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did they really stop making the small ipod nano's if so y
Yes, which I dislike because I lost mine or it was stolen or something. They update them every so often. You may be able to find the ipod nanos online & possibly in some stores, but most likely they have been taken off the shelves & won't be sold by apple anymore. There's definately some on Ebay & Google though.
-hope that helped!♥
Keeping personality out of the question, one of my guy friends said that it doesn't matter if a girl is super ugly or not but if she has a good body she can score guys. Is that true.. somewhat? How does that make any sense? If someone can argue for both sides for this viewpoint, that would be awesome.
Every guy is different. I think it's a load of crap. Some guys care too much about a girl's body & some don't care at all. If a guy is just looking to have sex with her, he may not care how ugly her face may be, as long as he likes her body. Sounds ridiculous I know, but I've heard of situations like that. Honestly, if a guy thinks that at all, that's stupid & you wouldn't want to be with him anyway. I personally think someone's face is a lot more important, but if they are just looking for sex anyway, they probably don't care.
-hope that helped!♥
My boyfriend (age 23, I'm 21) of 4.5 years just got back from a business trip in Chicago & told me while he was out at a bar he did a bodyshot off a bartender. I was pretty upset, but he was confused why. He kept saying "it was at a bar! what's wrong with it!?". But I disagree? Anyways, just wondering what other people's opinion is, if he's right and I'm overreacting, or if its a no-no and I am justified. Thanks!
I'd probably be pretty upset myself if it was my boyfriend. I think you should talk to him about it & explain that it makes you uncomfortable. I don't think you are overreacting. Talk to him & see what he says. If he really has no problem with it, that is something you should discuss with him. I mean, he could think its just something innocent & didn't mean anything by it.
-hope that helped!♥
I saw somebody wearing a pair of boots today that I really liked, but I couldn't tell where they were from. The logo was a little triangle with a round door shape cut out in it-- almost like a teepee or cave. Anybody have any idea what brand this is?
I'm also looking for any suggestions to where I can find boots-- they don't necessarily have to be practical. I want something maybe with buckles or laces, the kind of boots you can tuck into jeans. My budget is $100.
TIA
Haha I have those. I think you mean this-
http://www.the-house.com/images/airwalk-logo-120-07.jpg
They're Airwalk boots. You can get them at payless-
www.payless.com
Theyre about $30.
-hope that helped!♥
I was wondering if you would mind sharing your advice on how you lost weight your own way... Thank you for answering my question, I appreciate it!
Sure. Here are a few ideas-
1. Keep yourself hydrated. Drink lots of water. Not only is it very healthy for you, but it helps you lose weight. Just don't over do it. A few glasses or bottles a day is fine.
2. Find a calorie plan that works for you. You should go to the doctor or a nutritionist if you want an accurate plan. You can also google it online. I would suggest anywhere from 1600-1800 calories.
3. Exercise. The more you exercise, the more food you should eat though.
4. Avoid fattening foods. Some fats are actually good though. You want to stay away from saturated & trans fats. Use in moderation. You should have some good & bad fats.
5. Avoid foods high in sugar. Sugar is good once in awhile but a lot of added sugar is not.
6. Eat all 3 meals & never skip meals. It does not help you lose weight. It slows your metabolism.
7. If you want to speed up your metabolism, eat something every 3 hours. Even if its fruit/veggies or a granola bar.
8. Try eating whole wheat products instead of white. White breads aren't necessarily bad for you, but they're empty calories with no nutritional value. Wheat is much better.
9. Try eating a few hours before bed. It isn't bad eating late at night, just leave at least an hour inbetween.
10. Keep yourself motivated. Motivation helps you to become successful. Get a few friends or family members together to exercise with you & take you out to dinner.
11. Don't starve yourself. Just because you're dieting doesn't mean you have to go hungry or eat foods you don't enjoy. There are a lot of good tasting diet foods.
12. Eat plenty of fruit & veggies. Cook them however you like.
Here's a few websites that should be able to help-
http://www.freedieting.com/tools/calorie_calculator.htm
http://www.dwlz.com/HealthyLife/healthy50.html
-hope that helped!♥
What should I get my boyfriend for christmas
We were together for 4 months, broke up, went out again, for a month, broke up, and now we're back together! (our 1 month is in a few days)
So, we have a good past together.
We didn't break up cause 'it got old' or 'cheating'
we broke up cause of a girl.
don't wanna explain it all, just trying to give you guys good hints.
I love this guy so much.
he loves me too.
and I was wondering 'what should I get him for christmas?'
