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I have been going out with this girl for like 3 or 4 months and we haven't kissed not even like hug but i dont want to bring it up like... you know so can SOMEONE PLEASE HELP i love her and she loves me but im to afraid of asking her or some thing so help!! plz!

shes probey waiting for you to make the first move or shes prude well good luck! hope it works out! =) x0x

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me and my boyfriend broke up and i think he wants me back. what should i do!!!!???? he flirts with me and he is so sweet to me. should we go out again? plus he said he loved me

. . .DIFFENATLY . .but only if you still love him bak! good luck! =) x0x

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my name is amy iam 18 and i recently got out of my three year relationship with my first love david. we had an awesome relationship with no major difficulties. the only pitt fall of us was that early in our relationship i cheated on him, it was nothing serious, but it took a lot for us to get through it, but we did and we were very happy up until now. i was the cause of our breakup because we were both going into our senior year and i felt like some healthy space between us would be good. we both agreed that we didnt want to just be completely done so after about three months of taking things slower and casually dating around we both decided to get back together. a week after this mutual he decided to date erika. she had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years just a couple of days before her and david got together. her brother had recently committed suicide due to steroids that had been supplied to him by erikas boyfriend which promoted her to break up with him. i was mad and hurt when i found out and just gave david all the cliche "i hope you know what your loosing" and "no one can love you the way i can" lines. he only replied with an "iam sorry i will always love you". we didnt talk for two weeks, then he started to randomly call and text message me, while he was still dating erika. i stayed strong and resisted him for a month. over thanksgiving break i finally gave in and answered my phone. we talked for hours about nothing and made plans to go job hunting the next day and try out our new relationship as "friends". although i acted as if nothing was wrong the next day, i was hurting inside so bad. all i wanted to do was say how much i missed him and how i wished he would take me back. but i didnt. i held back my emotions until i was in the privacy of my room. i promised myself then that i was never going to call him first, and i haven't to this day. if he wanted to hang out he could call me. we went a couple of days without talking when he called me one night and asked me to come over to look at something he got for his car. it was late and against my better judgement i went. we ended up getting intimate and we both cried to each other and came to what i thought was the understanding that we both werent ready to be "friends" and to just treat this night as closure and i asked him to not call me anymore. that lasted about a week. since then we have been off and on for five months now, he has intimately cheated on erika countless times with me that she doesnt know about. i know that our relationship is wrong and unhealthy and ive tried to cut it off many times but i always give into him becuase he doesnt listen to me when i tell him not to call. i would always avoid the erika subject around david mostly because i was afraid of what i was going to hear, but i recently got up the courage to ask him if he really loved her. he said that he really did and i told him that i didnt believe him, and i still dont. i told him to leave my room if he really loved her and he quickly changed the subject and stayed the entire night. when i asked him how and why he loved her he said she was really caring, implying that i didnt care about him because of the mistake i made so early on in our relationship. i dont believe that david loves erika not only becuase he cheats on her, but he doesnt even have the decency to tell her about it. i feel as thought david feels obligated to her because of her brther and becuase of how fast she attatched herself to him because of how vulnerable she was. although we have finally stopped telling each other we love each other i know with everything that we still do. he still tells me that he doesn't want to lose me and that he has a lot of feelings for me still. ive told him that that is pretty hard to believe when he has been saying i love to someone else for the past five months and he never says anything back to me. i know iam not being nieve because i can feel how in love we are still when we're together, and not just physically, our best friend connection is still there. ive told him all of this and he doesn't agree or disagree. when i asked him recently why he never responds with anything relevant to what i ask, he said that he didnt want to say something to get my hopes up. i told him that i didnt care what he said to me as long as it was what he truly feels and if he truly feels like hes ready to just walk away from us and be with erika then he needs to say it so i dont sit around thinking something is there when its not. that conversation took place yesterday and he didnt reply and that was the last time we talked. i know the right thing to do would be to just move on and forget about him, but thats so hard to do when everything inside of me knows that we're going to be together and that he truly loves me. we are going to be starting the same college in the fall so it not like its going to end after high school. i dont want to lose my best friend but i cant handle being on his back burner anymore. i know that we could be happy again, and i know that he doesnt love erika. i just really want to know the right words to say to him, and if i should follow my heart and try to be with the one person i have ever loved or if we are just doomed. i want my best friend back. please help me :(

w0w, . . wat a story i can relate to some of it and i think that you need to tel him the things that you just said and you need to tell him that he was your first love and you dont want to get over him and you want to be more then friends and you could say that no one will every love you like i do . . .well good luck i hope that everything works out and that you get him bak! good luck!!=) x0x

