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shes not ready!
my best friend has been wit her boy 4 3 months...they say they love each other..and hes really trying to get her to have sex...and well she says she wants to..i dont think shes ready..but i mean, its her decision..she wants 2 use 2 condoms! for extra protection of gettin pregnant!..please help!
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there is no question here. and what difference does it make to you? if she wants to have sex then fine, let her. that is only something that she can dtermine for herself. you cant tell her whether she is ready or not. i still dont know what your asking tho and i still dont know how any of that is your business?!?!?!?!!!
she will decide what is right for her, not you. and it sounds like they have everything under control. they are going to be somewhat responsibe because they have atleast decided to use protection. so thats a good thing. just stay outta it and mind you own business. its their sex life.
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If the guy's pressuring her to have sex, its not love. Lust maybe, but definetely not love. If you think she's not ready, talk to her and set her head straight. If that doesnt work, look at the positive: atleast she'll be using a condom.
JynXie
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well talk to your friend about it, it always help, and theres other ways to have protection besides 2 condoms, but yes its her decision but you can talk to her about how you feel about her having sex, its nice to hear what your best friend thinks about things like that. x0
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well the best advice i can give you is to just talk to your friend...if they havent been together for that long then they shouldnt have sex but i mean its her and she might not listen to you but just give her the best advice you can and tell her that haveing sex isnt a good thing untill your married and if your married befor you have sex then you'll know that the guy wont leave you...theres all kinds of STD's out there and condoms break...even if you had 2 condoms on at once it doesnt matter theres still a chance of her getting pregnant...so just talk to your friend. I hope my advice helped!
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using two condoms isn't extra protective. i think you need to talk to her and let her know you care about her, but you really don't think she's ready. if she wants to have sex that bad, make sure she knows different birth control techniques that have a greater chance of working. =)
-laura-
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Noooooooooooooooo! Don't use 2 condoms, they're more likely to stretch, rub against each other and break that way! If she's not on the pill, she needs to use one condom, NOT TWO.
You're right, though, it is her decision. However, it should be HER decision, not his. If she's not truly ready, she'll know. If she has doubts, or she's afraid, she's not ready. I wasn't, at first. 3 Months isn't that long a time, you know. However, if your friend thinks she's ready, let her be ready. But make sure she knows to take precautions. She should really be on the pill, but then, I wasn't on it the first time I had sex. Again, ONE CONDOM ONLY. If you use 2, they could rub against each other and break. Make sure she knows that. If she's that paranoid, too, she has to tell the guy to hold the bottom of the condom to make sure it doesn't slip off when he pulls out. My mom, by the way, told me all this. Parents are really useful resources.
Anyway. If your friend is really ready to have sex, I say let her go for it. Just tell her the right stuff to make sure she's safe about it. I hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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NEVER USE TWO CONDOMS!
Using more than one condom will increase the chances of the condom breaking. If your friend doesn't know the proper way to use birth control, she is not ready to have sex.
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