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I'm a 13 grl. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 5 months.. I really love him and I always want to be with him and he feels the same. We say we r going to get married someday.. well! I have a best friend and we've always kinda've liked each other and our friendship is growing.. my bf is going to high school next year and im going to be stuck behind for a year... he skipped a grade. but he's still my age. well! I don't know wut to do bc i want to kinda give our relationship a break when he goes to high school and get back together when i get there... but he wants to stay together.. and i dont want to break his heart or anything. please help!!!
confused girl (link)
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sometimes its not bad to give you guys a break from high school to middle school.. you guys will still see eachother afterschool, just during school u wont see him, no big deal. x0
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does anyone know any websites that you can go to to make your own website? or do you no how to make your own website?? please answer asap
THANKS TONS! (link)
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aol gives you free webpages that you can make. x0
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I asked my mother what would be the appropriate age to start seeing a gynocologist. She told me that I don't need to see one for a while (I'm 14). I don't know what she meant by "a while". What would be a good age to start seeing a gynocologist? And, out of curiosity, can they really tell that you've had sex/been fingered/ etc? What is it like going to the gynocologist? I'm quite nervous about even going at all because I hear it's uncomfortable and painful. Can anyone fill me in on your experience and share your knowledge about this? (link)
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an appropriate age to go see one is like when you start to become sexually active. yes they can really tell if youve have had sex or any of that stuff. going to the gyno isn't bad as people say, its just showing that you are responsible for your body and health. you can im me on my screen name ox SweetKisses 0 . x0
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my best friend has been wit her boy 4 3 months...they say they love each other..and hes really trying to get her to have sex...and well she says she wants to..i dont think shes ready..but i mean, its her decision..she wants 2 use 2 condoms! for extra protection of gettin pregnant!..please help! (link)
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well talk to your friend about it, it always help, and theres other ways to have protection besides 2 condoms, but yes its her decision but you can talk to her about how you feel about her having sex, its nice to hear what your best friend thinks about things like that. x0
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how do u use a tampon (link)
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theres directions in the box of tampons that you buy. it should work! x0
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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me! (link)
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well if this is real love like you say, then you guys definiatly deserve eachother, and if he wants you then you cant change that unless you keep pushing him away like you do, and you cry about it? then dont push him away!! jeez get back together with him and go to his church to suprise him or something, get back together with him. and just realize some obvious stuff. x0
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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333 (link)
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do what you feel comforable doing, usually 3 days is wayyyy too early for anything, but its all up to you. but keep it to yourselves behind locked doors, its not good to do that when you guys are in the same room as other people. x0
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i feel fat. like everyone tells me that i am skinny. i am 5'6" and 108 lbs. I know i am not really overweight, but i have tons of fat. i allways feel self consious, and i have noticed myself getting more and more concerned about how i look. i am afraid i might develope an eating disorder, or just become depressed about it. that is like all i ever think about anymore. help (link)
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holy shit! you are definatly NOT fat!! your just tall for a girl and thats normal for a girl of that height to weigh like that, usually its more! maybe you just realized if you eat alot, that you think your getting fat but really your not, you probably just eat alot but in small portions throughout the day. thats what i do i'm 5'2 and i weigh 103 pounds. its normal for teenagers
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my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does. (link)
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get used to it.. guys will be guys, and he'll have his fun doin his stuff.. learn to live with it, life goes on. x0
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Okay well i was dating this one guy (Rick) and he was really nice and kinda cute and we talked like all the time on the internet and at school but whenever we started going out at school he didn't talk to me and it looked as if we didn't even know each other but whenever i talked to him on the internet he was sooo nice and it seemed as if i was falling in love with him... well since he never talked to me i broke up with him (all my friends told me to also)... well one day at school i decided i was gonna have my friend (Ashley) do it for me after school... well whenever i was in 7th period i decided i didn't want to... i told Ashley that but she didn't listen all she said is "if your gonna do it... its now or never" so she went and did it with a whole bunch of friends of hers (which i told her not to tell anyone but she did anyways) and then i was really sad and kinda mad about it b/c i didn't wanna do it... well i regret it A LOT! and now well there are a few other guys that like me and that have been asking me out but i don't know if i'm ready to go out with anybody.. i heard that rick still likes me but i don't know if i should go back out with him or someone else.. like my friends made fun of me for going out with him in the first place b/c he isn't the cutest guy in the world and they would really make fun of me if i went back out with him... and plus one of my friends like him but i know she wouldn't care if i went out with him ( i don't think she would) but i don't know if i should let him know how i feel or just keep it in and see if i eventually get over him! please help me!