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I'm 15/f and a freshman in highschool. Lately I've been having problems with my phys. ed. teacher. I'm not going to be around the bush about this, but he's an asshole. (excuse my language). He's always such a jerk to me about every little thing. A friend of mine had a shirt on that she changed into for PE that had a picture of George Bush Sr. and George Bush on it and it sayd Dumb and Dumber under their pictures. He had a fit about it and I was supporting her saying that she can have an opinion about whatever the heck she wants to. He basically said she's not allowed to have an opinion about it until she's 18. Then he proceeded to say how he can run his class the way he wants to and if I have a problem with it to take it up with the principal. Not only is he a jerk, but alot of the time he seems like one of those really creepy pedophile type people. He's always staring at me when we do stretches and stands behind me when we're doing toe- touches. We had to do jumping jacks this weird way and I'm not coordinated enough to do it so he asked me to stay after class about it. We were doing lay ups when we played basketball and I suck at any sport that involves a ball and he asked me to stay after class to work on it when there were about 5 other people that sucked 10 times worse than me but didn't ask them to stay after. What exactly should I do about this? I mean, he hasn't made "a move" on me so I can't really say much about that but what should I do? Sorry this was long!

maybe he likes you MORE then the other students . . or he just wants to help you to play to your abilitiy good luck hope it works ou =) x0x

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me?

. . .maye hes waiting for you to make the first move . .good luck! =) x0x

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Alright I was asked out by this guy i really like but the problem is that my friend likes him too. What should i do? Should i breack up with the guy and keep my friendship togheter, not that my friend won't be my friend anymore, or should i stay together with him and tell my friend that she will get over it?

if shes a REAL friend she wont care that your going out with him! good luck! =) x0x

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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it

they way that i hear it yes . . but thats just wat i think! good luck! =) x0x

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My boyfriend and I sometimes get in like Hickey fights. He always gives me them but whenever I try to give him one it never works...Ive tried on myself at home before too and I think im doing something wrong. My question is exactly how do u give a hickey and do you know of tips to help it work better besides like biting?

. .suck hard???? well good luck =) x0x

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I have looked at what seems every possible internet site that relates to my question. But here it is,:Does anyone know a site or anywhere, that has a list of the best highschool in Rhode Island? Like a ranking list? Like:

1.) The best school
2.) The 2nd best school
and so on

you could go to google.com or askjeeves.com ! good luck! hope it helped! =) x0x

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What is oral sex?

sry . .i wouldnt know that question! umm . . i think its just like normal sex i dont know! sry! good luck hope u find what you need! =) x0x

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I know about cutting and what cutters do..but i watched tv the other day and it showed a girl who snapped a rubber band on her wrist and needed phyciatric help for it...what does a rubber band do and whats the purpos?

well the purpose of it is to take place of cutting liek everytime u want to cut urself u snap the rubber band! good luck! hope it helped =) x0x

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ok im really confuesed because i have liked this guy a long time and we have gone out and stuff but we are just friends now. Even though i live in paris and he lives in new york ((long story)) i still love him but he doesnt love me anymore i dont know what to do. hes has moved on obviously but i havent ive tried but it hasnt workd for me. what shouls i do?

try to find another guy thats wat helped me get over sumone that i liked 2,000 miles aways from me but now i have a boyfriend and it was the best way to get over him cuz i've tryied befor and it didnt work and now . . its workin! well good luck and i hope that everything works out for you and u get over him! =) x0x

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ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing???

you did a good think telling him and his the inmatuer one here! but u really did do the right thing and if you wouldnt have told him he would have maybe found out by himself and thats never good! good luck! hope everything works out!=) x0x

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Alright heres the story ... I had to break up with the man I love becuase he cheated on me ... I still really want to be with him though but i'm staying away form that for now. We talk online all the time and on the phone, he says hes really sorry he had to loose me to a girl he doesnt even like. Well I recently asked my mom if he could come and visit me over the summer for two weeks and she said maybe, yes its an internet relationship but dont think about that cuase I know hes not a creep trust me I'm so paranoid about that stuff well anyways what I wanna know is should I have him come up here? We both really want to see each other and I know we will be making out the whole time and i know he still loves me he didnt even ask the girl out she asked him.

