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making out
How do you make out? What do i do with my tongue? What is he going to with his tongue?
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I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]
But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]
Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.
Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.
There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.
From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:
1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.
My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.
www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699
Honestly, you could read a book about it, and you'd probably forget everything once you went in for the kiss.
Explore. Do what feels right. Make it fun, playful, romantic, whatever you want it to be. Don't make it all about jamming your tongue down his throat, and try not to drool all over him, because it's generally less than desireable to do so.
If you come off as confident it'll be a lot more fun. If all evening you're thinking "Oh my gosh, this is going to be bad" you won't enjoy yourself. Follow his lead at first, if you're truly that nervous.
And really, it's almost impossible to find a truly bad kisser. If anything, they might do something you're not used to; give it a chance before you hate it. Who knows, he might be thinking the same thing right now about you!
Over time, you'll develop your own personal style of kissing/making out, and that's not a bad thing. Do whatever feels good/right to you, and gets a positive reaction. For example, some people love a gentle, or less than gentle, bite of the lip, "necking", and other techniques. Like I already said, experiment & make it fun!
From personal experience I'd advise that you brush your teeth and floss, and have some mild mints with you, like TicTacs. Fruity is usually good, and less overpowering. If you're at a party, don't worry too much about what you're eating if you're both eating the same things, but a huge plate of hummus & extra garlic is a bad choice right before kissing =P. That's where mints come in handy for both of you. Casually offer him one if he's been gorging on something stinky.
--Jack
(17/m)
Happy Easter!
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kso,
you stick you tongue in his mouth
and when i got taught the easy thing to do is keep writing your name with your tongue in him mouth ad he will do the same
but it s kinda hard to explain
but i did that
and it worked perfect for me
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Hello, my friend. The main thing you want to do is to think about what your tongue is doing, it's not really important to think about what his tongue is doing, all that matter is what yours is doing and he will follow right along.
You want to gently glide your tongue inside his mouth and here's what I always tell people -- focus on doing the alphabet with your tongue. Like, for "A," just use your tongue and try to make an "A" with your tongue and so on throughout the alphabet. It really does come naturally, an important thing to remember is to not be nervous and don't overthink. For a lot of people, it helps just to be in the moment and focus on doing the alphabet with your tongue, and it makes a load easier.
Good luck!
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Making out is something that just comes naturally. And, I know you're probably like "Well there's got to be some sort of tutorial" there really isn't. Basically you just go in for a peck kiss, and then it turns into opening your mouth and then you like just play with his tounge & he plays with yours. I was so worried when I had my first make-out kiss, because the guy I was doing it with was experienced. But that actually made it a lot easier because I just did what he did. Although - if you do it with someone who hasn't made out before then you both can practice on each other and it won't be as bad because you won't know if yall are doing it wrong. Honestly though it just comes with practice and all you have to do is open your mouth and touch your tounge with his and move it around. It's so much easier after you've done it, you'll know what I mean!
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