Question Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:22 pm
ive been kind of worried now days, wel the thing is,, my friend liked this boy and so did i we both liked seperate bois rite.. nd so what happend was, i got over the guy i liked even thou i liked him deeply, but i had to get over him because of alot of reasons,, but now im kind of crushin on my guys friend they arent togehter or anything like that he doesnt even know she likes him and stuff nd we dont do the whole dating thing rite, i kno theres nothin i can do but wait til i get over him
but like,, it doesnt make me a bad friend rite?
nd like,i wanna know if theres anyway HOW to get over him? any help?
thanks XD
xomegaroni answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:11 pm: You can't choose who you like. If you deliberately went out of your way to go after this guy without being sure what your feelings were or to get back at your friend, that would be you being a bad friend. You can't help it if you like the same guy as she does. You just have similar tastes. Try sorting out your feelings & decide what is more important to you; your friendship with her or a relationship with him. If you feel that you love him & it could work out, talk to him about it. If he doesn't have feelings towards her but has feelings towards you, then you can't do much about it. If you want to remain friends with her & feel bad, then you should try dating someone else. You'll get over him eventually, especially if you date other guys.
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