Question Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 5:51 pm
I've been with my boyfriend since Oct. 23rd 05'.
I cheated on him when we were going out around this time of year last year. about 6x. btw: i'm 16 he's 18. He lives with me and we argue quite alot. I stopped having feelings for him about 4 weeks ago, Currently he has met a new friend named J, and j's a hottie. I want to meet new people, i don't know why. I don't know if this is a bad or good thing. My boyfriend has really bad anger problems and when i tell him i don't love him or like him; he doesn't take it seriously. I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me on this one? thanks x100.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? turn-n-burn answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:20 pm: Well since he is living with you that makes it harder, but still is very possible. Approch it at a very easy way especially if he has anger problems. If I were you I would probally tell him that I thought that it was time if we explored our options and that we needed to be friends only and that you do not want to be with some one that has anger problumes. When you break up with him make sure though that you are somewhere where there are other people around! Since he is living with you you also need to consider in making sure that you do not just throw him out on the street either give him a certain amount of time to help him pack and get him out. If he is still refusing or does not get it then I really do think that getting the cops involved would be a good idea. Just make sure that you do not call them until that form of help is needed. I hope this helped a little... good luck and if you have any more questions or need help feel free to ask me. [ turn-n-burn's advice column | Ask turn-n-burn A Question ]
lilmzhotstuff answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:18 pm: Honestly you should get your crap together put it in your car (if you have 1) and tell him its over when you see him at home and then leave! If he doesn't take you seriously still then try and be like super serious about it and make sure he gets the msg loud and clear! Even if you break his heart in half(and by the way you say it you don't really care). Hope this helps a bit!
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icey0990 answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:13 pm: i totally agree. if he wont get out on his own, call the police. they will get him off the property and make sure your safe in the process. its the only way [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:10 pm: If you are seriously done with him, tell him to pack up his things and move out.
If he don't take you seriously about that, then call the police to help him off of your property.
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