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How to win her back..
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Well that was the question I submitted before. The thing is that me and this girl used to be good friends until a week ago when I supposedly "played" her friend around. I spoke to her, apologised to her in a large manner (writing a large essay!), she said everything was cool and told me that she's "willing" to talk to me IF I put in the effort, but when we used to talk, our conversations were dry, so I got rather annoyed and told her that "if I'm wasting my time trying to build back this friendship, let me know" and she told me, "there's no point in wasting your time, I don't want to talk to you".
I don't know what to do, I wanna get back with her, but she treats me like shit, so I want to get over her...help? thanks!
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Ultimately, it is your choice whether you get back with her or get over her. If you're going to be with someone you should be with someone who really wants to be with you. There is no point in trying to make someone want you if they don't, because their heart will never be in it. If you got back together, chances are she would still treat you like shit.
Usually when I see a friend get back with an ex in that way, it doesn't work out in the end, and somebody ends up getting hurt for a second time. I actually did it too once upon a time when I was young and stupid, and my ex that I got back with was so completely mean to me. I've never seen somebody get back with their ex and things work out. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but usually they are exes for a reason. Personally, I think you'd be better off to get over this girl. I could be wrong, especially since I am a stranger.
Someday, or maybe even in the near future, you will meet somebody who makes you wonder why you wasted your time with somebody who didn't treat you right. Why waste any more time?
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I would suggest to just not even bother. She is not worth your time, and clearly you can do so much better than her. If she doesn't want you, then she is not worth your time. Get some of your friends and go out. Try some new things. You WILL find someone new and who is genuinely interested in you.
Hope i helped!
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Owch! That's rough. One NEVER I repeat NEVER mess with any girls' friends, they'll 'kill' you! She sounds pretty mad at you, I don't know exsactly what went on but this could mean alot of things, if you still have feelings for her, she probbly just exspected better from you she'll warm back up you might wanna give her a little room till then. Build your friendship back up first, earning a girls trust again isn't easy be on your toes! Also remember: all girls are sisters they look out for each other, they hate cheaters; the less they've dated & younger they are the more/higher there exspectations are and lastly girls hate losing friendships. Sorry I know theres more I was gonna say ,but right now I'm little brain-dead, I'll do my best to remember! But then again with girls theres alot to remember...^^ Hope I help'd best wishes, Good luck!! -lily
P.S. you can always ask me! After all I am a teenaged girl.
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