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It seems every one is richer than me.,
and everyone has the "it" look but me,
and I want that look.
the tan skin with blonde blonde hair, and pretty makeup with the cute clothes (always!)
Help..
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Been there, sweetie, believe me, it isn't all it's cracked up to be. My story -- it's a long one, but I'll sum it up for you. I was fairly poor or at least I was compared to others (even though I had nice things still) and yet I was so rich in every other way. I didn't look like everyone else, but I was still popular and everyone knew I was genuine. However, like you, I envied those girls and wanted to be them.
Well, after a few years, my family got rich and I turned into one of those girls. With that, the clothes, the hair, the nails, all of that stuff changed me. I thought I owned the world and I could have just whatever I wanted (even though I never acted like it, but it killed me inside feeling that way, it just wasn't me). I realized it's not about money and all of this superficial stuff, it's about who you are.
Now, my family is somewhere in the middle. I'm rich in every sense of the word except for the literal term, yet again, and I've learned to be perfectly okay with that. I'm a good person and people like me for who I am, not the latest brand name jacket I'm wearing. I'm so much more than that, I can tell you are too, so don't try to be like those girls, don't try to be like them. People will love you for being confident and radiant and showing who you truly are, that's all your really need.
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listen sweatheart its not all about looks and money. it matters about your personality and who you truly are you should want people to like you for who you are not who your not. ive been with several people i wouldn call attractive because of what they had on the inside.(and i consider my self a very attractive guy) just be your self and if they dnt like it then they wernt really ur friends
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Those blonde, preppy, dumb, money-loving, ignorant, closed-minded sluts only get made fun of by normal people. Why would you want to be one of them? They're too caught up in themselves to see anything else. Soceity has brain washed them. I feel sorry for them. And I feel sorry for you wanting to be like that. The only guys that like girls like that are disgusting players. They only want girls like that because the girls are gullible and just want attention and will give the guys anything they want. If you need more money, you can always get a job (if you're old enough), but don't do it for the wrong reasons.
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I swear by the LORD of the worlds, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth and whatever is in between, it DOES NOT MATTER, if everyone is richer than you, everyone has nice look but not you, has the tan skin with blonde hair, pretty make up, and cute clothes but not you; what matters is the great soul that is within you, the great person that you are, the truth that you stand on, and the kindness that you show to people. God and people with right judgment will never judge you based on your wealth, how you look, your complexion, your hair, your make up, or for that matter the clothes that you wear. Please do not think people who are richer than you are happier than you. In fact, it is, more often than not, quite the opposite. If people around you have a special look (I don't know your definition of special look), it does not make them greater than you. Whatever skin or hair color others have doesn't really make them better than you either. I personally do not like makeup (though I know modern day makeup can change someone's face drastically) since it may produce some artificial beauty but it hides the real one (one that comes naturally). The people that you see are not actually as beautiful as you think them to be. Why would, then, they require makeup? If I had to choose a girlfriend, I would not like judge her by her makeup or by the dress she wears (if anyone judges you based on clothes that you were, believe me, they really have a very low grade mentality). So, please don't bother about all these things. I am not asking you to stay poor, not to makeup, or wear nice clothes. What I am trying to suggest is even if you don't possess these things it simply does NOT matter. Please go ahead with life and be happy and cheerful. May God bless you.
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It really doesnt matter what you look like. most of the girls that have that "it" look all the time are spoiled. they arent always nice. you dont want that. guys dont always want that either. my boyfriend loves it when i throw my hair up some basketball pants and a t shirt and almost no make up. I mean i love to be lazy sometimes and when a guy looks at you because of how you look you two dont last very long. you friends arent true friends if they like you only for what you wear.
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Dont worry about your appearance. Honestly it doesnt matter as much as you think it does. Be who you are, dress how you like, and be happy with it. if you are happy with what you wear and how you look other people will be too! Many people are going through hard times right now and dont have the money to spend it on things they want. Its really hard for everyone so dont worry hunny it will be ok i promeis =] Also you could take some of your old clothes and make them look brand new. Take a pair of your older jeans and but a few holes in them or make bleach spots on them and no one will ever know! It may seem that everyone is richer than you but its not true, yes you may not have as much money as some people but that doesnt make you any less of a person. Hope i helped =] and if you need anymore advice feel free to go to my column and ask me personally =]
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