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My friend won't talk to me.
My best friend since like forever won't talk to me! Well I mean she does, but not like she use to. We use to tell each other everything and now she won't tell me what's going on with her. She doesn't talk to me on the phone anymore as much as she use to. I know it's probably something she doesn't want to talk about, but I really want to help her. I should probably drop it. What do you think I should do!?
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Truth is people go different ways. Me and my best friend here recently haven't been talking. She has a boyfriend and I am more worried about my education. (i'm a guy). People change interest changes over time. You can't help it and there isn't anything you can do but let it happen. All you can do is move on and find another new friend. Eventually you guys will grow apart and you will find another. It's just a part of life. It's normal and I don't blame you for being upset about it but you will make it. I promise!
Good Luck!
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give her space for 1 day. and then go right up to her and ask whats wrong, tell her that you to are best friends and if its about u then u should know. tell her even tho she wont talk tht much right now, u'll still be there for her in the longrun... that is what friends are for anyway, right?
hope this helped, good luck!
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She's the type of person that just wants someone to be there to talk to. As if there was nothing wrong don't keep trying to ask her whats wrong. You can help her by just being there.
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Sometimes people drift away. All you can do is be there as a friend and supporter. She might need her space. So respect that. But what you can do is just call her or send her a really nice email just letting her know that we all go through hard times, but it's friends that often help us get through things. Remind her that no matter what happens in life or between you guys you are always there for her, even if just for a listening ear. Let your friend come around. She may open up eventually, just don't push too hard. You may also consider just going out for a girls day so the pressure isn't on her to just talk about everything at once. It will come naturally. :)
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Sometimes, friends grow apart for various reasons. Your friend may be going through something that she may not feel as though she can tell you. What I would suggest is to talk to her, let her know how you're feeling and that you're concerned and listen to what she has to say.
Good luck!
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