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move on or wait
we were together for two and a half years and have been through a marine corps deployment and came out even stronger. she broke up with me cause i was not helping out with the bills. i have made many changes with my money and have now paid all my bills off. i understand her reason for breaking up with me. but are relationship was extremly good exept for that one part. all though she has kicked me out she has not asked for my key back or to get my stuff out. i have sent her flowers and we went out to dinner. whe have plans for tomorrow and i dont know if i should ask her what is going on with us or not. also is she just playing me know cause if i get my stuff she will not have a kitchen table, couch's, entertainment stand and a bed for her sister to sleep on. i want to work this out but dont know how long to hang around. thanks b
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well b, i think that you should go hang out with her tomorrow, but i dont think she likes you anymore. when you were in the marine corps, it is highly likely that she cheated on you a lot, because not only are you far away, but you dont pay the bills, so she probably didnt care what you thought about it...if you ever found out, that is. youre holding on to something that isnt there, and shes just too lazy to get off her ass to call you to tell you to get your stuff and give her your key. hope i helped!
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u need to talk to her about it. the key to a good relation ship is comunication. i found tht out the hard way. if u wanna get bck together w/ her then u at least need to kno where u guys stand as of now. the longer u put it off the worse it will get. hope i helped ~steph~
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If you want it to work, and you think it can, then talk to her, ask her where you stand, where she stands, and where you stand as a couple. If she is willing to work it out as well then you shouldn't have to wait around, but if she flat out says no, I don't want to be with you any more then you should probably move on.
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Talk to her, ask her if your going to get back together soon. If your not gonna go out again, then since you feel so bad about taking your stuff. Why not just sell it to her? that way she gets to have all the stuff and you'll have money for new furniture. Hope i helped, good luck
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I think the only advice I can give in this situation is for you to talk to her about it over dinner or whatever yall are doing tomorrow. If she is using you then get rid of her! Otherwise keep her and try to make things better. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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