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Hey...okay well this may be a lil long but I'm really looking for a detailed answer. I really liked this totally hot guy Tyler. Everyone told me after a while that he had a "crush" on me and he was really interested in getting to know me better! So he ended up asking me to homecoming and everything went just as planned. We went to the dinner, to the dance, the whole 10 yards! We even kissed! BUT....after that things only got worse. We had really never talked THAT much b/c we're both shy but we still talked at least a lil. Well after homecoming I never saw him much anymore and he never really made an effort to talk to me when he did see me! Well eventually I found out he started going out w/ another girl who's homeschooled. I confronted him and told him I knew and it was no big deal. Well he wrote me a letter (which he NEVER does) and told me how sorry he was. I wrote back and told him not to feel bad. I pretend like I wasn't hurt and like I just didnt care. I also made it very clear I wanted to be friends! Even so he still didn't make the effort to talk to me....and I really do want to hang out b/c if something goes wrong w/ his g/f then maybe we can hook up and if not....I still wanna be his friend. How do I handel the situation so he doesn't think I want him. Do I ignore him and act like I did 5 mins before I knew he exsisted or do I just make an effort and talk to him. Someone help that has been in the situation before and "got the guy!" Even guys opinions would be nice. Thanks!
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ok, i have been in this situation before, not exactly but similer, i think you should let him know how you feel, it may sound dumb but it worked for me. i liked this guy who i thought liked me so everytime i was out i made the effort to go and talk to him but after a while he got a girlfriend i was gutted so i told him how i felt the next time i saw him out it took balls as i knew he had a gf but i did it anyway (with a little dutch courage!) anyway after a couple of weeks he told me him and his girlfriend had split up and he was dead chuffed when he knew i wanted to be with him cus he liked me too! so in your case i think you should do the same if he took the time to write you a letter then he must have some feelings for you - not alot of guys do that!
as for why he isnt talking to you maybe he is just a really shy person i think you will find that when you are with him, start off with you doing most of the talking, then he will feel more relaxed and realise that there is nothing to be shy about im sure you will work things out in the end hope this helps :)
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tell him how u feel. im struggling to talk to a guy who i wanna go out w/ even tho he has a gf. (we went out for 3 weeks and then we broke up) find out if he still likes u. it seems like u guys had a good time together. hope i helped ~steph~
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u need to make an effort and talk to him! tell him how u feel bout it now if i was u id tellh im that its kinda wrong for him to just pop up out of nowhere with a gf after yall had gone to hoemcoming nd kissed nd everything .. bt dass just me... do not keep it boiled up in side of u u need to confront him about it and i mean totally just how u feel let all ur emotions loose its the best thing to do! hope i helped
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