it took me almost a year to get over my ex boyfriend and even then i still wasn't all the way over him..i loved him so much and i still do only i was moving on sorta but now all the sudden im having tons of dreams about him and like all of them are of me and him being together and bein happy and shit, its freakin weird. i miss him so much..like hes my world and he makes me feel like i can be myself and he wont judge me or anything. i have no idea what to do. please dont tell me to move on because my hearts telling me not to. my bffl is neighbors with him and me and her and other people are going to this 4 story haunted house around halloween and shes bringing her boyfriend (most likely) and i want him to go..is that stupid even though we aren't together? should i try and make things work between us or what should i say/do??? thanks sooo much.
xOxPlAyGuRlxOx answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:53 pm: I've been in your position before, many times, with tha same guy, n it really sucks. Try talking to him about your relationship, maybe he feels tha same way? Me n my boyfriend talked when we broke up n we decided that we just couldnt live without each other. So I kno how you feel. I love my boyfriend so much n I couldnt be happier, we've been together for a year. So try talking to him about it, n ask him to go to tha haunted house with you, you guys could spend time together, n no, thats not stupid. Things could work again. Goodluck hun :) xOx [ xOxPlAyGuRlxOx's advice column | Ask xOxPlAyGuRlxOx A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 5:46 pm: hey i kno exactly wht ur going through! except my bf broke up w/ me about a month ago and i rlly miss him, sometimes i even jus go in my room and cry 4 a long time so trust me i kno plus hes going out with another girl now that i was friends with b4. anyway..... i would never tell u to move on, its way too hard! u need to talk to him and i kno how hard that is cuz i havent built up the courage to talk to my ex bf. give it some more time u might get him to like u again. i hope i helped ~steph~ IM - miZZcHeRRyCoKe36 - [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
advice_now_2334 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 5:22 pm: u should tell him to go and i know exactly wht ur going through except my boyfirnd had sex with a different girl and then had to go to rehab so i never had the chance to work it out with him. so dont miss that oppourtunity just try to make things work b.c if u dont then u will end up like me...alone and heartbroken. [ advice_now_2334's advice column | Ask advice_now_2334 A Question ]
MissEmmyBoo answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 5:18 pm: I think that you should talk to him and see what's up. If he still has feelings for you, then invite him to go with ya'll to the haunted house!!
-Ems [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 5:15 pm: Are you kidding me? Its not stupid you want him to go. You really like him, hes for you, your crazy for him, its beyond normal you want him to come with you guys. And since there's no way you can let your feelings go for him, then hell yeah talk to him!! Definetly make things try and work your hearts for him sweetheart, GOOO for it. You should say hey look, Im still having feelings for you, I think about you all the time, I can't get you off my mind, and I think this could work. Maybe if you told me why you guys broke up the 1st time i could help you. Good luck hun!
XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 5:15 pm: If you don't want to move on and you can't be dreaming about him forever then the only thing left to do is talk to him and tell him that you still have feelings for him. Tell him you were happy when you two were together and that you dont want it to come to an end.If hes really worth it then he will come around. I hope I helped!! <3Juliet<3 [ XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7's advice column | Ask XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 4:48 pm: If you still want him, go for it. Ask him if he still likes you and if he wants to go out with you again. Tell him you miss him and that you dont want to move on. So yeah, ask him if he still likes you and go from there. Good luck! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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