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OKEY. i HAVENT BEEN ON THiS iN AWHiLE.
iTS LiKE EVERYONE QUiTE.
BUT YEAHH iM STiLL UP FOR GiViNG ADViCE.
i DO iT ANYWAYS SO WHY NOT ON HERE?
SO YEAH ASKKK AWAY. iLY

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17/f
soo here's the deal...ive never had a boyfriend
and havent done like anything with a guy before
except madeout..and ive only done that with 2
guys and the last one was last year..
im always scared to do things with guys like
everyone thinks im soo gorgeous and they're always shocked when they heard ive never had a boyfriend or anything..but everytime a guy wants to makeout with me or something im always like no..or i'll try to avoid doing it because im scared im not going to be good at it..i mean a year..thats a long time!! and i'll be embarassed..and ive gotten asked or like i know guys have wanted to do stuff with me but its just that im scared..and there like the really hot guys and if im not good at doing something..i'll make a fool of myself! i just dont know what to do?! i feel like a prude..and i dont want to be ...im going into 12th grade..i think its kinda sad that ive only madeout with 2 guys..one going into 10th grade and one last yr..i never want to put my self in a situation that i think a guy is going to try to put a move on me either..like watching a movie or being alone with a guy...i mean i dont think im ugly but im not conceited..its just everyone thinks im pretty and is like WOW..cant believe you havent had a boyfriend or havent done much with a guy..its not that i dont want to..its that im scared! and im shy SOMETIMES..soo its like i dont wanna talk to the guy either and be like well i might be kinda bad..thats not like me!!
any ideas? thank you!

listen its nothing to be ashamed of. if you dont want to do stuff and your kinda scared then maybe it isnt the right time i was the same way i had only kissed to boys up until i was 17 then finally things just slowly started to happen. and i dont mean sex...but i just wasnt as scared because i was very comfortable with the guy. im 17 now and know exactly where you are coming from. people used to say the same thing to me and couldnt believe i hadnt done anything with a guy. but its ok move at your own pace. dont worry about what other people and guys do...its all up to you. and i think it is a good thing. i mean your only 17. there is no need to rush things. i hope i helped. and if u have any more questions go ahead and ask ok. bye now.

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ok when a guy asks you to "give him head" does that mean to give him a blow job? if not then what are you supposed to do??

when i guy asks u to give him head...then yess that means give him a blow job. there are many names for all sexually things. hope i helped and be safe. =]

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sorry if its long.

14/f. me and my best friend were inseparable, until she got a new boyfriend. (i'll call my friend jen and her boyfriend zack.) jen started hiding lots of things from me, stuff we used to tell each other all the time. she started sneaking out and doing vandalism like spray painting, TPing, forking, egging, rubberbanding etc.
she told me this and told me not to tell ANYONE.
but im not sure i can do that. should i tell someone like my mom?
or do I keep quiet...?

i REALLY THiNK YOU SHOULD TELL SOMEONE. i MEAN iF YOU && YOUR MOM HAVE A CLOSE RELATiONSHiP iM SURE SHE WiLL TAKE U SERiOUSLY. && WAT YOUR FRiEND iS DOiNG iS VERY BAD. && iF SHE iS SUCH A G0OD FRiEND THEN U SHOULD HELP HER. MAYBE TRY TALKiNG TO HER ABOUT iT FiRST && iF THAT DOESNT WORK[THEN RESORT TO TELLING SOMEONE ELSE] BYE NOW. =]]

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I am a 13 year old guy, and me and my girlfriend broke up not that long ago because I liked a different girl, but she's like really mad at me because I said, "If she doesn't want me, I don't need her."
That girl that I liked doesn't like me back (well at least i think she doesn't) and I don't know what to do. I lost my girlfriend, and now I cant even get the girl that I like right now.

SOUNDS TO ME LiKE YOU SHOULD HAVE PUT A LiTTLE MORE THOUGHT iNTO THAT BEFORE YOU DECiDED WAT YOU WERE GUNNA DO. ALWAYS THiNK BEFORE YOUR ACTiONS. BUT DONT WORRY HUN. UR ONLY 13 PLENTY OF GiRLS WiLL COME AROUND. && MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR EX-GiRLFRiEND[iF YOU STiLL LiKE HER] && iF YOU DONT && YOU LiKE THE OTHER GiRL MORE THEN TALK TO HER. THAT ALWAYS HELPS.[HOPE i COULD HELP SOME] BYE NOW. =/

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