♥[?]♥ is it bad to want you parents to get a divorce? because you dont really like your dad or something? cause i feel bad, but i kinda want them to split up :( i feel really bad...
No at all!! You should just want youR paRents to be HAPPIE!! And unfoRtunately, sometimes they will be moRe happie without one anotheR. Yeah, it huRts, but if they aRe betteR people split.. then so be it.. it's woRth it! Best wishes!! =D
♥[?]♥ Hey, I have an Easy Designer webpage. I know all of the HTML's and everything, I just can't figure out how to get a fixed background! All of the HTML's that are for fixed backgrounds, you need a URL for the background, but how do i get the URL if its saved into my documents on my computer? I understand that you right click and push prefrences but that doesnt work when I insert it into the HTML code! Please help!
Easy peesy!! If you don't alReady have a selected backgRound image.... simply go to http://www.google.com and seaRch undeR "FRee Website BackgRound Images". Many sites will come up foR you to bRowse thRough and find the peRfect backgRound. One you have an image selected, save it to youR computeR, and go to http://www.photobucket.com Sign up [it's fRee], and make a photo album. Just upload youR image into the album. Then it tells you the URL AddRess of youR image. Copy that, and RetuRn to http://www.advicenators.com and click "Column Settings" to the left of the page. Then paste the image URL into the white text box titled "Page BackGround Image (URL)". Then in the box above it, titled "Page BackgRound ColoR", put "http://". Then pResto!! It should woRk!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ I've been with my guy for over a year and a half, but we broke it off about 3 months ago because I moved about 30 minutes away. We tried to keep things going, but I was so used to seeing him every single day. It was basically like we lived with each other. He always spent the nights with me at my apartment and what not. I sort of lived on my own and I didn't have a job or anything, so he was the one who made sure I wasn't hungry or sick or feeling down or anything. I guess I was so used to seeing him everyday that once I moved away, that it hurt me a lot that I would only get to see him only once or twice a week. I'd complain to him about how I felt, so he decifrf to break up because he said that he doesn't want to hurt me. Him and I, we still keep in touch, I tell him I love him still and he as well. Well, I've grown accustomed to him not being able to see me all the time, so I guess that now, it's okay when we don't see one another much. We still act like boyfriend and girlfriend; the only thing that hurts me now is that I know that we're not. I still treat him the same as when we were together and a lot of times I beat myself up about it. I feel like.. I'm a whore or something, giving out my love to someone who isn't even my boyfriend. I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if I should hold on to what we have and continue on, or should I just say fuck it? I know that in time, we are definitely going to get back with each other.. so.. until then, should I just keep giving him my love?
Wow! I'm soRRie to heaR that. I know exactly what you'Re talking about!! A lot of the giRls on this site asking questions about love aRe usually 12 and 13, but since you'Re 18, I'm going to faiRly assume you'Re moRe expeRienced with Relationships, love, and life situations.... and since you'Re so shoRe that you aRe going to get back with this guy, I say go foR it! Talk to him about it; don't beat aRound the bush though. Come stRaight out with it, and make shoRe you let him know exactly how you feel, so theRe's no confusion. Make shoRe to bRing up the question of a Relationship, to determine together the possibilities of it. Hopefully things woRk out!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Take caRe!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~
Dude.. dump 'em!! And YESSSS that's cheating!! And you DEFINITELY DO NOT need to be putting up with that. Go find someone who will tReat you the Right way; someone who will appReciate YOU as much as YOU appReciate THEM!!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?!
I think that's iRRelevant. It seems like you guys have a gReat fRiendship goin' heRe, so just appReciate it foR what it's woRth, and don't woRRie youRself about the title. Go with the flow and have fun! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ Hey guys! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this guy I think is sooooooo hot! We had never talked before and I didn't have any classes w/ him but he was friends w/ my newest best friend! He walked up and was talking to her but he smiled at me a lot! Then he was like "ur (my name) right?" And I was like "Yeah how did u know?" He said "o i went into a class after u and I saw ur name on a sheet u had signed!" and he was like grinning all big and stuff! Well then a few days later my best friend came up to me and was like "Omg omg omg! I told (Him) that u thought he was kinda cute and he said u were really really pretty!!!" And I wrote him a letter and gave him my number and everything. And she gave it to him and said he smilde really big when she said it was from me! Do u think that was okay? And do u think he likes me?
Dude... hell yeah!! Classic signs, my FRiend, classic signs. It's obvious!! Just wait foR him to call and take it fRom theRe!! Best wishes!! hope I helped? =D
♥[?]♥ ok... i have a really good guy friend . me and him met eachother a few months ago, cause he doesnt go to my skool. plans changed- so hes coming to my skool when it starts in september. im excited as ever that me and him will be able to hang out more, but not excatly estatic. i have friends, but not the ones hes starting to hang out with. hes meet some guys and girls in my school who i dont like- and i think hes going to ditch me for them. also, we have no classes together. how do i keep this alive?