*Helen* (link)
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since you just got out of your relationship with rick i think its best not to move on, since you still have feelings for him. you shouldn't worry about what your friends have to say, even tho friends come before guys.. but theres pros and cons about that one, she just needs to understand that you still have feelings and she didn't even care like a friend should have.. everyone eventually gets over the other person in a matter of time, but its all what you decide to do. i hope ive helped! x0
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OK here's the deal. Me and this kid have liked each other for a few weeks now and he finally asked me out. We've only been going out for 2 days now but its feels like longer. I really do love him, and he loves me. There's just one problem. He's kind of "advanced". I'm only in 8th grade and i've never really been into doing things with guys. For example, I wouldn't give a guy head or handjob anytime soon. He jokes around a lot about this and really wants me to do it but he isn't pressuring me. The problem is, he always wants me to go to his house after school, and for some reason i don't like to go without a friend. I don't know why, but I just can't bring myself to go alone. I love him a lot, but I feel better knowing that someone else is there with me in case something goes wrong. Even if it's one of his friends that's there too, i'm ok, but other than that, i just get a little uneasy. It's just something weird I guess that's going on with me that's making me not want to be alone with him. The other problem is that I still don't know how to kiss and now that I have a boyfriend, I think that maybe that's the reason im scared to be alone with him because i'm afraid of his making a move on me. I don't suppose I would mind too much if we kissed but I still don't "know how to". He sounds mad whenever I don't go to his house. He always wants me to, and he always wants me to go to the movies. That's where my problme of being alone with him comes out. I don't want to go to the movies with him if it's just me and him so I usually suggest a double date but the thing is, my friend would be making out with her friend during the whole movie and it might make me and my boyfriend feel weird so I never want to go. I feel bad saying no to him, but I don't know what to do to not be scared about it. Can someone please help me and tell me what I should do? I would appreciate it so much and i will rate you 5 even if you don't give good advice. Thanks (link)
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ok if you really love him then you wouldn't have any problems spending sometime alone with him and let alone, kiss him. you guys are just in puppy love i guess you would call it that.. you guys just really like eachother and you just dont want to do something stupid to ruin your relationship with him, i know how you feel. just do things your comfortable with doing around him. just go hang out if something happens just talk to him and tell him about things. x0
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Ok.. I'm almost 15 years old in the 9th grade.
Over the summer I started dating one of my best friends. (Jay).. Jay and I were really close. We were always hanging out. So anyway.. one night at my house we had dry sex. Is it true that you can get pregnant from that??? We continued dating the rest of the summer and on the 1st day of school Jay broke up with me. He's always all over every girl at school anyways. But I was still really hurt. He's the only guy that I've ever really cried over. So.. I've had anyother boyfiend from about 2 months now but I think I still like Jay. My boyfriend and I now haven't even done anything that is even close to dry sex. Is it possible that I just miss Jay because we actually did "stuff"? and is it fair to my boyfriend now that I feel this way?? (link)
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its normal to miss your 'first love' or whatever you would call it, and that you guys did have dry sex doesn't help. well just have your bf understand that you still/and u might always have feelings for jay. he should understand. and no you cannot get pregnant from dry sex. x0
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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?! (link)
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bleaching is the best technique for hair above the lips. x0
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are you spossed to shave..'down there'? (im a girl?????
and i shave a little..of corse but where i shave it, i get little bumps and they dont itch or anything but how do i get rid of them!!!
