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drifting away
okay well my friend who's been like my best friend since i was 6 ((im 13 now)) and it just feels like were drifting appart. i dont know what to do. i dont want to tell him because he might get mad at me. he isnt like that but he might. he's always getting mad at me because he says im a player and i never stay with one guy, but we just joke about it. but i dont know what to do. please dont tell me to tell him, because i dont want to, i think i could have thought about that myself.
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ok i think he likes you and he is mad caus e your going out with all these guys and not him one night just go over to his house and talk think about it do you like him and has he dropped a few signs that he likes you but dont joke about it with him
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He may like you, but thats a whole different advice letter..
Just talk to him, make group plans, something! If something does come between you guys it will drift over. Just try to hang out more. That's the only way to stop your realationship from going to the dumps.
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plan some 1 on 1 time with ur friend. invite him over to watch movies or something or do something that yall used to do with each other before yall started drifting from each other. be creative and i hope it all works out
-mads
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You asked for advice, and I am going to give it to whether or not it is what you want to hear or not. The <b>only</b> way to solve this problem with him is to <b>talk to him about it</b>. Point blank. He will never know how upset he is making you unless you tell him. And if you have been friends with someone for seven years, then there shouldn't be a problem with you telling him <b>exactly how you feel</b>. A true friend gives your feelings the upmost respect. And a true friend would want to know when he/she is hurting another friends feelings. If he isn't the kind of person to get mad at you for expressing your feelings, then you should have no fear in talking to him. If you just can't talk to him about your problem, then what are you saying about your friendship? That it isn't important enough to save? Talk to him, and see where it goes from there.
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You really have to talk to him. I mean, I had a best friend last year, and we knew each other since we were 5, and then she drifted off and I let her, but if I would have talked to her, maybe things would be different, but then again if she would have mised me yanoo.. she would have came back herself also. It might just be the age, so give it like a week, and I know you don't want to but you should really talk to him ♥
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. . did u ever think that he might like you? and maybe thats why he jokes around bout that stuff. welll the only way to let him kno how you feel is to tell himm i know you realy dont want to do that right know but it would be the best thing to do? good luck hope it helps! hope everything works out! =) x0x
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