|
2 boys both older than me
well im 13 years old and i have a boyfriend who is 4 years older than me...i really like him but i just cant trust him..he tells me he loves me constantly and u can tell he means it but I’m scared.....like a month ago i met this guy who is 5 years older than me .he is hella cool and we always talk. we are friends wit benefits.....I'm falling for him fast and hard .im planning on having sex wit him .but I feel kinda wrong …..what should I do im stuck i love both of them…….
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I've been in the same situation, and the outcome sucked. Stuck between two loved ones, I chose one and left the other. I shattered my relationship with the one that was left out, and with the other girl things didnt go so well either. Ya, it lasted about 4 months, but the relationship was usually awkward and saddening. Plus, there was always that question of whether I really loved her more than the other girl in the back of her mind, and sometimes in the back of mine! (rather sad). We didn't even speak for a year after we severed ties.
Also, if you're scared of things around someone, you don't want to further you're relationship: back up a little and think about why you're scared and recognize if it will be a problem later on.
And finally, if you, a 13 year old girl, has sex with a 17 year old boy, things won't go well. He will see you only for your sex after that... almost all 17 year olds would. YOu'll drive him sex-crazed, and from then on he'll want to have sex... ALL THE TIME. Unless you want to end up with your head between his legs and your heart between two guys, back up and really think about what you're doing.
]
If you're in this situation that you can't choose between the two, you are not in love with either of them. Being in love with someone is an emotion that has no questions. I advise you not to have sex at such a young age. Being so young impairs your thinking. Having fun and making good decisions don't always come hand-in-hand. Also, I know this is hard to hear, but chances are that a boy so much older is just looking for someone to sleep with. Please give it some more thought.
-16/f
]
Hunny im really sorry to tell you this but after you have sex with that guy he probably will only talk you when he wants sex... i know older guys are chill and stuff becus i use to hang out with them all the time... But i have now relized why nobody wanted me dating older guys then me.. like they tell you they love you but they just want to wrap you around their fingure and it works everytime.. Honestly what has happend to me by older guys is soo bad and soo sad that i can't even talk about it.. But i would date someone your own age or like 1 or 2years older then you
]
To be quite honest, you must not love your boyfriend too much if you have a "friend with benefits" and plan to have sex with him.
Maybe you should break it off with your boyfriend, considering he deserves someone who respects him and returns the love he has to give by being faithful.
ygs-29/f
]
More Questions: |