Member Since: November 28, 2007
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Last Update: December 5, 2007
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if im extremely out of shape is it possible for me to learn how to sing well? i get tired easily and i cant hit any notes :( (link)
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Hunny being out of shape has nothing to do with it... Just put your mind to it
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Hey im a 14/f
i have a boyfriend his name is Xavier and we just got together. and he said when we got together that if anyone asked i asked him out, even though he asked me out. and i said okay why? he said becuase he doesn't wanna lose his friends to a whore like me what do i do + me and my ex wanna get back together but i dont know how to brake up with xavier please help thanks in advance. (link)
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Wait... if he called you a whore dump his ass.. tell him if you are embarred that you asked me out i dont wanna be with you anymore. Tell him you wanna be with someone who will respect you and wanna be with you for you
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Okay, well i have this boyfriend and he wants to finger me and i know, hes tried, but i wanted to shave my vagina so i did, but the next day almost all of it was back and i had red bumps. How fast does the hair grow back??? And how do i get rid of the red bumps? (link)
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The red bumps are just from razer burn. The hair should grow back fairly quickly.. If you wanna shave next time and dont want the bumps use babyoil. It will make it smooth...
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I told him something resembeling what you told me and he was a total jerk about it! I really thought he would understand but instead he totally insulted me. Im moving on now and im finished with him. But its turned into this whole fight, i told him never to speak to me again, and he didnt say anything which is what i wanted, btu somehow it doesnt feel right saying it. What should i do? (link)
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Don't let him knwo that it is bothering you because thats what he wants. He wants some kind of reaction from you. To get over him and forget him start haning out with other guys and your friends... Something good will come along soon
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14/f
it all started a year ago when my mom found out i lost my virginity two weeks after it happened. everything was a mess and i became the disgrace of the family in her eyes. for a while i wasn't sure what to do i mean she was putting me down constantly by telling me what a slut and a whore i was for one incident i regreted because the only reason i did it was because i though he really cared and i was so stupid to believe it. i never spoke to him again after thet. i couldn't take it and i finally burted out "well since you're always right and obviously i'm a whore i'll prove you right!" i slept with 3 guys after that and cared about each one but only one cared back. my mom thought i was just mad and said that but now i know that was really stupid of me to do.but i shaped up after that i stopped focusing on guys and more on the family but still my mom's putting me down the other day she called me a bitch for the first time and i was scared. it's like i had an empty feeling inside you know? i don't think i'm a bad person over that one thing. i know it hurt her what i did but i didn't mean to. and for her to verbally abuse me i think is wrong it's been a year and she's still making comments. like the one she said when she took away my phone ,"oh i'm sorry your pimps aren't gonna have any business lately." honestly i don't think it's right.
i would really like your opinion and help please and thank you. (link)
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I think your mom really needs to grow up and get over it. You are 14 years old yeah sometimes we make mistakes but she needs to let you move on and forget about that. Now there isn't probably anything you can say to her to make her stop what she says.. but maybe talk to like a couceler or somethiung have them talk to your mom... Your mom is just rude for that. Because im pretty sure she has made mistakes in her life time. Tell her mom that hurts me when you say that.
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My computer just shuts down randomly. I have no idea why but i'm sure it's a software problem since I left it on the temp/diagnostic or w.e the blue screen is called, when software isnt allowed through, for a few days and it didnt shut down. I know it's not the power supply since I replaced taht like 3 times already! And the temp. is fine, and I have a surge protector. What should I do? One of my friends said i should get a external hard drive, back up my system and redo the whole thing, but I really don't have the time to do that right now...I'm going through college applications. terrible timing. i have a laptop in case my main computer does die on me but for some reason i can't get internet on it. i bought a wrireless 2.4 ghz linksys for it. but when i went on it after hooking up the wireless internet and tried to locate it, i could only pick up low levels of wireless connection like 10% etc, which i think is the neighbor's wireless and not mine since i have it right next to it, so it should be at least in the 80% range. basically technology has started a upraising in my house. what do i do? (link)
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If u hit F10 on your computer it will clean your computer out so it was like just when you baught it.. if that doesn't work call your manufacture of the computer
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i still like my ex, when we were going out it was so awkward cuz we didnt really know eavhother but now that weve broken up weve gotten really close and i think we both still have feelings for eachother but are afraid to admit it. How do i do it first even though im the girl? And what do i say if he doesnt like me back or gets freaked out. What do i say to tell him i still like him?
HELP (link)
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I would tell him listen now that we know eachother alot better i see how great of a person u are and i would like to start some kinda of a relationship with you... By you doing this it is making u a better person... and he will probably be shocked.. he probably feels the same way guys are just shy.. Tell him how you feel.. He will respect you for it
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I have this friend, who I want to be more than friends with, but can't at the moment for multiple reasons. Our age difference [I'm 15 and he is 17], havent gotten my mothers approval yet, and I need to pick my grades up in school before I date are some of the reasons. Even through all this, I still have feelings for him. The thing is, we both have pretty busy lives. How do I keep the friendship strong and the relationship growing? Better put, how do I keep in touch? (link)
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I would always call him at night and ALWAYS write him cute little e-mails telling him how u feel tell him u miss him stuff like that..