THANK U so much :o) (link)
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your welcome hun
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are you spossed to shave..'down there'? (im a girl) i shave a little..of corse but where i shave it, i get little bumps and they dont itch or anything but how do i get rid of them!!! (link)
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okay.. if you really want to shave.. down there.. from what i know thats what most girls do.. okay to get rid of them.. shave down first to get rid of the stubbles, haha, and then go on with your shaving upwards and stuff.. you can still use soap or shaving cream or something to help with the drying/itchy skin or idk what its used for. lol. but i hope i've helped! x0
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me and my boyfriend of 5 months dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT i love him to death and everything is perfect with him except that im always the one who has to go to see him...i go over there every wednesday and mostly on the wekeends....SOMETIMES he comes to the mall which is close 2 my house....he never has a ride and stuff...but my mom is like oh he has to come over here before i let you go back to his house because he never comes over here and i always hav to take you over there.....what can i do? he cant take the bus or drive or nothing but its not fair to me... (link)
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well.. me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now... hes only been to my house maybe 4 times altogether, so i know where your coming from, but my mom isn't like that.. your mom could pick him up sometimes.. he can come off the buss after school, or even a bike. ha well hope things work out for you. x0
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ok to understand my question here is what happened before...Sorry it is long!!!
my friend kristina is dating this guy named richard. Well they dated for about 1 year before breaking up because he is constantly a jerk to her. He was possesive and always jealous. When she would talk to her friends while talking to him he would flip out and he would flip out if she talked to other guys. Well, many times before she wanted to break up with him but he would always say he loved her so much and that he would change but he never did. Even her parents hated himZ Well, right before school started he wanted to get back together with her. (**Me and Kristina talked every day**)She wasnt sure if she should because of how he used to treat her. I kept telling her not to because she would only get hurt again. Well, she is dating him now and she totally changed. SHe never talks to me or her best friend Kayliee anymore. We both said that if she keeps this up that when she needs we might not be there anymore. What can I do to make her see what is going on and that he is a jerk without hurting her feelings or anything. (link)
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i know what your going thru, well actually i know how kristina is dealing with everything, and she should really talk to her bf about her friends that she needs to hang out with every once in a while and still keep in contact with you and kayliee. in the end she will realize how she was being a jerk to both of you girls. call her up one night with kayliee and just talk to her about things, or in classes or after school, just try to sit her down and talk things with her. x0
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Okay, does anybody know for sure how old you have to be to get your bellybutton pierced in Oregon? And how much does it cost? My parents won't let me get it done so i have to be old enough to get it without their permission because they think it will get infected. But if i were to do it by myself, what do i have to do or buy to make sure it doesn't get infected? thanks (link)
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any age with your parents consent. unless your 18 or older. it costs around 30 dollars. yea, so you have to wait till your 18 to get it done. D0 N0T D0 iT BY Y0URSLEF!!! trust me, it kills and it will get infected most likely. well if you really want to do it by yourself and have your parents bitch at you, okay, buy antibacterial soap and just on you fingers run it under water and just rub it around the hole like twice a day and move the ring/barbell thing around too. if you go to the mall you can find really cute bellie rings but for the first one dont buy a really good one buy something small with no diamonds or studs in it. x0
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Hey I recently dyed my hair black and I was wondering if it will look good with red highlights. I have brown skin. if you have anyother colors that might look good please tell me. not blonde everyone has blonde i wand something different. (link)
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well i heard its pretty hard to get rid of black but red highlights with black hair sounds like a good idea to me, my friend had black hair -» striped her hair to get rid of the black-» then died it a dark burgandy red and at the tips she put black again. and its really cute. so yea the red sounds good with black hair. x0
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