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long distance relationship
me and my boyfriend of 5 months dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT i love him to death and everything is perfect with him except that im always the one who has to go to see him...i go over there every wednesday and mostly on the wekeends....SOMETIMES he comes to the mall which is close 2 my house....he never has a ride and stuff...but my mom is like oh he has to come over here before i let you go back to his house because he never comes over here and i always hav to take you over there.....what can i do? he cant take the bus or drive or nothing but its not fair to me...
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well.. me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now... hes only been to my house maybe 4 times altogether, so i know where your coming from, but my mom isn't like that.. your mom could pick him up sometimes.. he can come off the buss after school, or even a bike. ha well hope things work out for you. x0
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well maybe you can go and pick him up and then come back?? lol i dunno.. maybe you could just ask him to ask his friends to give him a ride back to your house
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You are right it, it isn't fair to you. Talk to him about it and make him understand that you're sick of doing all the giving in the relationship and your mom isn't willing to have you go over there any more if he is not willing to find a way to get over to your house. Don't be too harsh about it though because that could just make a worse situation. Listen to his side to see if there are any solutions. Sorry if that didn't help.
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Well, have you talked to him about this? I mean, it really isn't very fair of him to be making you do all the work - I had a boyfriend who did that too. I guess the only advice I can give you is to talk to him about it and ask him over to your house or something. Maybe he's like uncomfortable around your parents or something, I don't know. Just try to compromise with him! I hope I helped:-)
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