Alright I was asked out by this guy i really like but the problem is that my friend likes him too. What should i do? Should i breack up with the guy and keep my friendship togheter, not that my friend won't be my friend anymore, or should i stay together with him and tell my friend that she will get over it?
DrSaLi087 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 4:19 pm: ew. no. she needs to get over it. okay...i think you really need to have a talk with your friend, ask if what is going on is okay and i am sure she will be okay. just make sure that you let her know that your friendship with her is more important than the guy. if of course, that is truely the fact. [ DrSaLi087's advice column | Ask DrSaLi087 A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 1:55 am: Go out with him. You are the one he asked. Your friend will be upset at first but she wasn't dating him she just liked him. Same as you did.
What makes you think that her wants are more important than yours? They are not. So date him and have fun. Your friend will get over it.Same as you would have if it had gone the other way. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xOtWiXi answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 11:18 pm: Even though your friend likes him, if she's a true friend, she will understand. It's no big deal- girls will like the same guys. Don't drop your friend though - guys will always be there, but a true friend won't! ♥ Good luck! Hopefully it will work out, I'm sure your friend will understand, and maybe see you guys happy together one day and understand. [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
feverdancer03 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 10:56 pm: I think that you should go out with him....and make sure you keep one on one time with you friend too! I mean friends are more important then guys, but sometimes you need ot take the risk with him. You wouldnt want to always think..."what would have happened if I did stay with him." Also dont talk about him infront of your friend a lot, unless she asks about him. Hope i helped! [ feverdancer03's advice column | Ask feverdancer03 A Question ]
GheadMak3myDay answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:25 pm: All's fair in love and war. No person can possess any other person. If they did, it's called slavery. No person can call 'dibs' on another person. It's whoever that person wants to be with. Congrats! That person chosen was you. You friend will seeth and simmer with anger but if she was really your friend, she'd be happy either way (you getting the boy or her getting the boy). [ GheadMak3myDay's advice column | Ask GheadMak3myDay A Question ]
twstandshout32 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:37 pm: if your already goign out wit the guy and she is still cool with it then stay with him..i mean its not like she had dibs on him but dont get to cocky ok? if she is a real friend she wont get mad and support you two....tell me what happens!Good Luck! [ twstandshout32's advice column | Ask twstandshout32 A Question ]
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