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when a guy says "i want you" what exactly does it mean? my bf said it to me (link)
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It means that he wants to be intimate with you. You may want to talk to him and ask him how far he wants to go and how far you're comfortable with, if he brings it up or one thing leads to another.
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is it normal too discharge alot when your getttin fingred? is that considered like being wet? (link)
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I'm assuming that you don't mean actual discharge (however, if that's what it is, it's perfectly normal unless it has a terrible smell or unusual color to it), when you get "wet" it's usually something called "cum" that you release.
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Alright, Sit back and relax because this gets fairly complex. I met this guy through musical theatre. He's 20 and I'm 15. One thing lead to another and we ended up talking alot and such. He asked me to the movies, but my dad wouldnt let me go. [which i got because of the 20 vs 15 thing]
anyways we talk alot and i think he likes me. I know I like him a whole lot. It's just that we both kind of know it's not going to work out..
I just sometimes want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know whether I should. I mean is it even worth it? We can't go out now anyways so.. (link)
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It could be worth it in the long run, could you see yourself waiting until you're seventeen or eighteen to date this guy, and do you think he'd still want to date you at that time? If so, then I think it would be worth it to tell him how you feel. Also, maybe if you tell your parents how you really feel (if you already haven't), then they may just change their minds.
Best of luck, my friend!
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It seems every one is richer than me.,
and everyone has the "it" look but me,
and I want that look.
the tan skin with blonde blonde hair, and pretty makeup with the cute clothes (always!)
Help.. (link)
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Been there, sweetie, believe me, it isn't all it's cracked up to be. My story -- it's a long one, but I'll sum it up for you. I was fairly poor or at least I was compared to others (even though I had nice things still) and yet I was so rich in every other way. I didn't look like everyone else, but I was still popular and everyone knew I was genuine. However, like you, I envied those girls and wanted to be them.
Well, after a few years, my family got rich and I turned into one of those girls. With that, the clothes, the hair, the nails, all of that stuff changed me. I thought I owned the world and I could have just whatever I wanted (even though I never acted like it, but it killed me inside feeling that way, it just wasn't me). I realized it's not about money and all of this superficial stuff, it's about who you are.
Now, my family is somewhere in the middle. I'm rich in every sense of the word except for the literal term, yet again, and I've learned to be perfectly okay with that. I'm a good person and people like me for who I am, not the latest brand name jacket I'm wearing. I'm so much more than that, I can tell you are too, so don't try to be like those girls, don't try to be like them. People will love you for being confident and radiant and showing who you truly are, that's all your really need.
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Ok look yea I masterbate and stuff but is it safe/ok to do it before you get your first period? And also would it be ok if I had sex before I get my first period???!!???
Thanx!!
XOXO (link)
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In my opinion, masturbating is perfectly fine. It is the safest type of sexual thrill there is, and it also helps you stay away from actually going all the way. I do not advise you to have sex, believe me, you have your whole life ahead of you. I know you've probably heard that from a million adults, but I'm sixteen, and I'm telling you that you will be much better off to wait. You'll meet a nice guy that you know it's really right and not just lust, and it will be wonderful. It will be so much better if you wait and so much safer.
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i lied to my boyfriend '
about getting him a dog'
im post to have one buy tommrow'
what do i do' (link)
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This is a toughie, but...maybe you should just go buy him one? Better yet, adopt one who needs a good home. Or you could just tell him the truth, that's a good idea too.
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me n my boyfriend are white and my best friend is black. my boyfriend makes raceist comments and jokes alottt. what can i do?? im never gona leave either of them and i already tell them to stop..? (link)
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If your best friend is honestly your best friend, then why would you then choose to stay with someone whom you know makes racial slurs towards him? You wouldn't want your best friend to be doing the same to you, right? I think you should leave your boyfriend, it just goes to show how ignorant he truly is for not being able to see past someone's color and into their heart.
Also, I find it hard to believe that you wouldn't leave your best friend if the situation were turned around and your best friend was making racial comments towards your boyfriend. I'm willing to bet you'd leave him in a second, just because your boyfriend would seem more important. I am not trying to be rude, I just want you to see how ignorant this guy is and that you would be much better off without him.
And friends should come first, especially in a time like this. Your boyfriend could walk off and leave you and you may not even have a friend left by then, if you keep letting them be abused verbally.
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What are some songs about doing what you know is best for you even though it hurts like hell? (link)
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Better in Time by Leona Lewis is the perfect one for this.
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so i heard that i doctor can tell whether a girl is a virgin or not.
what is it that they look at that indicates whether or not they have had sex? (link)
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What those people were referring to is that the doctor may seem that you're hymen has been broken or punctured, which is what people refer to as the "cherry" that's being popped, by the way. However, there are various ways to break your hymen, therefore, that is why the doctor will ask you if you sexually active and until you say, "Yes..." the doctor will not know.
By the way, if you are going to go to a "female" doctor, as I like to call it, if you are sexually active, it is probably a good idea to tell them. They cannot tell your parents and will not because of privacy and the doctor can treat you and make sure everything is in good shape. Just a suggestion, my friend.
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My best friend since like forever won't talk to me! Well I mean she does, but not like she use to. We use to tell each other everything and now she won't tell me what's going on with her. She doesn't talk to me on the phone anymore as much as she use to. I know it's probably something she doesn't want to talk about, but I really want to help her. I should probably drop it. What do you think I should do!?