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hi im cloe. So here it is: i met this guy called lets say fred on holiday a few weeks ago, and i really really like him. But (bet u knew tht was coming) he lives quite far away. We get together every so often but i don't thimk its enough. About a week ago i found out my friend lets call him billy, liked me but i didn't feel the same way so i used the excuse i was already seeing fred. Recently like 2 days ago i met another boy, Bob, and i really like him and hes cute and lives close to me. He asked me out and i sed yes. So i told my friend who knows all of the above that i had broke things off with fred, which i haven't done. So now i have to keep Bob and Billy secret from fred even tho that wont b hard cos he lives far away and i have to keep Fred secret from every1 because they will think i'm cheatin on my boyfriend. And i cant tell evey1 bout my boyfriend because i told Billy that i wouldn't break things off with fred because i didnt feel the same about him and now i feel guilty. And im screwed. Help!! (link)
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Hey hun,
I think you should sit down and really think about who you like and who you would really wanna b with because what your doing isnt really fair and you wouldn't like it if it was done to you..But just fallow your heart and decide from there... Decide who makes you happier, who is gunna b there for u when u need them. things like that...
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Hi, Im 24 years old and so I think im addicted to sex or just sexual pleasure Im currently in a relationship (3yrs) and its becoming a problem between us Im to horny she is not. I think about it all the time I need it from her or im just upset or down I show her love its not like Im just here for sex but it is a perk in a relationship or thats how I look at it. She never wants it, its more of an occasional thing I need it everyday more than once and its more like 3-4 times a month if that, and Ive delt with it for 3 years of being with her now its really becoming an issue and I hate it I love her and Im trying not to act on my sexual feelings like releasing as much as I can before I see her (sorry if its to much info trying to get it out literally lol) that doesnt work its getting so bad that I start scimming through porn I hate porn I want the real thing ya know. I have even notice myself flirting a bit more and thats the last thing I want to do is cheat guess what Im trying to ask is how normal is this and is this a therapy type deal should stay with her or is it wrong? (link)
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Well really the best thing to do is tell her about it.. but that just might gross her out.. So it's up to you. I would say this isn't normal because im a really horny person to and i like to have sex at least once a day but i dont crave it... I would go see maybe a doctor or a therapist to talk about how you feel.. Now if anything she has issue by not wanting to have sex that often.. most girls would love for a guy to wanna fuck them and plessure them.. You seem like my kinda guy.. lmao... but there is something wrong with craving it and wanting it that much.
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I like this guy, and he liked me, but then he started to like my best friend. A few months later he started liking me again but now he's crushing on her again, I think.
He always stops liking the girl he likes after a while, and I really want to keep his attention.
Can I have some tips on how to keep his attention on liking me?
I know that you all don't know him or I, but I know that you all could just give me a few tips (link)
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One thing to do is make it so he doesn't really know that he wants u because guys always want what they can't have... Also if u go on www.cosmopolitan.com there are lots of tips on there
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well im 13 years old and i have a boyfriend who is 4 years older than me...i really like him but i just cant trust him..he tells me he loves me constantly and u can tell he means it but I’m scared.....like a month ago i met this guy who is 5 years older than me .he is hella cool and we always talk. we are friends wit benefits.....I'm falling for him fast and hard .im planning on having sex wit him .but I feel kinda wrong …..what should I do im stuck i love both of them…….
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Hunny im really sorry to tell you this but after you have sex with that guy he probably will only talk you when he wants sex... i know older guys are chill and stuff becus i use to hang out with them all the time... But i have now relized why nobody wanted me dating older guys then me.. like they tell you they love you but they just want to wrap you around their fingure and it works everytime.. Honestly what has happend to me by older guys is soo bad and soo sad that i can't even talk about it.. But i would date someone your own age or like 1 or 2years older then you
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ok so this is sam, not onlyinyourdream... she is my friend... here is the question
i really like this guy... lets call him D and we are sort of a couple. But please dont judge me. but he lives far away. so i am also going out with S.... what should i do???
i am not sure that me and D are as close as we are because he has not called 3 weeks.
HELP ME
thank you ahead of times
♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○♥○PEACE OUT♥○♥○♥○♥ (link)
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Hunny if i were you i would just go for S because D is probably doing his own thing. Specially because he hasn't called in 3weeks.(WHAT A JERK) I once had a relationship like that and i never even end up talking to him until like a year in a half later... just dont talk to him... and go for S.. but ONLY if he treats you goood and makes you happy! Go with your heart... But try not to choose D cus he probably will just make you upset... and he is to far away you need excitment in your life for such a young girl..