I was gonna get something he likes alot, but I want this to be perfect, and you know.
He's wrote me a poem before, and I wanted to write 100 reasons why I love him, hopefully even more than 100.
and I was planning on giving and picture of me and him in a frame.
does this sound alright? or does anyone know any other things
PLEASE tell me everything you can, and know
or what your giving your boyfriend!
thank you so much
That's cute. I think that sounds like a good gift. You could also buy him anything he's interested in. Music, sports related things, clothing, winter stuff, electronics, etc. I like the "making your own gift" ideas. It's a lot more personal & he'll appreciate it more.
-hope that helped!♥
What is the amount of cardio I should do each day to lose weight, or in my case I'm just trying to tone up. I'm fifteen and 5'3 and around 130lbs if that helps at all. I'm usually on an eliptical or exercise bike for around fifteen minutes to a half an hour five days a week, is that enough?
I'd say any amount of cardio a day is good. Most people like doing 15 minutes to an hour depending on the exercise. It all depends on your body type & how in shape you are. Do as much as you're comfortable with. If you feel tired or as if it's too much, cut back a bit. You can also try walking. It's actually really good exercise.
-hope that helped!♥
17/f. Yesterday I had a cappucino for lunch and soon after I began to feel sick. It lasted the whole night and at about 9pm my arms started to hurt and be a little numb every now and then and my heart was racing and I could feel my heart was hurting a bit. I tried to go to sleep but stayed awake for quite a few hours. I have just woken up this morning and my pulsr is normal but my heart still hurts from working so hard or something yesterday. :S
What is wrong with me?
I was really scared.
It was definately the caffine. I would suggest avoiding cappucinos & other products high in caffine. Next time you go to the doctor, or if you want to be safe you can schedule an appointment, explain to them what happened & ask for their advice. For now, avoid high caffine drinks such as coffees & sodas.
-hope that helped!♥
I am thinking of trying the website fatloss4idiots to lose weight. Has anyone tried this or know if it works? what are some of the things they suggest? thanks so much
I never heard of it before, but I did some research on it after reading your question. I lost 45 lbs in the past year & I read through their list of things that "don't work" & that's what I did & I lost the weight. It seems pretty stupid to me, but that's my personal opinion. If you want, I can give you my own advice on how to lose weight since I successfully did it myself & the outcomes were pretty much healthy. You should read more about fatloss4idiots & make your own decision.
-hope that helped!♥
I have a problem with having ugly dark circles under my eyes. It normally wouldnt bother me, but I have short hair and a very fair skin complexion. How can I lighten or get rid of the dark circles?
There's quite a few websites-
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-Black-Circles-Under-Your-Eyes
http://www.getridofthings.com/get-rid-of-dark-circles-under-your-eyes.html
http://www.makeup-care.info/beauty/skin-problems/dark-circles.htm
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art39278.asp
http://www.pioneerthinking.com/op_darkcircles.html
You can google for more information but there's a lot of different techniques on those websites that you can choose from.
-hope that helped!♥
I'm thinking of starting my own podcast. Are there any requirements? How do I do it (i.e. put songs together)? Is it free?
Here's a website-
http://www.wikihow.com/Start-Your-Own-Podcast
That should give you some information on how to go about starting your own podcast. If you want more advice/tips on it, I would suggest googling it.
-hope that helped!♥
I've had a crush on this guy for a while now and we are very close friends. I want to write him a note, but I don't know what to put in it. How do I write a sweet note, but not come on too strong?
15/f
I think you should just be honest & explain your feelings. Explain how you feel about him & how you like him more than a friend, but you still want his friendship even if he doesn't feel the same. Tell him that you're writing a note because it's a lot more personal & it is easier for you to get your feelings out that way. You could also say that you want to tell him because you guys are such close friends & you don't want to keep anything from him. As long as you explain to him that you want to remain friends no matter what happens between you guys, he should be okay with the situation. You never know, he might even like you back. Writing a note is a very cute thing to do & he'll probably respect you for it.
-hope that helped!♥
i wanna go visit my family in california again. my friend and i flew to california by oursleves (with parents permission and all)in august and it was a lot of fun. i want to go again but maybe with my cousin or just me.my mom is really chill and she usually lets me do alot but my mom and a friend are opening up a lazer tag place so shes really busy so she couldnt go.this sounds stupid but how should i get my mom to let me go again?