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Sometimes, friends grow apart for various reasons. Your friend may be going through something that she may not feel as though she can tell you. What I would suggest is to talk to her, let her know how you're feeling and that you're concerned and listen to what she has to say.
Good luck!
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How do you make out? What do i do with my tongue? What is he going to with his tongue? (link)
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Hello, my friend. The main thing you want to do is to think about what your tongue is doing, it's not really important to think about what his tongue is doing, all that matter is what yours is doing and he will follow right along.
You want to gently glide your tongue inside his mouth and here's what I always tell people -- focus on doing the alphabet with your tongue. Like, for "A," just use your tongue and try to make an "A" with your tongue and so on throughout the alphabet. It really does come naturally, an important thing to remember is to not be nervous and don't overthink. For a lot of people, it helps just to be in the moment and focus on doing the alphabet with your tongue, and it makes a load easier.
Good luck!
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I can't get my Frostwire to connect to the internet.
It worked on my old laptop perfectly, but it won't connect on my new one.
I have vista and Avira Antivirus on my laptop if that helps.
And don't tell me to change my antivirus...
So yeah, how can I get it to connect to the internet?
Thanks! (link)
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This happened to someone I know and they changed to Limewire (they couldn't figure out how to fix it either) and it connected much better.
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i love wavy hair! and i wish i could get my hair to look like that. what are some step by step instructions i can do to make my hair look wavy. my hair length is kinda long. its below my shoulders right about my boobs...
thank you!
remember...step by step. don't leave anything out :) lol (link)
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I think this will help you out, my friend.
http://www.temptalia.com/how-to-get-perfectly-wavy-hair-and-at-home-spiral-curls-by-marco-santini
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does anyone know how to download the song i'd lie by taylor swift? is it even on an album? are there any sites that i would be able to download it? i've tried itunes and walmart. they both dont have it... (link)
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You can download this song for free on Limewire.
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i was wondering if there are any products that would get rid of really bad frizz. I would like to have my hair be curly, but every time i let it dry by itself, or i curl it, it gets EXTREMELY frizzy. The only way that i get rid of the frizz is by straightening it. so i need products that work really well. Thanks!!! (link)
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I recommend John Frieda's Frizzease line. They carry shampoos and conditioners, along with serums and sprays that work very well at keeping your hair frizz free. I've used this product personally and it works perfectly.
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K so I'm 15/f frshman and HS and I've never had a bf, and only 1 guy that I know that's actualy ever liked me. All my friends have had/have bf's and I haven't, I've never kissed anyone either, and my bestfriend just told me that she had sex for the first time, and I just feel like I'm a total freak because I've never had a bf. Is that normal?? (link)
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Absolutely normal, my friend. More normal than you would ever think, actually. The thing I have always told my friends, which is totally true for everyone, you may only KNOW of a few guys that have you liked you, but there are many more that do like you -- you just haven't found out about it.
Not kissing someone yet is totally fine, and I actually think it's great. It's not something to rush my friend, believe me, and you're moving along great, if you ask me. Trust me, before long, you will be having guys flaunting over you, so many you won't be able to keep up, haha.
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Hi!
I was wondering if it costs money to download limewire? If limewire was legal, and if it does cost money, is it worth it? Thanks a ton!
~Sky
13/f (link)
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It only costs money if you choose to download the plus version (or whatever the upgraded version is called). As long as your download the basic program, you will be just fine and totally free. The program itself isn't illegal, it's downloading copywrited music that is illegal. However, to answer your question my friend, no, limewire (the basic version, which works perfectly) doesn't cost money to download.
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Well theres this boy at school that i really really like. He doesn't know i like him . Im too afraid to tell him my feelings, eventhough he said he would give anyone a chance, because I dont really know him that well and I dont think he likes me.I think hes becoming a slight obsession aswell, i cant stop thinking about him. Im really afraid of rejection, should i tell him anyway? or just keep quiet and hope that one day he notices me ? HELP :(. (link)
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I think this will help you, my friend.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
I think you should go for it, I understand that rejection is something none of us look forward to, however, it is (unfortunately) bound to happen to all of us at some point in time. But it's important to know that just because one guy may not feel the same way, doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you, it just means that it wasn't meant to be and you're on your way to find another guy who's worth your time.
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my mom broke up with my dad when i was 2 she found another guy and has been married to him a long time and he is an ass how do i get my mom to break up with him?she doesnt love him anymore anyway (link)
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Well I think this depends on the circumstances, exactly why your mom doesn't love him anymore and why he bothers you so much. However, I think no matter the circumstances, I recommend talking to your mother and letting her know how you're feeling and why you believe she should leave him.
I've kind of been in this same situation, and it's important to just show your mom how much you care and love her and let her know that she deserves better, assuming that there is a good reason why you want her to leave your step-dad.
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I like this guy, and it turned out that he likes me too, but I found out from my friends, and I didn't believe it. Also he's the shy type so we never talk, its been a while and I think that he dosen't like me anymore, But I want to give him a hint that I still like him. What should I do! (link)
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I think this will help you out, my friend.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
By the way, I think you should keep talking to him and see how he acts around you personally. It's always important to find these types of things out for yourself, rather than just hearing things from the grapevine.
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