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Hey there! my name is Hannah and i like in Cottage Grove MN and i go to oltman jr. high school! im in the 8th grade ! im in student council and i play basketball and soccer and volleyball im very active ! and on my free time i hang out with friends ! my friends come to me for advice all the time and i love to listen and help anyway i can! i very talkative ! im not shy only sometimes!! i would love to help so just ask and i will be there to do anything i can!

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Ok, I'm a 10th grader who really has a life I like.There are a couple of things I don't like, and one of them is how much my friends worry about me. Last year, midyear, they started to freak out about me, and almost every day they'd ask what I did the night before. They were scared I was cutting, I wasn't. Now, this year, they are still after me about it, and some of them think I"m suicidal (no, I'm not depressed, though I sometimes act like it), and not only are my school friends thinking this way, so are my friends who dont' attend my school, and a bunch of my dance friends think this too! Is there any way I can convince them that I'm fine? It's making me crazy, and I've got enough to stress about right now.
thanks!

*Hey*
Okay! even though i dont know you i do believe you about how you dont cut urslef! well like everyone else prolly said , you should talk to them ! they need to know how you feel about this and how much stress they are causing you and stuff! okay i have a little story for ya i know some people that cut them selves and you can tell that they do becz they have cuts on they waist and that r really deep! so it might be weird but show them taht you dont have any cuts and tell them that you are glad taht they worry about you but them are pushin this one a little bit to much! i hope i helped!
*LOve ya*

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okay, my ex just got a new gf and i'm cool with it b/c i'm over him and she's pretty cool. well, me and my ex are like best-friends (he is my other brother) but the other night he told me that he was just going out w/ this girl for "kicks" and he asked for my help with fixing it. his gf doesn't know yet and i want to talk to him about it but everytime i talk to him now he tells people i was talking to him b/c i like him....how can i talk to him and help w/o him thinking that i'm trying to break up him and his gf?

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well maybe you talk to him on the phone so that like no one is around to see it or in a note but if you do it in a note do remember that he could show people so the best way is either in person or on the phone! so he is just ogin out with this girl for the kicks? so he doesnt really like her! is he just doin it to make you jealous or what? he should prolly talk to his girlfriend and tell her what he told you and maybe she will understand but maybe not becz most people really wouldnt think of that so funny! but just tell him to talk to his girlfriend becz you dont want her to get hurt in the long run! right?
well i hope i helped!
*Love ya*

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Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
Thanks!

*Hey*
well it seems to me that your boyfriend likes you alot and that he doesnt want to loose you so he is being like really protective and gets mad over little things! but dont worry ! it will all work out ! you could maybe talk to him about it ! or just start to tlak to him all the time and stuff and see if his mood changes about this ! becz its only be 3weeks and you really wanna give it alot of time before you asssume things! like my friend for an example was getting really protectice over her boyfriend and she put alot of pressure on him and finally he said it was over becz she put to much pressure on him! and i really dont want that to happen to you! so be open to his oppions and just listen and maybe it will help!
Love ya!
hope i helped

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theres this kid who at one point i "loved" and its been really hard for me to let him go. i finally thought i stopped liking him but hes always ther in the back of my mind. so theres this other kid im friends with and a little while ago someone told me he liked me, so i kinda started to like him back after a while cuz hes nice, cute, ya know... well anyways hes kinda quiet so it was hard for me to come out and tell him i thought i liked him, so i just kept quiet and we went on being friends. yesterday he came over and it was the first time we ever hung out alone(of course the whole fam had to be home!lol) but anyways, we talked and stuff but after he left i kinda thought about it and decided that idk if i really like him as more than a friend. i basically know the kid i cant get over will never like me again and i might have a chance with the other one, but im having so much trouble deciding how i really feel about both of them... ahh wicked confused lol if you have any advice/can realte please let me know!

hey there! aight! im in the exact position right now! but i dont like anyone else! but i love this kid! and i cant let go of him! and i thought about it a lot and i realized that im not ready to move on and let go of him so i decided not too and im gonna try to win him back! so my advice for you is that if your heart is saying i dont want to let go of him then dont let go of him but if its the opposite then do it! listen to your heart becz u should always do what you want to not what other people want you to do !!! and you never know if he will start to like you again ! maybe you should talk to him about it but dont push it or anything! and about this other guy that you think likes you nothing wrong with being good friends you never know he might want to just be friends too! so you should talk to both of them and follow ur heart! i hope i helped or a little if ya ever need help or anymore questions just ask me!

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