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my dad fiqhtsz wit my mom...he wants to send me to canada for sneaking boys in the house n getting caught havinq sex w/ wun...my mom resentsz me...my sister looks up to me..i`m in lOve with this boy who means sooo much to me bt i dOn`t kno what to dO..yesz,i see i`ve made mistakez..buT iT`z hard when i aLso qoT sO much pressure on me! i`m alsO starting a new hiqh schOol next week and everythinq!! my old friendz are all abandoninq me! aNyOne qoT aNyY helpfuL advice tO make my life a lil easier (besidez stop beinq obsessed wit quysz)
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The first thing I would suggest you do is stop and really think about what you want to do. Ask yourself if you want to change anything about yourself. Are there things you want to stop doing? Are there things you want to start doing? How do you view yourself? Do you like the kind of person you are? If not, what do you want to change?
Then, once you've answered them, sit your parents down and communicate with them. Yes, t-a-l-k. Talking things out is so very important. Tell your parents all the questions you asked yourself, and then tell them you want to make changes. You don't have to tell them all your answers if you don't want, but you may want to give them a couple. It makes parents feel better if they know something going on in your head. If they don't, then they tend to just guess what your answers are and end up wanting to send you to Canada.
And don't be afraid to ask them to "please" help you with all of this. Parents like to feel needed. And you do need them. They just need to hear it. And no matter what they say, yell, or throw at you, try your best to stay calm and quiet till they get it all out. They are obviously frustrated. But once they calm down, I'm confident you all can have a great relationship.
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