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what exactly is considered child abuse? me and my parents just got in a fight (mostly me and my mom because shes crazy) and she came running after me so i ran out of the house and she said not to come back in....is this abuse? by the way i live in a place where its like 20 degrees right now and i was in a tee shirt :( i dont wanna get taken away but i hate when this happens (link)
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you sound like my friend
you have many options
1.call the cops because it is she could have killed you
2.tell a trusted adult that would help and fight bak for you
3.fight back
those are 3 options i tell my friend but she dont do any of them i kno u love her but if she chased you out in the cold that is wrong
yes it is abuse she basically tried to kill you and didnt take responsibility as your parent by giving you a home to be in wen it is cold so pick one of the above and do it before it is too late
love ya
~**Sammie**~
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I'm f/14.
I know this is really long, and probably confusing but please read it and it and try to answer! THANX!!
When I was little my biological father had to move to Kentucky.He never moved back. My mom was about 18. Well he was out of the picture for a while.Then theres the guy we lived with and he was ALWAYS called DAD!(His name is Charley) Then theres Mike my dad for 7yrs. (He was my bioloical father until i was 7.) Then there's Brad a guy who passed away, who i thought was just my mom's friend until today (6/12).then theres the current step-dad for the past 4-5yrs. Who is living with us, his name is Josh.
Your probably thinking 2 things!
1)What does this have to do with her life now?
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2)Her mom is a whore.
Ok well this is affecting my life because:
my dad (not my real one the one i call dad) is moving, and always says something smart about my mom and her current b/f. (Current b/f was a druggie.)
Well he doesn't mean to hurt me but it does.
Then my real dad came into my life when i was 7, then left for 1-2yrs. Then came back around for 1-2 more yrs. then left. No surprise there. Well he called my cousin a couple a monthz ago and asked about me and for my number. Well he didn't call me, so my mom is going to search for his #, so i can call him and get his address, i wrote him a 2 1/2 page letter and a poem to send him.
Everyday it seems like my life gets harder, and i cry harder every other night thinking about it.
well when i lived with my "dad" life ALWAYS seemed so great and fun.Well we stopped seeing my moms friend Brad, I didn't see why but it didnt bug me then, well my mom told me later on because i asked her about Brad and she told me she stopped visiting him because my dad thought they were having an affair. I didn't think they were.so when Brad died me and my mom were upset because we could have been vising him before he died but my dad didnt want us to go. I hated him for awhile because of that.Today I was looking for my 1st letter that i had ever recieved from mr real dad, and instead i found for cards from Brad! They were addressed to my mom! i thought maybe they were from my real dad so i went ahead and read them, they were all like i wish you were here in my arms and i miss you and michelle (me), love always Brad!
It really hurts to know all of this. And i miss my life with my dad. Before Josh (moms current b/f.) everything was almost always great. Then josh comes my mom gets grouchier,madder, and cries a lot. But says she loves him but it hurts me REALLY BAD! And i don't know what to do any more.
What should do to cope with everything?
If you have any questions ask me!
I know this is really confusing and long but i really need help! Should i get a therapist?
Any advice is great right now.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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1. your mom is not a whore she is just trying to find the right guy and 2 i understand it i kno it is probably hard as ever right now. but later in life it will get better. im the last to give advice because im a cutter but i have dated many guys that made me cry.and i swore i was in love.its not love. you need to sit your mom down and tell her.yes a therapist will help alot. it sound like you are probably thinking i dont have a clue and i dont but i do kno why your mom is crabby and grouchy. she is not in love and if you miss your dad call him i know you are pissed at him but girl...she is your dad no matter how much you hate him.
Call your dad and ask if he can get custody of you cuz it seems like your mom cares about her b/f more.
no disrespect tho you really need to talk to your dad cuz obviously he is the only 1 there for you right now he seems like he is emotionally there for you so talk to him ok
love ya
~**sammie**~
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im about 2 be a sophmore in high school but i moved and im starting a new school and i dont know ANYONE!!!! im sooooooooo nervous....i was jw if anyone had 2 do this?!?! (link)
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im kinda in that situation.im a freshman and i lived where i went to skool for 11 years.I had alot of friends and i was forced to move. At this time i was going through alot mt friends were in trouble and needed me. I went to school and they kicked me out knowing i moved. So now im out of school for at least 3 weeks. its the middle of the year and missing 3 weeks is probably going to fail. its hard and i know how u feel.
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ive been kind of worried now days, wel the thing is,, my friend liked this boy and so did i we both liked seperate bois rite.. nd so what happend was, i got over the guy i liked even thou i liked him deeply, but i had to get over him because of alot of reasons,, but now im kind of crushin on my guys friend they arent togehter or anything like that he doesnt even know she likes him and stuff nd we dont do the whole dating thing rite, i kno theres nothin i can do but wait til i get over him
but like,, it doesnt make me a bad friend rite?
nd like,i wanna know if theres anyway HOW to get over him? any help?
thanks XD
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the only way i know how to get over a guy is by lookin for another guy and talk to him. Quit callin him and dont think of him
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