Question Posted Saturday December 11 2004, 9:53 pm
hello! me and my boyfriend have dated for 3 months and then we broke up. But know we started dating again. And know he is different, he wont touch me i always have to grab him. like grab his hand if i want to hold it. what should i do?
SunShineAngel3 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 6:01 pm: try talking to him or being more phsical like take his hand like you said and make him understand that you want him to do that, so he should relax because he just might be nervous around you so give him a little time to warm up to you agian and then he might get the picture
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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 4:41 pm: haha my boyfriend was the same he did it wen i was like next to him he wouldnt just walk up and grab it like i did and i grab his hand and said u no its okay lol and thats when he started to just randomly grab my hand [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Farren answered Sunday December 12 2004, 2:21 pm: Talk to him about it. Maybe you guys should've stayed broken up, but you both just wanted to be with someone. A lot of people let relationships go on longer than they should, and unless you plan on marrying him maybe you should just let it go if he's changed and he isn't the same person you liked before.
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Karen answered Sunday December 12 2004, 12:12 pm: Talk to him! Tell him that you want to have the same kind of relationship as before! Tell him that you want him to be more touchy towards you! Hope I helped :)
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M&S answered Sunday December 12 2004, 2:09 am: I think you should just talk it over w/ him. Yea it would be kind of embarrasing but wuts more important ur rep or your boyfriend's feelings. Just make sure you include all the details when talking to him. Boys can be pretty stupid (lol). On the other hand maybe your moving to fast for him. Try and take it slow and flirt and little bit more. [ M&S's advice column | Ask M&S A Question ]
maria3654 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 12:36 am: please just stop grabbing him thats disturbing.who cares if he wont touch u thats gross. just...i dunno deal with it maybe hell make a move [ maria3654's advice column | Ask maria3654 A Question ]
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 11:00 pm: OMG! My ex-bf did the exact same thing. Maybe he's just uncomfortable with the whole breaking up and getting back together thing. You should talk to him about it - communication is key if you want your relationship to work. I hope I helped! [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
Magic answered Saturday December 11 2004, 10:22 pm: you can talk to him aske him whats up see if this is the relationship he wants and if it is you is there is something wrong with you or him [ Magic's advice column | Ask Magic A Question ]
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