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ok so i have been really good friends with this girl for about a month n then we started dating, and we dated for a little less then a week n then she told me that we would be better off as friend, n she dident tell me the reason, but then i found out the reason is that she is moving. so about a week later she starts to go out with my good friend, and now they have been going out for about 2 weeks. I still have very strong feelings for the girl and she claims to love me still but i really dont no wat to do because i still have feelings for her but i dont no wat to do (link)
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Well if i were you i would tell her that she has some nerve dating your friend... Dont even talk to her anymore because that is just a BITCH move of her.. Also tell your friend that he isnt a very good friend for dating her without even asking you if you are okay with it..
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how old do you have to be to get birth control without your parent's consent? (link)
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I was 14 when i started birth control and i went and talked to my family doctor about it.. he gave it to me.. now i would go see your family doctor because he knows you best. Now you dont have to worry about your mom finding out because what you talk to the doctor about he isnt able to tell your mom any of the information becus everything is confadential. But it is safer to be on it then off it... and ALWAYS use a condom..even if the guy doesnt want to tell him then you arent having sex with me! becarful of STDS.. i know im not your mom or anyone special to you but my friend learned the hard way and she has passed away because of an STD..
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i want to get my tongue pierced but see im terrible with pain. . . i got my second holes done in my ears and i wanted to like pass out so is it anything like that. . . im terrible with pain so that is my biggest fear. . and if i dont like the tongue ring thing and i take it out will i always have a hole in my tongue?
Thank YOu ...... (link)
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noo there will be no hole
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so for the past few weeks, i've been having personal trouble and i don't know what it might be. since i've gotten back with my boyfriend, i've been acting really different. since we're opposites, sometimes i act the way he does and not care about things, but then i realize i'm doing it and stop. little things he does like talking to girls or when girls try and flirt with him bug me and i start to get really irritable. i always have this anger in me when i think about other girls. so then i tried breaking up with him and i cried hysterically at the thought of me never being with him again because i love him so much. so i stayed with him but lately i feel like i'm not myself anymore. i really just want to go somewhere new and start off a whole new life, because sometimes it's hard for me to figure out who i truly am.
i don't know whether this is a clinical problem or what....i've noticed i don't have a regular sleep pattern (always less than 8 hours because i don't get tired until way late at night), i have RIDICULOUS mood swings (one minute i'm happy, then the next i'm angry, then i get really sad all within 20 minutes time). i've stopped eating so much because i don't feel the need for it until i grow really weak.
could it be my health? depression? lack of sleep? am i crazy?! should i go to a doctor?
i really don't know what to do. any help would be great. (link)
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I was in the same situation as you last year. I went to see someone for depression and i went to my doctor to be put on packsol. It is something that makes you think positive. It actully made me feel alot better about myself and made me not so angree anymore.. It seems like you have a lot of stress that you need to talk to someone about but it cant be someone you know right.. because it is so hard sometimes. if you need anything let me know im here for you and ready to talk when you need me
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sooo after my last question, everyone told me i should take my chance with Jay, so i did. and we've been together for 3 days i think. and two days ago he said he loved me and cared about me more than anyone. my last bf said that, too. and he swore he would never hurt me. emotionally, i mean. and he still did. and i let him say he loves me and i believed him so i started loving him too and then it scarred me for life after he broke it off. now i dont know if i should trust Jay with my heart, or if the glue is still drying. (talking metaphorically here, sorry) how will i know that hes not going to hurt me? how will i know who to trust with my love? (link)
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You wont really know if he is going to hurt you until it happens. I wouldn't tell anyone you love them until you really know it is for sure.. A lot of the time people say they love eachother but they dont really mean it. I woudln't trust him until he shows you they you can trust him. Wait it out.. feel it out... make sure you follow your heart and worry about yourself before him! So that you dont hurt yourself.
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We have a snowball( high school semiformal dance) coming up soon. I bought a dress for it quite awhile ago, and since then I've gained weight. Does anyone know of a any good corset/girdle type things what could help me look skinnier in my dress to help it fit better? thanks (link)
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There is also a nylon slip that you could put on and it makes your tummy look flat.. works like a charm
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Hey, I'm Hailey! I'm sixteen.
anthony and i ahve been going ou since mid august.
he's a year younger
only see eachother 3 days a week max. (distance)
hang out wiht mutual friends, never alone
can't be very intamit
i don't want to ask him to hang out alone because it may be awkward?
any tips? ideas? things i can do to improve the relationship? explanations?
THANKYOUU :) (link)
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Ask him to come over and watch a movie... because maybe he wants to be alone with you to its just he is afraid to ask... specially since he is a little younger.. But there isnt wrong with dating someone younger.
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