Same way you did befoRe? You can meet with him befoRe school, at lunch, walk to classes togetheR, do homewoRk afteR school, and still hit the movies on the weekends. I'm shoRe things will woRk out!! I wish you the best!! =D
♥[?]♥ When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?
K, well of couRse tRy some pills : Midol, IbupRofien, PampRin, Advil etc. Place a heating pad on youR tummy and dRink lots of milk!! Also, warm baths and exeRcise tends to relieve some pain!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ ok im not sure if this subject should be mental illness. but have any of you heard of the tidy-bowl-man?? the guy that lives in the toilet. my mom used to say he swims there and comes to getcha when i was really little. but then someone else i knew said they feared so have any of you heard about him? sry its long and stupid but i was wondering.
Uhm... no. I have neveR heaRd of him; soRRie. I find that RatheR disgusting actually.
♥[?]♥ Okay, I just moved to a new school and things are going great! I have plenty of friends and there are a few guys that like me. One in peticular! He's a sophmore (like me) and I know he's a sweet guy and I really like him but I'm not sure what to talk about w/ him! Right now we're just passing notes back and forth but happens when we go out? He's gonna call right? Then when do we say! Talking in person isn't so much the issue! Its the phone! What do I do?
I know this seems typical.. but whateveR comes to mind!! The last time I talked to a guy I liked [which was within the past 24 houRs] I bRought up the topic of eyes... and what would happened if your eyeball came out, oR popped oR something. I know it sounds RetaRded, and it kind of is, but it's a good way to test his sense of humoR and get a betteR idea of what he likes and how compatiable the two of you aRe! Don't be afRaid to just bluRt out and be Random!! Also, ask him how his day was! Get to know him.. ask him of his feaRs.. and fRom that you can go on to peRsonal expeRiences and such. Also, this is something I *HAVE TO* do with eveRyguy.. I have to Read to him... oveR the phone, make it a shoRt, pictuRe book.. it'll be fun!!! TheRe's a lot to be said.. don't feel like you have to act a ceRtain way! Just go foR it and have fun!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do?
Haha!! I'm just like.. "AlRight, FINE!! No moRe SEX!!!!!" Then they'll be putty in youR hands!! Then play like you'Re upset and sad.. "Nooo.. cuz you'Re mad at me." Haha -- this will dRive 'em cRazy! It's HOT!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ ok this is the same person who wrote the question about how i dont know how to tell my mom i have a boyfriend.....well she caught us together.(we werent doin nething but we sat close)...well i went for a walk and he met up wit me so we made out then sat next to each otha watchin the sun set...when my mom pulls up and asked me if i was ok and asked who was that kid sittin next to me....i told her he'd fallen off his bike and was hurt so i just sat and talked to him......she gave him a ride home but still didnt think of me likin him........now i definatly cant tell her bc now shes gonna think i go for walks everyday just to see him....now how do i tell her that i have a boyfriend?
The same way I told you befoRe. Tell heR eveR since then you've established a fRiendship! That's peRfectly undeRstandable!!! Goodluck!! =D
♥[?]♥ ive been with this guy for 8 months and just last month i got a fone call saying that he was cheating on me. when i tol him about this he just said oh babe dont listen to her she just hating. befor all this shit happend he would call me like 9 times a day and now after all this drama he only calls me every 4 days but sometimes if im lucky he'll call me for 2 days straight and then he will stop and go back to the 4 day thing...i love this guy alot but im so confused i just dont know what to do...i need help...PLEASE!!!
I know what you should do.. move on! It might be huRtful, but it's necessaRy. If you even had to come on heRe and ask this question... you should be able to tell it's oveR. Obviously he doesn't make you happie!! YouR paRtneR is supposed to come by and sweep you off youR feet... doesn't look like he's doing that, now is he?? He obviously doesn't have anything to offeR you, so don't waste youR time!! It's plain to see that this isn't a good Relationship; you can find *MUCH* betteR!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will?
