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Question Posted Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:31 pm

hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!!


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 2:24 pm:
Yup yup yup! been there done that.. people told me MOVE ON!! GRR TRIX MOVE ON! i couldnt .. or so i thought i didnt think it was fair exactly to the boy i was going out with ... hey it turned out to be a good relationship i new i had to move on but i just thought i couldnt... so.. i did.. slowly but i did so just try i know its not something you wanna hear its nothing i wanted to hear either but you know what.. just try k? just dont think about it .. well try anyhoot dont look at pictures and avoid seeing him

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BashfulBowler answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 4:56 pm:
You should probably tell your old boyfriend how all of this. Because if you were togehter for 9 and 1/2 months then he still has to have feelings for you.

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XsUpErGeRLx answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 4:45 am:
Ok, first off I think yew should talk to your new boyfriend about everything before yew try finding out how your ex feels. Because your new boyfriend might be hurt if he finds out that yew have secretly been wanting your ex back this whole time. And yeah he still might be hurt after yew talking to him... but atleast it is all out in the open now, and atleast he heard if from yew then somebody else! But after telling him how yew feel about your ex, go up to your ex and tell him everything that yew just said on here. If he feels the same that is great. Hope I could help! GoOd LuCk!

xOx Bia!

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Thickbabyie4u answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 9:17 pm:
Then TELL HIM! Don't sob over him cause then you'll have to spend the rest of your life wandering if he ever wanted you back.....and if he loves you like he said he did, then he should be more than willing to take you back. But if you cheated on him or something, then I dunno why he would take you back, but if you did, that's how you can really tell he loves you. God Bless & Good Luck! TELL HIM B4 IT'Z TOO LATE! ~Beebyes~

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AmAnDaAlLeN answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 8:37 pm:
You need to talk this guy...tell your new boyfriend what is going on and that you still love your old one...he should understand...ask your old boyfriend if he ever thinks yall could have a relationship again if he says yes go for it...if he says no then sorry to have to say this but TRY to move on...

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xOxPlAyGuRlxOx answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 8:06 pm:
I kno what kinda position youre in. Try talking to your ex boyfriend, see if he feels tha same way, because if he doesnt n you push your current boyfriend away thats gonna suck, cuz you wont have either. You dont wanna hurt your boyfriend, but im sure if you talk to him about it he'll understand that you just wanna be with your ex, cuz thats tha only way youll be happy. He should understand. If he really cares about you then he'll try to help you. You shouldnt be in a relationship with someone if youre not happy with them n you love/miss someone else, n you feel that being with your ex is tha only way youll be happy. So try talking to your ex, goodluck hun :) xOx

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niinax3 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 7:18 pm:
you should talk to both of them about it .. dont leave one hanging

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frenchfries21 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:59 pm:
i miss my bf too. he jus broke up w/ me about a month ago. u need to talk to ur ex - bf and c whts up. or at least find out if he likes u bck somehow. u cant do this to the guy ur going out with now! u need to tell the guy ur going w/ now tht u need sometime to think about things. if he's as sweet as u say he is he'll respect tht. if u find out ur ex still likes u then u need to tell the other guy tht things arent going to work out bc u rlly liked him but dont want to c him anymore. maybe u 2 can jus b friends. hope i helped ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-

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