Question Posted Thursday November 29 2007, 6:21 pm
I've had a crush on this guy for a while now and we are very close friends. I want to write him a note, but I don't know what to put in it. How do I write a sweet note, but not come on too strong?
15/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lilmzhotstuff answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:54 pm: Ok well first find out who he likes so you don't make youself look like a complete idiot! And then tell him how you feel, liittle by little and maybe he'll feel the same about you. And if he does that would be great!!!! And if he doesn't well then at least he knows how you feel about him. And if or when you do write the note, tell him u understand if he doesn't like you the way you like him and you would be ok if you guys just stayed friends. Even if u don't want 2 stay friends. But being friends is better than nothing! Hope this helped!
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xomegaroni answered Thursday November 29 2007, 7:19 pm: I think you should just be honest & explain your feelings. Explain how you feel about him & how you like him more than a friend, but you still want his friendship even if he doesn't feel the same. Tell him that you're writing a note because it's a lot more personal & it is easier for you to get your feelings out that way. You could also say that you want to tell him because you guys are such close friends & you don't want to keep anything from him. As long as you explain to him that you want to remain friends no matter what happens between you guys, he should be okay with the situation. You never know, he might even like you back. Writing a note is a very cute thing to do & he'll probably respect you for it.
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