Question Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 5:42 pm
So the guy I like is so overly nice to me, but I worry that hes just leading me on. He always tells me that Im amazing/incrdible, that I look good, that he misses me, etc. Weve even stayed up til 4 talking on the phone before. i hear that he flirts with other girls, but i dont actually see him doing it so idk if hes the same with all of them. How far will guys really lead you on? Is that what this ones doing?
tremblett answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 9:42 pm: Soo im kinda in the same situation right now, with guys it is soo hard to tell what i would do is dont make it to obv that you really like him. But dont get to much into him plus dont ever trust other girls cus they will say what ever it takes to see someone not be with someone else... And yes it is true they do lead girls on... Now he could just be one of those guys that like to flirt but make sure you really know him before you make any decesions. And always worry about yourself before others because you should be number one. [ tremblett's advice column | Ask tremblett A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 9:39 pm: If he were leading you on he wouldn't be talking on the phone to you at 4 a.m. Trust me, if he wasn't interested in you he would be snoring in his bed at that hour. The compliments seem to be genuine.
See what unfolds because he seems to genuinely like you, Guys are guilty of looking at or flirting with other girls whether they are taken or not. You also shouldn't trust what other girls tell you because they're out to snag him too. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 9:36 pm: All guys are different. Maybe you should talk to him about it. Explain how you feel & your feelings for him. As long as you don't make it dramatic & are calm about it, he probably won't mind. You can't expect him not to flirt with other girls only because you guys aren't dating. If you really don't want him doing those things, maybe consider dating him & bringing it up when you guys talk about it.
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