! All the other guys that like me (who are my friends) seemed mad and sad at me. One of of my friends... Dan... asked me to go with him to the dance a few weeks ago, but I didn't because a lot of other guys asked...
I felt bad today because I figured out... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8... or so guys liked me all together... I feel so bad... everyone seems mad at me... and I cryed today at lunch in front of all those guys... (they tried to cheer me up)
Also today... one of the guys... Tim... gave me a letter saying he loved me and he cried because I was going out with someone else and I felt so embarrassed... and sad... also Dan told me he loved me yesterday trying to get me back... he wants me back....... (he said, "Will I ever get a chance to go out with you?).... that also made me cry....
I have no idea what to do... Tim wants me to break up with John and Dan wants me, but I'm going to the movies this weekend with John (maybe) and I was planning on kissing him.....
PLEASE someone help me... I'm so confused...
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u need to go out with who u wanna. if this many guys like u then i imagine that one less guy wouldnt make a difference. giv john a chance. jus bc these other guys rlly like u doesnt mean u should giv up ur relationship w/ john. hope i helped ~steph~
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hey...theres this guy who I just met but he goes to the school in the town next to mine...anyway...we hit off really well bc weve only talked for about a week N I like him N he likes me...last nite I was talkin to him on the phone N he said that he was 18...I was suprised bc he doesnt really look like 18 N then he asked if I had a problem with it...I said no bc I think age doesnt matter...but Im only 14 N he was askin how my parents would feel if they knew...then today I was thinkin bout it N now Im kinda worrying...but maybe its just bc I never liked an 18 year old...I kno this isnt really a question but Id just like to hear oppinions of wut ppl think bout age differences...or if anyone has been in this situation...thanx! (link)
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i think u should giv him a chance. dont label him jus bc of his age. watch out tho bc sometimes guys that age do jus want sex. hope i helped ~steph~
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wat sould i do when to many gurls liek this guy and he jsut goes with it should i still go out with him
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talk to him. i wouldnt b ok w/ him doing tht. if he keeps up w/ it then hes not goodenough 4 u. hope i helped ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!
P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!! (link)
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i miss my bf too. he jus broke up w/ me about a month ago. u need to talk to ur ex - bf and c whts up. or at least find out if he likes u bck somehow. u cant do this to the guy ur going out with now! u need to tell the guy ur going w/ now tht u need sometime to think about things. if he's as sweet as u say he is he'll respect tht. if u find out ur ex still likes u then u need to tell the other guy tht things arent going to work out bc u rlly liked him but dont want to c him anymore. maybe u 2 can jus b friends. hope i helped ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...
he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..
i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...
and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...
-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"
--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys- (link)
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wow it gets a bit confusing but it think i can help.... maybe hes jus tryin to ask u how to ask u out so he wont get rejected by u. tell him if he doesnt want to take ur advice then he has to figure out his own. if u like him but he doesnt like u as more than a friend then make sure he doesnt find out bc things would be weirder between u 2. maybe u jus wanna tell him how u feel but if he starts going out w/ this other grl tht hes tryin to ask out then jus b happy 4 him. if you got mad tht he doesnt wanna go out w/ u then he'll like u even less. hope it all works out! ~steph~ IM me anytime at : miZZcHeRRyCoKe36
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there is a dance friday at my school , i wanna get a shrit and jeans . . where can u get tight jean with like the belt connected to it ?? and also a want like a black shrit . . cuz i look like good in black . .please help me
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go to the mall and look in some stores. you might find sumtin u like. ull find sumtin. have fun at the dance! ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help? (link)
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well if shes not ok w/ it then dont go out w/ him. guys will come and go but best friends r 4ever! hope i helped! ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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theres this kid who at one point i "loved" and its been really hard for me to let him go. i finally thought i stopped liking him but hes always ther in the back of my mind. so theres this other kid im friends with and a little while ago someone told me he liked me, so i kinda started to like him back after a while cuz hes nice, cute, ya know... well anyways hes kinda quiet so it was hard for me to come out and tell him i thought i liked him, so i just kept quiet and we went on being friends. yesterday he came over and it was the first time we ever hung out alone(of course the whole fam had to be home!lol) but anyways, we talked and stuff but after he left i kinda thought about it and decided that idk if i really like him as more than a friend. i basically know the kid i cant get over will never like me again and i might have a chance with the other one, but im having so much trouble deciding how i really feel about both of them... ahh wicked confused lol if you have any advice/can realte please let me know! (link)
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im in a similar situation bc my bf dumped me and now theres this other kid who "loves" me and i like him 2 but i still cant get over my ex bf. i feel bad cuz i turned this kid down but then again it would be mean to go out w/ him when i still cant get over my last bf. anyway if ur ready to move on then u should but if u cant then give it sum time, u might decide wht u think is right. hope i helped. ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!! (link)
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try hard to keep your grades up! you can do it if you try! keep your head up! my mom bugs me 2. my parents told me last year that if i hadnt gotten all A's then i would have to go to military school. they also took away seeing my friends outside of school, tv, computer, phone and pretty much everything jus bc i was gettin 2 C's. if you try hard enough you can do it! p.s. no one rlly cares if its rlly long! hope i helped ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much. (link)
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hey i kno exactly wht ur going through! except my bf broke up w/ me about a month ago and i rlly miss him, sometimes i even jus go in my room and cry 4 a long time so trust me i kno plus hes going out with another girl now that i was friends with b4. anyway..... i would never tell u to move on, its way too hard! u need to talk to him and i kno how hard that is cuz i havent built up the courage to talk to my ex bf. give it some more time u might get him to like u again. i hope i helped ~steph~ IM - miZZcHeRRyCoKe36 -
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo (link)
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well was ur best friend invited? couldnt she come 2? maybe not. if i had to chose i would ask my friend if it was ok with her if i went to the party and could hang out with her another day to celebrate. hope i helped ~steph~
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Okay...I'm the girl who went out w/ Bobby. I fogot to say that I told him i don't like him anymore...my friend told him too (w/ out me knowing) but she said he stil thinks i like him!!!! ahhh! (link)
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i guess the only thing to do is tell him tht you dont like him sometimes there arent always easy answers. p.s. bobby who? if you dont mind me asking b/c just a few weeks ago my bf broke up w/ me and his name was bobby. IM me at miZZcHeRRyCoKe36. hope i helped.
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13/f Sorry if this is a little confusing!
My friend goes to a differnt school than me. She introduced this kid to me (hes 12) and now I'm beginning to liek him. I know he likes me too, because my friend asked him and he said yes, and he also told me. Like, it would work out great with us, except for one thing, my friend. She used to go out with him and he dumped her a little while ago. But she still likes him..a LOT. He knows that she likes him, but he doesnt like her. The girl that introduced us (that I have been talkign about the whole time, that likes him also) is mad at him for liking me, and mad at me for liking him. She really doesn't want me to like him, but it's hard NOT to..you know what I mean?? Well it's really confusing and I don't know what to do. What if he asks me out? I like him a lot too, but I don't want to lose my friend. Please help me? (link)
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i think you need to talk to your friend b/c if she still likes him then you dont want to hurt your friend, im in a similar situation except im the one who got dumped and now hes going out with this grl im kind of friends with. im very upset. im not saying u shouldnt go out with him but u need to at least tell her and maybe try to help her get over the pain by finding a new guy for her or something. i hope i helped! feel free to IM me at miZZcHeRRyCoKe36.
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