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best friend's ex


Question Posted Monday October 18 2004, 7:15 pm

I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help?

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 2:20 pm:
Just talk to her about it.. but dont go out with him if its gunna hurt her

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IKnowWhatYouMean answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 7:56 pm:
you have to at least wait until shes over him.. i know thats gonna be hard but in the mean time you should see if you can transfer your feelings onto somebody else.. cuz like they always say theres a lot of fish in the sea.. if for some reason no fish tugs on ur hook you can wait til shes over him let her find someone new and then calmly talk about your feelings about him with her.. make sure to let her know that you would never want to jeapordize your relationship with her but you just cant help your feelings for this new guy.. trust me lots of experience on this one.. lotsa luck love mucho

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babychck2926 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:31 pm:
yea you coudl go out with him if ur friend new how you cared about him she would be you real friend thats wat happened to me ans she jsut said alright hes my ex and im gonna get over him and she will folow you

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paradiei3abii3x answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:25 pm:
Oh mii gosh..thats hard . well, you should never go out with your best friends ex, and vise versa. It is just the way us girls do our thing. Lol, I'm sorry if that didn't really help, but yah . friends are way more important than any boyfriend. Good luck!

MuaHsz . Katie

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XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:24 pm:
I think you should tell your bestfriend how you feel about her ex and ask her if she would be mad if you went out with him... if she says yeah and she would be mad I wouldn't want to go out with him cuz friends always come first and if she says no then thats great but don't date him without asking your friend first. Hope I helped! <3Juliet<3
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Michelley answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:16 pm:
NO WAY!!! It's one thing to go out w.your best friends ex when she is over him and she says its ok and stuff (*even tho she probably isn't ok w.it...) but if shes not over him you just CAN NOT go out w.him!!! and if you do she might hate you and people will think you're a backstabber and stuff, its just not worth it
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!

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advice_now_2334 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:11 pm:
whatever you do DO NOT GO OUT WITH UR FIRNEDS EX ESPECAILLY IF SHE ISNT OVER HIM. because that is showing that boys are more important than yall friendship. so either find a new boy or wait a little hwhile till she gets over him

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frenchfries21 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:07 pm:
well if shes not ok w/ it then dont go out w/ him. guys will come and go but best friends r 4ever! hope i helped! ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:05 pm:
umm hunni, i think you've got it all figured out for your self. Best friend before boyfriend.

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday October 18 2004, 7:26 pm:
I think it's okay for you to LIKE your friend's ex but if she's not over him yet, I think you might want to hold off on trying to go out with him. If you end up going out with him because you discover he likes you back, you might end up breaking up a friendship for a guy. Chicks before dicks. That's what I always say. Give it some time. If or when you see that she's over him, talk to her and say I like so and so (the guy's name) and see what she says. She could be okay with it and she could not be. It all really depends on the relationship she had with him before they broke up. Hope this helped.

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