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theres this kid who at one point i "loved" and its been really hard for me to let him go. i finally thought i stopped liking him but hes always ther in the back of my mind. so theres this other kid im friends with and a little while ago someone told me he liked me, so i kinda started to like him back after a while cuz hes nice, cute, ya know... well anyways hes kinda quiet so it was hard for me to come out and tell him i thought i liked him, so i just kept quiet and we went on being friends. yesterday he came over and it was the first time we ever hung out alone(of course the whole fam had to be home!lol) but anyways, we talked and stuff but after he left i kinda thought about it and decided that idk if i really like him as more than a friend. i basically know the kid i cant get over will never like me again and i might have a chance with the other one, but im having so much trouble deciding how i really feel about both of them... ahh wicked confused lol if you have any advice/can realte please let me know!
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ifu feel like u and the boy you so cal "love" are never going to be together again and u like the other kid then u hsould just go out with him because i think that he can help you get over the other boy like me for instance me and my ex went out for about 9 months adn we were madly in love with eachother. well he switched sko0ls but we still lived in the same town and we kinda just started fading. and he wouldnt call me as much as he did and then i found out that he had cheated on me and the reason why he wouldnt keep in touch with me anymore was becasue he couldnt be around me and act like nothing was rong when really everything was so when i found out about it i threw the chain he gave to me at him and ran off crying (meaning we broke up) a week later i founf out that he had to go to rehab and i couldnt talk to him for about 6 months.. i never had the chance to tell him that i wuold give him another chance since i loved him so incredibly much and i couldnt live without him. i started becoming suicidal and i had to be put on depression pills because even months after we broke up i would still jsut sit in my bed for hours and cry over him. but needless to say, this other boy that i had been good firnds with asked me out and i sed yes.. i finally started gettin over my exand got off my depression pills. he kinda saved me and picked me up and put me back on track. i will always have a spot in my heart for my ex and no one can change that.. my ex just recntly got out of rehab and i was the first girl he called. i never gave him a chance to explain himself and we talked for hours on the fone adn decided that being firneds is gunna be hard but its the best thing for us b/c if we go out again then there is a chance that i can gethurt. so no matter how much u love him, you need to try to move on because u dont need to get ur little heart shattered again. i know this is really long so ill cut it short. so my advice to you is that you should go out with that new boy and just try to make everything ccoool with ur ex and just be firneds its hard, i would know, but its the best thing 4 u and for him so neither of u can get hurt again. you will aways have a spot in ur heart for him but u just have to move on.sorry so long and i hope i helped u at least a little bit
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im in a similar situation bc my bf dumped me and now theres this other kid who "loves" me and i like him 2 but i still cant get over my ex bf. i feel bad cuz i turned this kid down but then again it would be mean to go out w/ him when i still cant get over my last bf. anyway if ur ready to move on then u should but if u cant then give it sum time, u might decide wht u think is right. hope i helped. ~steph~ IM -miZZcHeRRyCoKe36-
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hey there! aight! im in the exact position right now! but i dont like anyone else! but i love this kid! and i cant let go of him! and i thought about it a lot and i realized that im not ready to move on and let go of him so i decided not too and im gonna try to win him back! so my advice for you is that if your heart is saying i dont want to let go of him then dont let go of him but if its the opposite then do it! listen to your heart becz u should always do what you want to not what other people want you to do !!! and you never know if he will start to like you again ! maybe you should talk to him about it but dont push it or anything! and about this other guy that you think likes you nothing wrong with being good friends you never know he might want to just be friends too! so you should talk to both of them and follow ur heart! i hope i helped or a little if ya ever need help or anymore questions just ask me!
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