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i still like my ex, when we were going out it was so awkward cuz we didnt really know eavhother but now that weve broken up weve gotten really close and i think we both still have feelings for eachother but are afraid to admit it. How do i do it first even though im the girl? And what do i say if he doesnt like me back or gets freaked out. What do i say to tell him i still like him?
HELP
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this reminds of me and my current boyfriend. like you, when we went out the first time and it didnt work because we didnt know each other well enough. Again like you's, after we broke up we stayed friends and gradually got closer.
In the end it just got to the stage that we both plucked up the courage to talk about it. It started to bloom after we admited we liked each other. What we did for ages before that was that started talking about who we both liked because we were friends.i liked him and he liked me.
So for ages we were telling each other how much we liked each other but not actually telling if u catch my drift.
Finally, he told me he liked me.then i told him i liked him back soon after. we didnt go out straight away though. We then started talking and stuff and really got to know each other.
Then one day i went over to his house to hang out. When we were waiting on the bus, we talked things over. and he then couragously asked where we stood. We then started going out :)
and thats the best thing cos im now in love like i havent ever been before
so what you have to do is, i mean he's ur friend, you can obviously talk to him. You just need to talk to him and then if he rejects you then you need to let him know that you dont want it to change anything between you's and then start acting normal again.
theres no point being awkward because you wouldnt want to lose a good friend out of this :)
hope this helps :)
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You need to ask him directly how he feels for you. Tell him how you feel about him and ask whether you share the same feelings for one and another. Don't put preasure on him. Ask him to think about it for a while but if he's got a deffinite answer and says yes, the start the realtionship again.
If not...well, this is an area which i'd like to avoid. But just say that you two can still be friends and if he changes his mind, be ready to accept him for this could happen when you least expect it.
Good Luck!
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I would tell him listen now that we know eachother alot better i see how great of a person u are and i would like to start some kinda of a relationship with you... By you doing this it is making u a better person... and he will probably be shocked.. he probably feels the same way guys are just shy.. Tell him how you feel.. He will respect you for it
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