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My ex coming to visit ...
Alright heres the story ... I had to break up with the man I love becuase he cheated on me ... I still really want to be with him though but i'm staying away form that for now. We talk online all the time and on the phone, he says hes really sorry he had to loose me to a girl he doesnt even like. Well I recently asked my mom if he could come and visit me over the summer for two weeks and she said maybe, yes its an internet relationship but dont think about that cuase I know hes not a creep trust me I'm so paranoid about that stuff well anyways what I wanna know is should I have him come up here? We both really want to see each other and I know we will be making out the whole time and i know he still loves me he didnt even ask the girl out she asked him.
I'm almost 16 and he will be 16 in a few days.
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ok i your really shure he is that old whatb he looks like and what he is like how long have you known him if you trust him well anuff you should be dating then makingout go slower or your going to end up with a baby if you really like him o out go on a date dont kiss him the first day set limits i think that if he wants to commmet go for it but just cause he lives far and you dont get to see him alot dosent mean you should have sex or anything like that keep a connection going you could end getting married or being best frinds i think if you wanna go out with him go for but tke it slow (he wants to change for you he really likes you) but if you wanna be friends you cant kiss him and dont go out just to kisss each other you should decide yourself on this one
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You can only be dating someone that you can physically go out with. So, if you've never even seen this guy how could he cheat on you? He didn't. He cheated on a computer screen.
If you want to meet him. Sure, if mom approves.I think you are wasting your youth talking to a computer screen only. You need to date someone in the area where you live before life passes you by though.
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i think you should see each other because i know how it feels because i cheated on my bf (only kissed another guy) and i still love him alot and wish i could get back with him but he wont take me bak so take him bak yall are in love and if you really love him you will take him back because i lost the love of my life and there hasnt been a truly happy day without him. and maybe it's 4 the best to take a second chance. evry one deserves a second chance right? well i never got my second chance so pls give him his second chance. well hope i helped good luck.
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If he cheated on you, no, dont. He could just do it again. xO ali
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I have a lot of experience in infidelity, and even though your boyfriend apologized to you, that doesn't mean that he won't do it again. You have to question his integrity and judge for yourself if this is someone you want to trust with your heart. You are making a smart choice by staying away from him for now. I know that you have to be hurting right now, and you have to heal before you can even think about pursuing a relationship with him again. The choice for him to come up is one that you will have to think about long and hard. If you think by seeing him, it will make your relationship stronger, then go for it. But while he is up there, you should talk to him face-to-face and tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that you will not tolerate anymore cheating from him from that point on.
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well . . if you know him and your sure his not a creep or anything go for it! good luck! =) x0x
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