I'm almost 16 and he will be 16 in a few days.

well . . if you know him and your sure his not a creep or anything go for it! good luck! =) x0x

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i have the worst time getting up in the morning. I fall asleep around ten and TRY to wake up at 6:30. my alarm will go off, ill wake up, but then i go back to sleep till 7:15 and miss the bus. Can anybody help me wake up better in the morning?

well i go to bed round 6:0 and wake up round 5:55 every mornig but u could try to put your alarm clock on the other side of your room that way you have to wake to stop it and u'll wake up . . orr .you could take a shower in the morning that always wakes me up! good luck! =) x0x

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ok, so this is the deal..i met this wonderful guy this summer, but he has a GF. Anyway, we spent 6 weeks together and we made out, held hand and all that (IT WAS WONDERFUL!) please dont tell me what i did was wrong, i know it was but i dont care cuz i love him, i really do. And he's told me that he loves me too. We made a deal yesterday (he's been with his GF for about 2 years, and he says he loves her too) he said, he doesnt want to cheat on her anymore cuz he loves her but if the feeling is right-something could happen between us this summer. And i was like: what do you mean? and he asnwered: well, im gonna have my place all to my self this summer soo..who knows what could happen between us!? ;) anyway, i live in japan and he lives in america so we only see eachother during the summer. Hmm, id ont really know what my question is..im just so cofused..i love him so much, and i miss him..i really dont give a damn about his GF (i know i sound like an evil person, but i really really really love him, i cant help i.)Is there anything i can do to get over him? should i even try to get over him? should i sleep with him? (he's 18 and im 14) what's gonna happen between us? ( sorry, i know you cant answer that question) he's just so amazing i dont know what to do. Alot of guys like me here in japan, but i dont like anyone of them im just soo stuck on joshua.
Help! please?- mariana

well sumthing liek that kinds happened 2 me like only geting to see the person in the summer, but if you love him that much and he loves you 2 u shouldn't get over him BUT . . his kinds using you as like a gurl in the summer thats wat it sounds like well good luck! =) x0x

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hello! i have a crush on this really hott skater. he used to lik me but this all drama thing happened (long story)but then i saw him again and i acted lik a total geek and lik this stalker girl and im not i was just tryin to get him to lik talk to me and try to get him to lik em again. but i saw him to day and i want to talk to him and i dont want him to think im this stalker person. so wat should i do? thanks

just walk up 2 him and start a conversation he wont think that your a stalker a stalker is like a person that follows you everywhere you go and calls you and stuff! dont worry your far from it! good luck hope you get hte guy! =) x0x

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okay well my friend who's been like my best friend since i was 6 ((im 13 now)) and it just feels like were drifting appart. i dont know what to do. i dont want to tell him because he might get mad at me. he isnt like that but he might. he's always getting mad at me because he says im a player and i never stay with one guy, but we just joke about it. but i dont know what to do. please dont tell me to tell him, because i dont want to, i think i could have thought about that myself.

. . did u ever think that he might like you? and maybe thats why he jokes around bout that stuff. welll the only way to let him kno how you feel is to tell himm i know you realy dont want to do that right know but it would be the best thing to do? good luck hope it helps! hope everything works out! =) x0x

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i want to get the code for the song(oh) by ciara but without the music video..i'm going to be putting it in my myspace so it needs to work there..could someone who knows the definite link to the song code please send me it..Thanks!!

go to www.videocodes4u.com thats were i get all my music videos good luck hope it helped! =) x0x

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im a thirteen year old responsible teenager the problem with me is that my parents are getting a divorce. i dont have a problem with dat because my dad treats my mum like shit he beats her up and all all that stuff. Now i really want a boyfreind but my mum says no she says you cant have one till im 21 when i asked her why she said because in her day the didnt have boyfreinds at that age. everytime i want 2 mke my own decisions she makes them for me like wat clubs to join wat freinds i should hve what clothes to wear and im getting sick of it (i always have been) please help i also have a problem confronting her with my problems because she dups all her problems on me like im her phycatrist or sth, i cry myself to sleep everyday plse help

you should tell her, even though you dont want to really talk to her thats the best thign to do tell her that you'r old enough to make your own descions and that she can trust you with them! good luck hope it helped! hope everythig works out well! =) x0x

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