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I have been going out with this girl for like 3 or 4 months and we haven't kissed not even like hug but i dont want to bring it up like... you know so can SOMEONE PLEASE HELP i love her and she loves me but im to afraid of asking her or some thing so help!! plz!
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Well i take it your a male.. she probably wants the same thing and probably jus not speaking up.. you should make a move it will probably make her feel better hun..i would kiss her quite yet atleast not on the mouth yet..id kiss her on the cheek when you give her a hug goodbye.. jus make the move if she shows that she doesnt like it then she probably has issues.. but i wouldnt discuss it with her id jus take a hug.. its not such a big deal..much luv dez x0x0
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so you have been going OUT ? or just like "kind of With her"? tell me..because i had a problem likke this with a boy though..and i am a girl...so i can help..cause i was the one was shy..so answer quick!
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if i were you i would just give her a hug next time you are leaving each other of something--if you are going out it wont be awkward--things should build up from there
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so you guys are a little shy theres nothing wrong with that... get together with all your friends and go to the movies or someones house.. if you see her sitting down go sit by her and start talking to her.. put your arm around her and if shes ok with it.. kiss her! .. also when you have to leave to go somewhere give her a hug.. hope everything turns out ok.. good luck!
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Don't ask her just go ahead.Get it over with. She's probably sitting on pin's and needle's waiting for it too! Once you break the ice it will be easier the next time.
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Hi! You don't say how old you are, but I'm assuming pretty young. So, what I'm going to tell you is not about kissing, but about confidence. Your girlfriend is probably thinking that there is something wrong with her because you haven't even hugged her, much less kissed her. This is my suggestion. Take her for a walk and when you get somewhere that is fairly private. I wouldn't say one word. And PLEASE, PLEASE, don't ASK her if you can kiss her. She has probably wanting it as much as you. Lean into her and keep an eye out for any negative reactions. Give her a quick kiss on the lips slowly. Then do it again. This will give you some idea whether or not you can continue. Before you kiss her again, just say very quietly (almost in a whisper) and tell her you've been dying to kiss her for a very long time. She may lower her head a little and if she does, (it's just shyness) but she doesn't actually move away from you, place one hand on her face or her hair and kiss her again, longer this time. At this point, she will kiss you back and you'll be on your way to a REAL boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Then as a final word...tell her she's a great kisser to give her a little confidence. She will probably tell her that you are too and you will be more confident in kissing her the next time.
Good luck!
Linda
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thats really true girls do hate it when they have to make the first move just go ahead and kiss her its no big deal..but if she is prude then thats another story....tell me wat happens!hope i helped! Good Luck!
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shes probey waiting for you to make the first move or shes prude well good luck! hope it works out! =) x0x
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Make the first move. Girls hate when guys dont and when the girl has to make the first move. Go up to her a hug her and give her a kiss on the cheek. x0
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