Why don't you just talk to her about it?? You said you went before & if everything turned out alright, explain that to her & how you were responsible with the previous trip & you'll make sure you'll do the same again. You can call her as soon as you get there & call her daily. Also, you are going to visit family. It's for a purpose, not so you can just go to goof around. You're also going to have fun & explain that you know what you're doing & things went okay last time. If she doesn't want you to go, there's nothing you can really do about it. Be respectful because she is your mother, but try to discuss this with her & explain how you feel about it. Maybe you guys can come up with a plan or agreement about how often you call her & explain what exactly you are going to do while you're there. She can also check in on you by talking to your family members. If you talk to her in an adult fashion, the whole conversation will go a lot better.
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ive been kind of worried now days, wel the thing is,, my friend liked this boy and so did i we both liked seperate bois rite.. nd so what happend was, i got over the guy i liked even thou i liked him deeply, but i had to get over him because of alot of reasons,, but now im kind of crushin on my guys friend they arent togehter or anything like that he doesnt even know she likes him and stuff nd we dont do the whole dating thing rite, i kno theres nothin i can do but wait til i get over him
but like,, it doesnt make me a bad friend rite?
nd like,i wanna know if theres anyway HOW to get over him? any help?
thanks XD
You can't choose who you like. If you deliberately went out of your way to go after this guy without being sure what your feelings were or to get back at your friend, that would be you being a bad friend. You can't help it if you like the same guy as she does. You just have similar tastes. Try sorting out your feelings & decide what is more important to you; your friendship with her or a relationship with him. If you feel that you love him & it could work out, talk to him about it. If he doesn't have feelings towards her but has feelings towards you, then you can't do much about it. If you want to remain friends with her & feel bad, then you should try dating someone else. You'll get over him eventually, especially if you date other guys.
-hope that helped!♥
[I know no one can give me a definate answer, I'm just looking for a vague estimation]
I'm a little bit chubby, not obese or anything [I'm naturally skinny I just eat too much and do no exercise]
So I went from doing no exercise and eating like a pig all the time to having track practice for an hour and a half 5 times a week, and eating well.
About how soon will I start seeing results? I only started Monday, but I can already feel my muscles toning up a little.
Everyone is different & so are their results. Most likely, if you keep it up, you'll see results in a few weeks to a month or two. It all depends on your routine & what you eat though.
-hope that helped!♥
ok a friend of mine is an extremely bad singer and i dont know how to tell her! She thinks she is awesome and wants everyone to hear her (which isnt a bad thing, but...) She like brags about it and shes bad! Hints??
Even though you don't want to be mean, you probably don't want her to completely embarrass herself either. Did she ever hear herself on a recording?? Maybe record her & play it back. Sometimes people don't realize how good or bad they are until they actually hear themselves on a tape or recording. If she still thinks that, then maybe just leave her go. If she enjoys doing it, it doesn't really matter. You could also suggest singing lessons.
-hope that helped!♥
I know there are such things as heating blankets, but are there cooling blankets? Is there a website where you can buy them? If there isn't such a thing, someone should invent it, cuz I would so totally buy one!
http://silvereagleoutfitters.com/shop/blanket/CQB_K.htm
You can google it also.
-hope that helped!♥
So the guy I like is so overly nice to me, but I worry that hes just leading me on. He always tells me that Im amazing/incrdible, that I look good, that he misses me, etc. Weve even stayed up til 4 talking on the phone before. i hear that he flirts with other girls, but i dont actually see him doing it so idk if hes the same with all of them. How far will guys really lead you on? Is that what this ones doing?
All guys are different. Maybe you should talk to him about it. Explain how you feel & your feelings for him. As long as you don't make it dramatic & are calm about it, he probably won't mind. You can't expect him not to flirt with other girls only because you guys aren't dating. If you really don't want him doing those things, maybe consider dating him & bringing it up when you guys talk about it.
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Does anyone know a direct link where I can watch this last weeks episode of Desperate Housewives online?
http://dynamic.abc.go.com/streaming/landing
There's a black box on the left hand side. Go there & click Desperate House Wives for full episodes.
-hope that helped!♥
I have a meeting with my school counselor. I want to ask him about scholarship opportunities in our area, but I get nervous really easily. Does anyone know of any questions I can at least start out with? or any essential information I should get from him? thank so much
You should just ask any question that comes to mind. He is your guidance counsler & that is his job. Here's a website-
www.fastweb.com
It's a scholarship site. You fill out information about yourself & they send your emails with possible scholarships you can apply for. They also have essay contests for money & what not. If you browse the site, you'll probably have questions to ask. Maybe how to go about it & what you can do for the future. You could also ask about the site itself & if he knows of any others.
-hope that helped!♥