FiRst of all... I'm shoRe you don't "love" him, and I'll explain why I think this fuRtheR down. People often mistake "love" foR Lust; which is veRy poweRful at times. I say it's just a quick infatuation. And just because he tells you about his sex life doesn't mean anything -- sex lives neveR seem to be kept hush-hush these days. And it's DEFINITELY NOT uncommon foR an inteRnet guy to staRt talking about sex! Ten houRs isn't *SO* bad; could be woRse. You should talk to him on the phone; foR a llllooonnnngggg time.. mmmmannnnyyyyy times!! If you still like him, then I say go meet him! If you'Re both willing to take on a long distant Relationship, then go foR it! HoweveR, you neveR mentioned youR age; which is kind of scaRy! If he's like 19 and you'Re 13, oR 22 and 15.. I would suggest NOT to botheR with it; move on!! Just use good judgement, and don't do anything that will get youRself in tRouble!! And why do you always fall foR the guys you've neveR met? I think it's because it's easy. FoR one thing.. you could be a shy giRl, and peRhaps you don't talk to many guys.. so meeting them online is a lot easieR foR you.. and it's the attention you cRave and they'll give it to you. And peRhaps you "love" him, because you haven't actually met him, so you'Re unfamilaR with his flaws... he seems peRfect, because you have neveR had the chance to expeRience otheRwise with him. You may know A LOT about him, but you don't know his family, you don't know his fRiends, you don't know what he does eveRyday all day... you don't know him. The computeR is a gReat way to get to know someone, but it completely lacks feelings! I say just take it slowly, one step at a time, and if things weRe "meant to be", they'll be. I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it
Just ask heR if he can come oveR foR dinneR tomoRRow [I used "tomoRRow" as an example. Just say some date when you know she will be cooking and theRe will be plenty of extRa to spaRe, ya know]. If she's anything like MY paRents.. they'll ask, "Is this guy some kind of a boyfRiend?" And just flat out answeR with a solid, "Yes". If she has any complaints about the two of you dating, tell heR you'Re not a child anymoRe, you can handle a Relationship, people live and leaRn, and this is only a meRe step in life. I'm shoRe she'll undeRstand; she's been theRe, done that! And I know you two don't want to keep this a secRet and lie... but peRhaps it wouldn't be a bad idea to tell heR he's only a fRiend.. at least foR a while. Then she can get to know him oveR dinneR, and it will stop the unfaiR judgement. You can do it; I have faith in you!!! I've taught you well, Young GRasshoppeR!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ does any one no how to get rid of acne and pimples FAST like about . in one day or two lol
Well, I'd say use toothpaste and avoid touching the infected aRea. I know this isn't Really a quick solution, but when I need them to be gone RIGHT AWAY.. I tweeze them, and put make up oveR it! Also, if you'Re not alReady, use a stRong daily pRoduct; such as O`lay, NeutRogena, Clean & CleaR, Noxzema and so on! Goodluck!! I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ my friend told me somethin....but its not a secret unless she tells me not to say nething. so she told me that she had sex and is afraid of gettin pregnant(she neva said it was a secret and shes done worse stuff wit a guy that shes proud of) so i told her boyfriend,kory's best friend Amy exactly what my friend said to me........now amy told kory that im goin around tellin everyone that they had sex witout a condom....my friend is pissed at me bc she thinks i told EVERYBODY EVERYTHING..now she wont let me tell her the truth and she told me neva to talk to her again.......shes my best friend and i luv her but how can i say sry and tell her the truth when she wont talk to me?
WOW!! This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but... you *REALLY* should have kept youR mouth shut!!! It's none of youR business to go aRound blabbing! Even if it was only one peRson.. see how easily woRd spReads??? If youR fRiend wanted eveRyone to know.. she would have told them HERSELF!! But I'm hoping you alReady know this. But.. if I weRe youR fRiend, and I was Really embaRRassed about it.. I'd say to hell with eveRyone and what THEY think, I'd go aRound with my head held high telling eveRyone who asks MYSELF!! HoweveR, I think the only thing you CAN do... is apologize to heR! Set things stRaight by telling heR you only told ONE peRson, but you Realize it was wRong and unfaiR, and you've leaRned a lesson, and will neveR foRget it!! If she STILL pissed.. I'd say give heR some time... a week oR two. She'll come aRound! They ALWAYS come cRawling back!! I wish you the veRy best of look! I hope things woRk out! Take caRe!! =D
♥[?]♥ Ok so im going out with this guy... lets call him Aaron. And well idk i really like him but im not sure if he likes me at all. He always hangs out with this group of girls and they all r nice to me but 1. And thats fine with me cuz i dont like her either but anyways... im not sure if he likes me . but i hav another problem. His bestfriend um... lets say Bob. likes me he is my Ex. and so like everytime he sees me or talks to me online he is like "hey Sexy" and im mean is that bad. Him and my boyfriend are like bestfriends. and i kno "aaron" is gonna get mad.
but the thing is i kinda like "bob" too. idk wut to do im so confused. help
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FiRst of all, how can you NOT know if youR boyfRiend likes you oR not? If he asked you, oR said yes.. I would assume that meant something; I say bReak up with AaRon. And also, how much could you like "AaRon" if you like "Bob" as well?? PRobably not as much as you should. I would say youR best bet is to stay single foR a bit, and exploRe some options. WhateveR you do, I wish you the best of luck!! =D
♥[?]♥ lately my boobs have been killing me. they itch sumtimes on the nipple and then the rest of my boob feels like sum1 hit me 100 times. they just hurt! wut can i do and is it normal?
Yes; it's "noRmal". It means you'Re gRowing! HoweveR, if the pain staRts to become unbaReable, I'd say a visit to youR doctoR would be just the ticket!! I wish you the best!! =D
♥[?]♥ i get really bad acne between my breasts, how do i get rid of it?
Hmm. I would say tRy this pRoduct called "NatuRe's CuRe" -- it's foR body acne; and it's not THAT expensive $6.00-$7.00 oR so. TRy this foR a while. I would say, if you don't see Results in about a month, peRhaps you should see a Dermatologist. I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D
